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On 4/9/2024 at 11:21 PM, Guest Traveller said:

Must try swimming pool plaza festival in south jakarta

And toilet in there u can try 

 

On 4/10/2024 at 12:51 PM, asiandude said:

Share your experience ;)

 

Just be cautious.

In such countries people tend to do a lot of advertising to pull you to the locations and pay the entrance fee but later nothing much is there.

 

Easier just to play the apps and get something.

 

 

 

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On 4/10/2024 at 1:48 PM, durianking said:

heard the changing room is happening. some guys will stare at you from head to toe :)

and many guys wear skimpy swimwear ... 

 

This "I hear from someone"...

I bet many guys here booked the Pullman hotel in Jakarta just to find out that the jacuzzi, steam batch was empty with no action at all.

 

Unless you're exhibitionist but what do you get from showing off your body to a crowd of people who just look...

 

Most gyms from the bigger chains are surely better places to get a hot guy into your room. Check with your current gym membership if it extends to Indonesia and there you go...

 

 

 

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I'm in Jakarta, and I'm using the sauna at this moment at a 5 stars hotel but there seems to be no one here. Will be here for a week or two, looking for some fun.

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This is my third day in Jakarta and I find LGBT life here mostly sad. The reason behind this is that there are not many gay cruise areas, bathhouses or gay massage centers. LGBT mostly rely on apps like Grindr.

 

Meeting via the grindr app is also not very safe, as many reviews mention security, theft, and even trouble by inviting people from the app to guest rooms.

 

Since I'm here I would love to try an Indonesian guy but unfortunately when I tried to search in Grindr I was able to find a Malaysian guy to play with instead of Indonesian guy.

 

Well, I'm still trying to find and hope to meet someone during my stay at the hotel facilities like sauna and steam room.

 

Allowing outsiders to return to the room would not be the first choice as safety always comes first and I can see security being slightly less safe in Jakarta. Even locals do not recommend walking alone on the road but recommend to take a grab rides.
 

I just met one for fun so far during my three days in Jakarta, but hope to meet some good Indonesians to hang out or even fun. 

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27 minutes ago, imm_georgie said:

This is my third day in Jakarta and I find LGBT life here mostly sad. The reason behind this is that there are not many gay cruise areas, bathhouses or gay massage centers. LGBT mostly rely on apps like Grindr.

 

Meeting via the grindr app is also not very safe, as many reviews mention security, theft, and even trouble by inviting people from the app to guest rooms.

 

Since I'm here I would love to try an Indonesian guy but unfortunately when I tried to search in Grindr I was able to find a Malaysian guy to play with instead of Indonesian guy.

 

Well, I'm still trying to find and hope to meet someone during my stay at the hotel facilities like sauna and steam room.

 

Allowing outsiders to return to the room would not be the first choice as safety always comes first and I can see security being slightly less safe in Jakarta. Even locals do not recommend walking alone on the road but recommend to take a grab rides.
 

I just met one for fun so far during my three days in Jakarta, but hope to meet some good Indonesians to hang out or even fun. 

 

The police in Jakarta has been pressuring gay saunas with repeated riots until the last one closed down. 

 

The pressure from religious groups is also very high. 

 

Indonesia is maybe not Malaysia where the police are simply closing two eyes on what is going on in gay saunas and massage parlours.

 

Strangely, Indonesia doesn't criminalise gay sex but seems a bit more adverse to homosexuality. 

 

But open display of homosexual affection is not very common in Malaysia also. 

 

I never experienced any theft or security issues from Indonesian locals (and taking them to the room). The only issue you may face is that a guy from an app asks for money later on while during the chat he denied being a MB, but this happens everywhere in South East Asia / China ....

But surely, I wouldn't leave my laptop, Iphone, wallet etc openly on display around in the hotel room...

 

I never had any issue in a hotel in Indonesia to meet a guy or bring to the room. 

 

The point about taking a grab is that Indonesians don't like to walk. People will say it's too far to walk. Actually, in Malaysia they do the same...

 

I personally walk most of the time at any day or night time (alone) and never experienced any issue at all in any Indonesian city. 

 

Maybe you try to venture a bit more but leave your gadgets, Tag Heuer and LV crocodile leather bag at the hotel and dress down. 

 

As a Malaysian you should actually blend in well into Indonesia, even if you're Indian, it shouldn't be a problem as Jakarta also has an Indian community. 

 

Sorry to disappoint you on saunas or steam rooms. Nothing much will happen there as in the past hotel staff made police reports on locals they caught in sex acts in these locations. 

 

I can't take your scare on bringing a guy to your room but I find it extremely exaggerated. 

 

Further, you seem to paint every Indonesian guy as a criminal. 

 

If you can only trust your own nationals then eventually don't travel abroad. 

