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Saw your posting in the Members forum about needing to use Japanese one week later. Can't reply to that thread as I am not a member. Why not try one of the language schools and ask them to arrange intensive sessions over a few evenings? I am quite optimistic that they can do so. But be prepared to spend maybe $80 per hour of lesson.

 

Oh yup, I managed to get a friend who is still in contact with his Japanese Language teacher from uni for a super intensive refresher. I really sound ridiculously retarded when I speak Japanese nowadays. Bloody expensive since it's one on one, but I think it's going to be worth it.

 

And she's Japanese so I can also pile on the questions on etiquette and all, since it's been such a long time since I had to use any in a setting that is not casual or not gaijin-acceptable.

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Oh yup, I managed to get a friend who is still in contact with his Japanese Language teacher from uni for a super intensive refresher. I really sound ridiculously retarded when I speak Japanese nowadays. Bloody expensive since it's one on one, but I think it's going to be worth it.

And she's Japanese so I can also pile on the questions on etiquette and all, since it's been such a long time since I had to use any in a setting that is not casual or not gaijin-acceptable.

Glad that you managed to arrange for a super intensive course.

How come suddenly need to use Japanese in a more formal setting?

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The summary is that I was arrowed to do a presentation in Japan in Japanese.

Presentation is fine, it's the Q&A and discussion afterwhich that I'm hoping the Japanese office will be of immense help.

Tis is super arrowed! Presentation in japanese? I think even go thru intensive course also cannot help much.

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I can speak Japanese la. Of course they won't throw this to anyone who doesn't have a decent enough Japanese background.

 

But I think my Japanese standard is was the same level as most English-educated Singaporeans' Chinese. You can speak a bit as you go around, even when you speak with Chinese clients you can somewhat carry a conversation in broken Chinese. If you need a presentation, as long as you have what you want to say it's fine.

 

Its the on-the-spot questions and answers that will make people stumble.

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Yeah I see no point in paying for massage to get Korean masseurs.... so weird haha. I'll pass.

It's rainy, drizzling here... and cold... bleh. Work tomorrow.

Its going to be wet all week too. Bought a plastic umbrella for 300 yen. Not bad actually. Hope it does not fall apart before I leave what with all the use. See you in 24 Kaikan :-)
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Its going to be wet all week too. Bought a plastic umbrella for 300 yen. Not bad actually. Hope it does not fall apart before I leave what with all the use. See you in 24 Kaikan :-)

 

Went to 24Kaikan on Saturday.... boring as always lol. Ok fine there were 1 or 2 nice ones.... fit and nice faces. I won't go into details or whatever haha. Chatted with a Malaysian Chinese, a few black guys, lots of older ang mohs who got there later around 9pm....

 

Weather got better when I left this morning though, sunny and blue sky. Enjoy!

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Wow you must be pretty friendly Enelym. How do you strike up a conversation with someone in a sauna and won't that person think you were trying to hit on him? Or is the situation really that you were interested but on talking you find that the person isn't actually your cup of tea? My own experience is that I have no clue as to what the other party is saying other than "kimochi" and "iku iku", of course :-)

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Wow you must be pretty friendly Enelym. How do you strike up a conversation with someone in a sauna and won't that person think you were trying to hit on him? Or is the situation really that you were interested but on talking you find that the person isn't actually your cup of tea? My own experience is that I have no clue as to what the other party is saying other than "kimochi" and "iku iku", of course :-)

 

Well, we were both standing and walking around and we looked at each other a few times and smiled. You can tell if it's a lustful look or just a friendly look. Then you just start chit chatting... sometimes it leads to more, sometimes it's just small talk.

It's not that hard haha.

 

And they do speak English there haha, they are shy doing so but they do :)

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And they do speak English there haha, they are shy doing so but they do :)

Must be as charming as Enelym to motivate them to converse in English. If no charm, even if they speak English well, they might not even want to speak with you.

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Must be as charming as Enelym to motivate them to converse in English. If no charm, even if they speak English well, they might not even want to speak with you.

 

Come on, they are nice haha. Maybe they can be a bit more reluctant towards gaijin but to other Asians, they usually would start speaking... until they run out of words lol

 

Ni-Chome gets pretty empty when it rains though... I wouldn't recommend to go out there if the weather is really bad. Those bars are so tiny that most of the times, people stand outside. Of course there are other places, on 2nd and 3rd floors which can still be crowded but from experience, they don't like rain :P

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Errrr no, I usually keep these two "worlds" separated haha

Enelym,

Thanks for answering. I am somewhat surprised that you keep the 2 worlds separate. Haven't you met anyone who is just too good a catch (or good mutual chemistry both sexual and non-sexual) that you wanted to make an exception for him by making him part of your 2 worlds?

Or perhaps you are very fond of getting fresh hookups whenever you visit Tokyo, and won't want to spend time to meet past hookups even though they are very friendly and want to be your friend?

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Actually I don't know if the other party wants to keep in touch either. For example this guy I met last weekend is absolutely sure he is going to get married and have s couple of kids. He is just as sure he is turned on by men and just as sure he is not bi. It is a different way of life and I don't think we can understand it enough to comment. Does the idea of a long term relationship exist in Japan in the way we understand it?

