auscent Posted May 15, 2017 Report Share Posted May 15, 2017 Maybe some moments of sweetness when u think abt that cute guy, but nothing concrete comes out of unrequited love. Is that what u deserve? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adamsam Posted May 15, 2017 Report Share Posted May 15, 2017 On 2017-5-15 at 2:17 AM, Guest GentleLoveXo said: I'm in love with this guy but I'm not his type. He still cares for me tho. However it hurts me alot. And many people tell me there are many other fishes in the sea but this fish to me is more precious than any other. I feel so hurt. I cried the whole night because of him. Awww.... yes there are many fish. But somehow he is the most special one right? I know how you feel. ZKT279 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted May 15, 2017 Report Share Posted May 15, 2017 9 hours ago, Guest GentleLoveXo said: I really love him...... Love is both ways. One way is admiration, lust or obsession. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GentleLoveXo Posted May 16, 2017 Report Share Posted May 16, 2017 He scolded me yesterday. Things are getting worse and I really can bear it anymore...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 美人鱼 Posted May 16, 2017 Report Share Posted May 16, 2017 1 hour ago, Guest GentleLoveXo said: He scolded me yesterday. Things are getting worse and I really can bear it anymore...... 打是疼，骂是爱。你好幸福。 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZKT279 Posted May 16, 2017 Report Share Posted May 16, 2017 7 hours ago, Phil said: Wise advice, MB, but maybe not so easy to follow... Love makes us blind (or stupid...). I have to agree on this.... I was blind n stupid too... i can't even make my own decision when i'm around him... adamsam 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZKT279 Posted May 16, 2017 Report Share Posted May 16, 2017 (edited) 3 hours ago, Guest GentleLoveXo said: He scolded me yesterday. Things are getting worse and I really can bear it anymore...... More of a sign that u MUST let him go ASAP.... OR u r going to loose him forever... not even a friendship will be there if u still holding on to it.... My humble advise: (this is what i did) 1. Tell him that u want to meet him for the very last time n have a talk. At a cafe or something... public place. 2. Sit down n try to have a normal chat w/o being emotional. (I know its hard, but try to control it) 3. Ask him all the Question that u have, that u want to know, ask him to answer it honestly... this might help u in getting ur closure. 4. Get everything clear between u n him... 5. Say ur last GOOD BYE to him... i need to do this as a sign n telling to urself that u r letting him go. 6. Get a few of ur best friends standing-by to be by urside after u had said ur good bye. Trust me, u can't be alone by urself at this moment. U'll need someone to keep u company. 7. Slowly accepting n digesting that he is no longer part of urlife. U mustlive ur life to the fullest... this is the time u need to reflect back on ur life. What u want to do..... 8. Just give time, a time to heal ur wounded heart... 9. Once u r ok... have moved on...then u can cont being his friends Edited May 16, 2017 by ZKT279 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adamsam Posted May 16, 2017 Report Share Posted May 16, 2017 5 hours ago, ZKT279 said: More of a sign that u MUST let him go ASAP.... OR u r going to loose him forever... not even a friendship will be there if u still holding on to it.... My humble advise: (this is what i did) 1. Tell him that u want to meet him for the very last time n have a talk. At a cafe or something... public place. 2. Sit down n try to have a normal chat w/o being emotional. (I know its hard, but try to control it) 3. Ask him all the Question that u have, that u want to know, ask him to answer it honestly... this might help u in getting ur closure. 4. Get everything clear between u n him... 5. Say ur last GOOD BYE to him... i need to do this as a sign n telling to urself that u r letting him go. 6. Get a few of ur best friends standing-by to be by urside after u had said ur good bye. Trust me, u can't be alone by urself at this moment. U'll need someone to keep u company. 7. Slowly accepting n digesting that he is no longer part of urlife. U mustlive ur life to the fullest... this is the time u need to reflect back on ur life. What u want to do..... 8. Just give time, a time to heal ur wounded heart... 9. Once u r ok... have moved on...then u can cont being his friends Hard but true Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lohwpr Posted May 16, 2017 Report Share Posted May 16, 2017 (edited) 23 hours ago, Guest GentleLoveXo said: I really love him...... I know... U will be forced to face reality when he find his better half. Similar to yours, I was forced to face my reality when he found his better half. I went thru 3 months of deep depression and pain.... I knew I had to get out of that state. I cut off all contact, Facebook and etc to cold-turkey myself. This was carried out against what I want but I knew it was necessary. Otherwise, 没完没了。 This was 3 years ago and I am still not totally out of it. But, I get better day by day. Edited May 16, 2017 by lohwpr ZKT279 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nothinghello Posted May 16, 2017 Report Share Posted May 16, 2017 People keep giving u advise and concern about you but I'm the end u r the one need to settle everything. Either u take your bf or give up your bf. 24 year old so young, u have a lot of time to waste and think about it. Carefully think what u want with him in your life. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GentleLoveXo Posted May 17, 2017 Report Share Posted May 17, 2017 Then yesterday my friend had sex with him, I was so hurt that I slashed my own arm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted May 18, 2017 Report Share Posted May 18, 2017 On 5/15/2017 at 7:17 AM, Guest GentleLoveXo said: I'm fat. He used to be fat too. But now he slim alr. And to me, he's like a pearl in the vast ocean. I can't really let go. It's even more painful if I do so It seems that he is the center of your life, you are fat, and he is now slim. He changed from fat to slim. It is amazing what people can do when their life depends on it. Things much more difficult than losing weight, although this is hard. What better opportunity to learn discipline and in this way take control of your life than you doing what it takes to become slim? All it takes is a big push to get started, and then the discipline to maintain a small effort every day. People doubt that they can do a huge effort, but it can be as effective to maintain small daily efforts through discipline. There is plenty of information around about losing weight through discipline and TIME (remember, effort needs to be sustained long, long time) What can impress your guy more than a change in you that he might have never thought possible? Could this make you "his type" again or for the first time? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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