 

Probably, it is better if you stay in your home turf if you carry such a load of fear for your life and safety and have such negative emotions. 

 

I don't think your fears are much justified and my experience of Indonesia is very different. 

 

I find your attitude towards Indonesian guys unjust and surely your assumptions not matching reality. 

 

Nobody would expect Jakarta or Indonesia to be a gay eldorado like San Francisco or Stockholm... 

 

I assume your general overseas travelling experience is not very extensive...

 

Never try, never know. 

 

 

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18 hours ago, singalion said:

 

The police in Jakarta has been pressuring gay saunas with repeated riots until the last one closed down. 

 

The pressure from religious groups is also very high. 

 

Indonesia is maybe not Malaysia where the police are simply closing two eyes on what is going on in gay saunas and massage parlours.

 

Strangely, Indonesia doesn't criminalise gay sex but seems a bit more adverse to homosexuality. 

 

But open display of homosexual affection is not very common in Malaysia also. 

 

I never experienced any theft or security issues from Indonesian locals (and taking them to the room). The only issue you may face is that a guy from an app asks for money later on while during the chat he denied being a MB, but this happens everywhere in South East Asia / China ....

But surely, I wouldn't leave my laptop, Iphone, wallet etc openly on display around in the hotel room...

 

I never had any issue in a hotel in Indonesia to meet a guy or bring to the room. 

 

The point about taking a grab is that Indonesians don't like to walk. People will say it's too far to walk. Actually, in Malaysia they do the same...

 

I personally walk most of the time at any day or night time (alone) and never experienced any issue at all in any Indonesian city. 

 

Maybe you try to venture a bit more but leave your gadgets, Tag Heuer and LV crocodile leather bag at the hotel and dress down. 

 

As a Malaysian you should actually blend in well into Indonesia, even if you're Indian, it shouldn't be a problem as Jakarta also has an Indian community. 

 

Sorry to disappoint you on saunas or steam rooms. Nothing much will happen there as in the past hotel staff made police reports on locals they caught in sex acts in these locations. 

 

I can't take your scare on bringing a guy to your room but I find it extremely exaggerated. 

 

Further, you seem to paint every Indonesian guy as a criminal. 

 

If you can only trust your own nationals then eventually don't travel abroad. 

 

Probably, it is better if you stay in your home turf if you carry such a load of fear for your life and safety and have such negative emotions. 

 

I don't think your fears are much justified and my experience of Indonesia is very different. 

 

I find your attitude towards Indonesian guys unjust and surely your assumptions not matching reality. 

 

Nobody would expect Jakarta or Indonesia to be a gay eldorado like San Francisco or Stockholm... 

 

I assume your general overseas travelling experience is not very extensive...

 

Never try, never know. 

 

 

Thank you for your feedback and comments. I appreciate it! I'd appreciate it if you read my post carefully, as I've said that "many" comments in BW think the security isn't that secure. I think you also misunderstood that I never thought of Indonesian the way as you said. I'm just saying I met a Malaysian guy to have fun. But based on your point of view, I can also say that your opinion about Malaysians is the same as what you said about me of Indonesians. I never said that. My posts are based on previous feedback and comments on the Jakarta Forum. Please read the forum in Jakarta, from the first page, "many" mentioned it, not me. I haven't fully explored Jakarta yet, please don't generalize my feedback. Anyway, everyone has different experiences and same goes for you about your experience in Malaysia. Therefore, everyone can give feedback freely here. If you find my post irrelevant, please scroll up and ignore. Thanks.

 

Also, don't generalise about people's attitudes, negativity, and how extensive people travel like what you said. Through a post, you can summarise and assume people's, I would say you are more sad and negative emotions. I am not Malaysian and you are assuming my nationality from your comment. From your profile, I can also tell that you are a typical Singaporean.


In my post, I am not talking about Indonesian, but about Grindr. There are many ethnicities in Grindr, so I didn't mention Indonesian. I said a lot of people commenting on Grindr are not safe, there are cases of theft, etc. Inviting people to a room from Grindr may not be safe. That’s all.

 

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On 4/21/2024 at 7:11 PM, imm_georgie said:

I'm in Jakarta, and I'm using the sauna at this moment at a 5 stars hotel but there seems to be no one here. Will be here for a week or two, looking for some fun.

I think millennium sirih hotel near tanah Abang would be a good choice for u. The sauna and jacuzzi in men’s locker room are cruisy with locals esp. weekends. But be smart abt it as it is still a very risky activity in Indonesia 

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3 minutes ago, asiandude said:

I think millennium sirih hotel near tanah Abang would be a good choice for u. The sauna and jacuzzi in men’s locker room are cruisy with locals esp. weekends. But be smart abt it as it is still a very risky activity in Indonesia 

Thank you for the update and I do appreciate. Will check it out! 

