Guest curious Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 I found many local plu are bottoms. Tops are usually a rare find. What do you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackengsht Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 May be true like a couple of years ago. But now I have difficulties finding bottoms! haha zackywacky, kenzisstic and tiaojiaoni 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockyhorry1 Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 There are so many tops around my area it's boring tiaojiaoni and kenzisstic 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perception Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 (edited) I travel around central to west and 90% of the people who initiated the convo are tops (my profile indicated flex). It could be my luck (or not) since I read somewhere that the proportion is close to equal on both ends (flex is calculated on both ends). Don't quote me on this. While I don't think there's a shortage of tops, my guess is that bottoms tend to act more desperate and hence creating an illusion that there are more bottoms than tops (the opposite can be true as well, pure roles seems to have harder time finding their type) Edited September 3, 2017 by Perception kingbitch and tiaojiaoni 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 Chances of me being approached by a top is higher than bottom at sauna... but I'm top, though some top would still pull me into room lolz ~ Sinon and tiaojiaoni 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Observer Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 1 hour ago, Guest curious said: I found many local plu are bottoms. Tops are usually a rare find. What do you think? It is not about the number, but many GOOD LOOKING LOCAL BOTTOM are very very rare AND VIRGIN BOTTOM are like needle in a haysack. I wonder how many TOPs out there are lucky to find one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perception Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 1 minute ago, Guest Observer said: It is not about the number, but many GOOD LOOKING LOCAL BOTTOM are very very rare AND VIRGIN BOTTOM are like needle in a haysack. I wonder how many TOPs out there are lucky to find one. 3 I don't know why you would want a virgin bottom in an ONS. They are not so nice to play with in my experience (never clean, pain, etc). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Observer Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 10 minutes ago, Perception said: I don't know why you would want a virgin bottom in an ONS. They are not so nice to play with in my experience (never clean, pain, etc). Virgin bottom usually don't opt for ONS, which is why they remained a virgin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgmaven Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 1 hour ago, Perception said: I don't know why you would want a virgin bottom in an ONS. They are not so nice to play with in my experience (never clean, pain, etc). Some guys like the "thrill" of taking a guy's cherry, I guess... But yes, their lack of experience usually negatively impacts the session. Слава Україні! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Versatile Hunk Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 Hate this label of top and bottom. A gay man should give and receive, not boiled down to one type. Be a man and act like one! Versatile always! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest btm Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 It's not about who approach as top or bottom.. it's about looking around see who top or bottom. Look around you when in a sauna and you'll notice there're more bottoms than tops. Tops are usually more aggressive to approach others. So those approaching you tend to be tops and you'll think there're more tops. While bottoms are more passive, trying to act virgin or like statutes. There are so many of these around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 (edited) More btms in the clubs. More tops in the saunas. Edited September 8, 2017 by fab 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgboyzz12 Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 8 hours ago, Perception said: I travel around central to west and 90% of the people who initiated the convo are tops (my profile indicated flex). It could be my luck (or not) since I read somewhere that the proportion is close to equal on both ends (flex is calculated on both ends). Don't quote me on this. While I don't think there's a shortage of tops, my guess is that bottoms tend to act more desperate and hence creating an illusion that there are more bottoms than tops (the opposite can be true as well, pure roles seems to have harder time finding their type) Lol i would assume bottom is the easier role cause normally the top does all the work right? Thats why more btms Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Vers Hunk Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 2 minutes ago, sgboyzz12 said: Lol i would assume bottom is the easier role cause normally the top does all the work right? Thats why more btms Tops are usually straight acting and majority of the local gay bottom men are feminine, guess they are turned off by all the guniang bottoms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perception Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 (edited) 15 minutes ago, sgboyzz12 said: Lol i would assume bottom is the easier role cause normally the top does all the work right? Thats why more btms Not true. I believe people chose their role based on the their interest and sex ability not because of the amount of work. Besides, many chose to be top because they don't enjoy to be on the receiving end, while bottoms chose not to be tops because of their dick size and genital issues. I have seen chubs or unfit people