ZealousZeno Posted July 29, 2017 Report Share Posted July 29, 2017 Not sure if the subset of mine or the circle of friends I have is a bad gauge, this thought process is solely my opinion based on my observation and personal experience in the circle for two years. I came to the conclusion that finding friends is less tedious, more practical, longer lasting and less consequential than a relationship. This thought was due to me dating a friend, in which things went south and broke up after, leaving behind a mess even between our mutual friend. Question is what if I didn't agree to date him and we remain as friends and closely bonded with our mutual friends? wouldn't have things move on peacefully if the attempt in RS didn't happen? With the consideration that in a RS we are both bound to our expectation of each other and thus far, I have seen more breakups due to different expectations and even those lovely ones of a few years came to an end... Is this just a bad thought or flawed comparison? Cause if I could turn back time I would have stop the date and all and remain status quo as friends... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knight Posted July 29, 2017 Report Share Posted July 29, 2017 Not that much experience in dating but yes once friendship becomes dates and love I also feel things become somewhat complicated even if you were not planning for it. i think once we date, both parties feel the right to put expectations on their partners to crave them out to be their other half and this has the potential to mess up everything NilandNil and ZealousZeno 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest duh Posted July 30, 2017 Report Share Posted July 30, 2017 You have choice to choose what you want. Why must come on forums and find validation? You choose to perceive things one way, just be aware that you will reap what you sow. So if you want to believe that LT frens is the better way to r'ship, then go for it. But when faced with consequence of your choice, are you prepare to accept that it is what you started? Simple as that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NilandNil Posted July 30, 2017 Report Share Posted July 30, 2017 Heyy Zealous! I totally agree with you Ignore the guest above me. I remembered a perfect quote for people like him. "In theory, light travels faster than sound. Perhaps thats why some people appear bright until they start to talk." Your free to express and say whatever the hell you want because this is a forum for a reason. We all have regrets, things we wished we didn't do, things we wished we could have done but i feel that at the end of the day its these not so pleasant experiences that gives us the insights to grow as a person. I thoroughly relate with ur thought process and enjoyed this read. Hope things get better within ur social circle. Cheer up ok? ZealousZeno and knight 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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