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6 hours ago, Sjak32 said:

Heard that Kure****** Hotel sauna is good to relax. It's a full naked japanese onsen style. 

but that's a bit far from town and that area usually many atas expat stay. Normally for biz trip we wont stay that far. 

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On 4/27/2024 at 6:47 PM, imm_georgie said:

The Jakarta Experience 

Millenium Sirih Sauna

I went to the Millenium Sirih sauna today and was very disappointed. It's Saturday and no one is inside except for a pool guard and two female guests working out in the gym. So a spa receptionist, a man, came up to the counter. I find him very attractive, handsome and good looking.

 

Then I asked him where the sauna and steam were. He told me here I had entered the wet zone. I saw a lot of wooden lockers, some broken, then a shower area and toilet. Unfortunately I didn't see the jacuzzi, sauna or steam room. I thought I was in the wrong place, but after walking twice, I really couldn't see it. 
 

So, I walked out and asked the spa receptionist, he was rarely able to communicate but he tried to make me understand. He said the male jacuzzi, sauna and steam room areas were out of order and were being repaired. So it can’t be used at this point of time.

 

I then walked out of the area and looked at their spa menu. I found nothing interesting and poorly maintained so I called for a grab and left. Also, I don't see too many PLUs cruising. Therefore, the evaluation of Millenium in previous review is no longer correct (new update in 2024).

 

Kempinski Sauna

I also went to the Kempinski Hotel Sauna. Upon arrival at the hotel, you can take the lobby elevator to the 16th floor and then change to the elevator on the left to the 17th floor. On the 17th floor, there is a spa desk and a glass door on the right that leads to the swimming pool, gym and wet area. I walked into the wet area which has a changing area, sauna, steam room and jacuzzi. But the wet area is too small, same as are the sauna and steam. It's actually a great place to cruise, the only downside is that it's so small and there's no place to have fun. Same goes to the sauna or steam room. Also, didn't see any PLU cruising there. In the end, I have left the place to shop around at the shopping area - the Grand Indonesia.

 

Shangri La Sauna

Compared to other places I've been, this would be the nicest, most suitable wet area I've ever seen. The facilities are very standard, the sauna is large, the jacuzzi is clean and large, the steam room is equipped with infrared crystal lights, the changing room is large with proper shower facilities and relaxation area. Saw some internal guests hanging out in the wet area, had to be careful as there were a lot of members around. I think saunas and steam rooms would be the best for enjoying intimate moments, just touch and a quick BJ. Apart from this, it is better to invite to your room or exchange contact details in your own room for a private moment. For a suitably wet area, I'd say Shangri-La would be the first choice. Outsiders can use the wet areas, swimming pool and gym for a fee (Rph 350K-400K).

 

Grindr Apps

About Grindr, when you log in, you will have so many people greeting you, saying hello, and even asking for fun? So I've been browsing for a few days, lots of people just looking for fun, but finally, I chatted with a local Indonesian guy and he was very sincere and genuine. I decided to meet him. Yes, we met and chatted in the hotel lobby and because we were both busy, we only met for about 10-15 minutes and then we went off to do our own things. We exchanged contact information and made plans to meet again. In the evening, we met each other again for dinner. We both had a nice dinner together and then we went back to the hotel room for dessert (you know what I mean) and it was a great night for both of us. A sensual evening and wonderful time spent together. 
 

Two days later we contacted and met again. This time we went to Plaza Indonesia for dinner and then went back to the hotel for dessert (there was a exercise dessert on the bed in the room). Had another great night with him.

 

Plaza Indonesia 

The toilets at Plaza Indonesia would be a great place to visit for a cruise, compared to Grand Indonesia, the toilets don't have many attendant stations at any time. The urinals are lower than each other so you can peek over the side. So, I wasn't able to cruise and investigate further because I had dinner with a guy and then went back to the hotel room for dessert. If I do have extra time during my remaining time in Jakarta, I will investigate and share further.


I'm definitely having a great time at this point, but most of the effort comes from the Grindr app. PLU doesn't have many cruise locations in Jakarta.

 

Embassy Club | Saturday

According to the local Indonesian guy I met on Grindr, he did recommend PLU to visit the Embassy Club (either a bar or a disco) on a Saturday where the theme is gay and for gay. Many people visit and hook up on Saturdays at Embassy.


Apple Love Massage Spa

This spa only provides door-to-door service (door-to-door service only), they have male and female therapists, you can choose your therapist through Whatapps. Body to body massage is as follows:
90 minutes RPH 750K and 120 minutes RPH 850K. 

 

www.applelovemassagespa.com or whatapps the number provided at the web page.

 

Well, I will keep explore during my remaining time here in Jakarta and will share more infos or experience, should there is any. Hope the infos provided do helps.