are fine being pure tops and bottoms fit ones who doesn't want to or like to top. This should support that 'easier' role is subjective and not a concluding factor to the role proportion. One of the guests mentions a good point that the data about approaches are biased since tops are generally more active, thus I retract my point that there might be more tops. Though I do feel that there should be an equal proportion as long as you are as perceptive as a flex role. Edited September 3, 2017 by Perception Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgboyzz12 Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Guest Vers Hunk said: Tops are usually straight acting and majority of the local gay bottom men are feminine, guess they are turned off by all the guniang bottoms. Haha i honestly like to flip fk cause u get the best of both world uh then can last longer Some btms look like tops though and vice versa Edited September 3, 2017 by sgboyzz12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgboyzz12 Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 4 minutes ago, Perception said: Not true. I believe people chose their role base on the their interest and sex ability not because of the amount of work. Besides, many chose to be top because they don't enjoy to be on the receiving end, while bottoms chose not to be tops because of their dick size and genital issues. I have seen chubs or unfit people are fine being pure tops and bottoms fit ones who doesn't want to or like to top. This should support that 'easier' role is subjective and not a concluding factor to the role proportion. One of the guest mentions a good point that the data about approaches are biased since tops are generally more active, thus I retract my point that there might be more tops. Though I do feel that there is an equal proportion as long as you are as perceptive as a flex role. Yeah i kinda get u the top role is hard to master. So far i think i only enjoyed btming once? The other times i had to get myself off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Vers hunk Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 1 minute ago, sgboyzz12 said: Haha i honestly like to flip fk cause u get the best of both world uh then can last longer Some btms look like tops though and vice versa A very small minority of bottoms are straight acting.. look like as in they work out in the gym? No use as mannerism still like a girl... I have seen many "sisters" in some gyms, turn off! Worse when they are in groups and they are attracted to you, pretend to stand close... argh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgboyzz12 Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 1 minute ago, Guest Vers hunk said: A very small minority of bottoms are straight acting.. look like as in they work out in the gym? No use as mannerism still like a girl... I have seen many "sisters" in some gyms, turn off! Worse when they are in groups and they are attracted to you, pretend to stand close... argh HAHA I get what you mean. Some are pretty buff though! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perception Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 (edited) Good-looking masculine pure bottoms are rare. Most of them are at least flex bottom. Although I'm not too sure about the ratio, feminine tops are plenty as well. Having attached to my skinny bitchy bi ex who is a pure top but acts slightly feminine, people often get curious about our roles (I was told I look slightly boyish-hunkishtwinkism bottom). Edited September 3, 2017 by Perception Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben S Posted September 3, 2017 Report Share Posted September 3, 2017 I think vers has the most fun. depends with whom, can be either top or bottom and enjoy the play. Mroneonline 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
undies87 Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 (edited) On 9/3/2017 at 8:52 PM, Perception said: Not true. I believe people chose their role based on the their interest and sex ability not because of the amount of work. Besides, many chose to be top because they don't enjoy to be on the receiving end, while bottoms chose not to be tops because of their dick size and genital issues. I have seen chubs or unfit people are fine being pure tops and bottoms fit ones who doesn't want to or like to top. This should support that 'easier' role is subjective and not a concluding factor to the role proportion. One of the guests mentions a good point that the data about approaches are biased since tops are generally more active, thus I retract my point that there might be more tops. Though I do feel that there should be an equal proportion as long as you are as perceptive as a flex role. No, not all bottoms are with small dicks or genital issues. You are just purely labelling them, they choose whether to receive or give or both and it's entirely up to them. And unfit being tops?? it's never about their body, unless if you've pulled down and check their dicks/bod for data. Edited September 8, 2017 by undies87 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 Top or bottom who cares? As long as you are getting laid with someone versus home alone jacking off to some porn. There are times when I just want to bang my bf, and there are times I just want to lie on the sling and let him work my ass. Get creative with your sex life, incorporate toys into it. It is a totally different sensation, but pleasurable nonetheless. heedless_one 1 Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perception Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 26 minutes ago, undies87 said: No, not all bottoms are with small dicks or genital issues. You are just purely labelling them, they choose whether to receive or give or both and it's entirely up to them. And unfit being tops?? it's never about their body, unless if you've