@DaveLee I went on April 27, check this post! It may helps…

“Fill your life with adventures, not things!”

Have stories to tell, not stuffs to show off -

 

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On 7/30/2024 at 8:39 PM, DaveLee said:

Anyone stayed Millenium Sirih Sauna recently? Do you know if the sauna/steamroom working? 

 

Mostly now, Hotel sauna no longer the cruising places as they had been in the past. 

Many famous hotel took initiative to chase out the gay visitor. 

 

If just want to visit the sauna at Millennium, then write in to the Hotel if it is working. 

But for cruising Jakarta may not be the spot for Hotel sauna cruising. 

 

 

 

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Hi guys.  I'm heading to Jakarta this week.  Does anyone know if the new McD opposite Sarinah is as cruisy as the old one, or is Starbucks at the Jakarta Theatre still the most active for cruising in that part of town?

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Hi Guys, In Jakarta next week, staying at Westin. Any recommendation to go, hang out near by? Im planning to get the Apple love massage service 

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On 8/31/2024 at 1:13 AM, Guest John said:

Hi Guys, In Jakarta next week, staying at Westin. Any recommendation to go, hang out near by? Im planning to get the Apple love massage service 

 

Oh, I was in that area just some time ago this year!

 

There are some private apartments (not the most upscale very nearby) and also some cheaper Airnb style rental places. (Horison, Swiss-Bel Residence) which has some private operating Massage boys also and locals. (go on the dating apps).

 

At the Epicentrum/ Epiwalk Mall (you can walk along the canal it's about 12 mins/ 700m, if you go from Westin on a shortcut by the car park entry/exit side and not the main entrance)  there in the mall is an upscale supermarket in the basement with fresh fruits, bakery and drinks n chips, Keropok stuff etc for necessities. (but it didn't have Tonic Water).

Should you run out of Lube and Condoms, near one food outlet at the ground floor is a Guardian.

Bluebird Taxis are available in front of the mall for the way back to the hotel if you have heavier shopping bags.

 

At Epiwalk Mall I recommend also the Sulawesi food restaurant (something Rumpu Manado). It is at the ground floor exactly straight to the back. Food is something different but good. Don't go too late though, as they might run out of dishes). Next to it is a cafe/restaurant outlet which has the usual Mie Goreng/ Nasi Goreng fare for some snack in between.

Don't go to the Sate Khas Restaurant, it doesn't compare with the other outlets in the city centre, food was below average.

 

There are some nice coffee outlets (non chains) that serve good coffee. Bars (bluegrass bar n grill, and one with live music just around the corner (has a sign with live music))

 

Best was though: Outside the Epiwalk mall is a Soto Betawi outlet (at the path between Grove-Grand Aston to Epiwalk). The crispy fried chicken was one of the best I ate for a very long time. But has a lot of other options.

Near to that place is an interesting Fruit Shake booth ( somewhere opposite).

 

Around the area of Epiwalk are plenty of fancy food outlets.

 

Sure opposite Westin the big street nearby is Kuningan City Mall, but it's a bit like Raffles City Shopping Centre with more Japanese food outlets than local ones and the usual suspects in branded stores.

 

Consider the Grove Suites Grand Aston next trip, it has beautiful rooms, good service and is much cheaper than Westin. haha

 

It is said that the Cruising places in Jakarta are these:

1) Melly Mall (Millenium) 2) Kokas Plaza (Kota Kasablanca) 3) Senayan 4)  Miles Pub 5)· Diskotik Moonlight 6) MCD Sarinah (moved to opposite the street) 7) Mall Atrium Senen

 

But I wouldn't waste my time walking around shopping malls, when searching through the dating apps is more successful and speedier than walking the malls... While I saw gays in the malls, but mostly they are with their BFs or in groups with other guys... and probably wouldn't approach you for not being seen as a horny slut in front of their gay friends... 🤣

 

 

 

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On 12/14/2024 at 2:04 AM, deHybrids2.0 said:

How’s Jakarta for NYE? Any happening gay nightlife? Surprisingly Millennium Hotel is offering quite cheap rate for this weekend leading to NYE. Would the sauna be busy with tourist? 

The hotel sauna has closed down based on reviews on Google maps. Heard tat it’s an open secret that many activities have been happening there and reported to the hotel mgmt

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On 12/14/2024 at 2:04 AM, deHybrids2.0 said:

How’s Jakarta for NYE? Any happening gay nightlife? Surprisingly Millennium Hotel is offering quite cheap rate for this weekend leading to NYE. Would the sauna be busy with tourist? 

 

In Indonesia (and elsewhere) very unusual cheap rates often mean the hotel is undergoing renovations.

 

In such cases I would always write directly to the hotel and enquire.

 

 

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