pulled down and check their dicks/bod for data. 3 I mean some. I didn't label them either, and yes it's often a preference. The body example is to show that they body type and bed role cannot be judged. Otherwise, read properly at the chain of comments I replied to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest White Aura Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 53 minutes ago, doncoin said: Top or bottom who cares? As long as you are getting laid with someone versus home alone jacking off to some porn. There are times when I just want to bang my bf, and there are times I just want to lie on the sling and let him work my ass. Get creative with your sex life, incorporate toys into it. It is a totally different sensation, but pleasurable nonetheless. Sex is just a brief moment of pleasure. We need to treat our body with sacredness and give it only to someone we truly love - top or bottom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 34 minutes ago, Guest White Aura said: Sex is just a brief moment of pleasure. We need to treat our body with sacredness and give it only to someone we truly love - top or bottom. Or treat our bodies as an object worthy to be worshipped by many worshippers. Perception 1 Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest White Aura Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 25 minutes ago, doncoin said: Or treat our bodies as an object worthy to be worshipped by many worshippers. Prostitute has no lack of worshippers too. Does that make them any happier? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pure btm Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 I find it amusing that people here thought you can choose to be top or btm. Maybe everybody's body is different. But I'm a pure btm because my hole is very sensitive and being fucked gives me great sensations of pleasures that spread throughout my whole body. I'm not shy to say that is no different from those pleasures described by women. Luckily I don't feel feminine or sissy like those in the sissy/CD thread in Personals otherwise I'll be a damn ugly agua with my big bones and manly face. I basically serve the same sexual functions as them though the tops who like to fuck me are different from those who like sissies. There's a market for everybody and sexual compatibility is important than simple top meet bottom. My kind of body and my kind of tops are mostly quite rough and tough type. Those who are flex or nice need not apply. The way we say it is that I like to be taken good, hard and tough with no mercy. It's something I need but it's not something that I have to explain. The top either knows his power or we don't even fuck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 I met guys whereby most of them bend down and want me to f them. So in my opinion more local bottoms! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XgymX Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 I find that there are more desirable btms you will wanna fuck than desirable tops that you would wanna get fucked by. Many btms I have met are rather masculine and not sissy like some mentioned. Perception 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 3 hours ago, Guest White Aura said: Prostitute has no lack of worshippers too. Does that make them any happier? I cannot speak for the happiness that happens in the life of a prostitute. Too often, I think we think of a prostitute as someone who turned tricks because they have no other choice and are destitute, and hence miserable etc. However, prostitution or money boy, is a job like any other. It has its ups and downs. There will be good days and bad days. If the prostitute is in it to make as much money as he can, and he is in high demand with many worshippers, then he has achieved his goal and should be happy. When was the last time anyone achieved their goals and be miserable for succeeding? Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TopChinese Posted September 8, 2017 Report Share Posted September 8, 2017 6 hours ago, Ben Ben Ben said: I met guys whereby most of them bend down and want me to f them. So in my opinion more local bottoms! That's because you're meeting the wrong guys. Life is too short to be binary. There's plenty of things a top can do to give pleasure to another top. Some of the best sex I've had in Singapore is with a moderator here who is also a masculine top. Its not all about anal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tom yam geisha Posted September 9, 2017 Report Share Posted September 9, 2017 On 9/3/2017 at 8:09 PM, fab said: More btms in the clubs. More tops in the saunas. Astute observations. I bow down to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tom yam geisha Posted September 9, 2017 Report Share Posted September 9, 2017 1 hour ago, TopChinese said: That's because you're meeting the wrong guys. Life is too short to be binary. There's plenty of things a top can do to give pleasure to another top. Some of the best sex I've had in Singapore is with a moderator here who is also a masculine top. Its not all about anal. I see. Sounds like glyph? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clement_c Posted September 10, 2017 Report Share Posted September 10, 2017 isnt that is why people always say girls(bottom) cannot cheat but man(top) can have many wives? But in actual fact, top share with so many bottom and then the faithful bottom become hungry so have no choice to seek for more top? Great, now the world become whore and playboys :P! fireblaze_69 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted September 10, 2017 Report Share Posted September 10, 2017 Though i may not know what this enquiry is about.But don't it makes sense the the offerer and reciever are both as cheap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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