But yeah Enelym is the first person I have heard of who has actually struck up a conversation in 24 Kaikan. I mean I have also but only after 'the deed'. I do hear the locals chat though and sometimes it sounds quite intimate.

I sometimes come across Malaysians or Singaporeans but have been too shy to say hello. Most times cos there are a couple of them and what does one say? Must get tuition from Enelym first I suppose :-)

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But yeah Enelym is the first person I have heard of who has actually struck up a conversation in 24 Kaikan. I mean I have also but only after 'the deed'.

Did you keep in touch with the guy(s) whom you chatted with?

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Enelym , why is it boring:????

Went to 24Kaikan on Saturday.... boring as always lol. Ok fine there were 1 or 2 nice ones.... fit and nice faces. I won't go into details or whatever haha. Chatted with a Malaysian Chinese, a few black guys, lots of older ang mohs who got there later around 9pm....

 

Weather got better when I left this morning though, sunny and blue sky. Enjoy!

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Did you keep in touch with the guy(s) whom you chatted with?

No. Would not mind doing so but I sense a reluctance on their part. I am guessing even the locals do not keep in touch. Perhaps it is the fear of developing something further? Dont know. Will ask if I find someone who can converse well enough. Perhaps you can ask Enelym to ask as he seems to have a way with the guys in the saunas here, hahaha.

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Enelym , why is it boring:????

Let me add my 2 bits worth. Am sure Enelym will have other comments. Sometimes the pure sex element can be boring. I mean one goes up and down the floors and up and down again. If something does happen or not one then goes and have a shower, dry and wet saunas. Over and over again. You look at people, people look at you. Some people have sec up to 3 times or more per visit (not me necessarily :-)). After a while it can get to be quite boring, the sheer repetition.

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I'm more of a whatever happens happens. But usually, when I'm a country that I know I don't visit often, I'm less inclined to tie some bonds...

 

Where as in SG, I did exchange numbers a lot of times and kept in touch with people... for fun or just for hanging out.

 

Japan is a bit different as you said. People tend to be either super shy, introverted or something but they rarely engage you...

24Kaikan is not boring when it comes to facilities cuz they have good hot baths, sauna, steam room but it's boring when it comes to guys... depending on your taste of course.

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I'm more of a whatever happens happens. But usually, when I'm a country that I know I don't visit often, I'm less inclined to tie some bonds...

Where as in SG, I did exchange numbers a lot of times and kept in touch with people... for fun or just for hanging out.

Japan is a bit different as you said. People tend to be either super shy, introverted or something but they rarely engage you....

Enelym,

Thanks for sharing.

I see that's why you are less inclined to tie some bonds with the guys in Kaikan. I thought you visit Tokyo twice or more each year, and that would be often enough to tie some bonds, but maybe you would have to travel there every other month before you would consider tying some bonds.

I guess perhaps they are super shy or introverted because they are not comfortable conversing in English.

By the way, when you are in Seoul, apart from the sauna and massage, where do you usually hang out? Do you travel to Seoul more often than Tokyo?

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Yeah I see no point in paying for massage to get Korean masseurs.... so weird haha. I'll pass.

 

It's rainy, drizzling here... and cold... bleh. Work tomorrow.

U mean in tokyo? Weather is cold but i think still bearable lar. But when reaching towards nov then it really quite cold liao.

对自己好是一种幸福,

对别人好是一种积福。

 

Spend time counting your blessings,

not airing your complaints.

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I will be in Osaka Dec 11 (1 nite only);Tokyo Dec 12-17; I noted there are lots of sauna. Wondering any Onsen where many "fun" happened like the one in Taipei Beitou area (Chuantang if I didnt get the name wrong).

 

Any recommendation for chub and chaser bar or sauna?

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I will be in Osaka Dec 11 (1 nite only);Tokyo Dec 12-17; I noted there are lots of sauna. Wondering any Onsen where many "fun" happened like the one in Taipei Beitou area (Chuantang if I didnt get the name wrong).

 

Any recommendation for chub and chaser bar or sauna?

 

I only know Kaikan Ueno is for chubs.

 

Had a hard time finding gay sauna. Only found one but didn't go in. The gay places are quite hard to find?

I went to their regular sauna and it's quite boring.

 

You can always check utopia asia...

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I only know Kaikan Ueno is for chubs.

Darkflame, which Ueno did you visit? as they got 3 branches. And how are the patrons?

 

Seems only can go to sauna (If can find them) not the Onsen ...

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So far from reading this thread, I know Kaikan Ueno is for chubs, Kaikan Asakusa is for mature men. And Kaikan Shinjuku is for younger or fit guys, somewhat like the patrons at Cruise Club.

 

Not too sure where the true gay onsens are. But kaikan should have hot bath facilities.

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@Phil and @Darkflame ... many thanks for the info ... I certainly will enjoy my trip ... Anyone need anythings? I can bring to Singapore as I will stop over 2 nites in Singapore ...

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@Phil and @Darkflame ... many thanks for the info ... I certainly will enjoy my trip ... Anyone need anythings? I can bring to Singapore as I will stop over 2 nites in Singapore ...

You're welcome, and thanks for your proposal.

I don't need anything, and am not in Singapore.

Enjoy your trip, both in Japan and Singapore, which is a nice country with nice people.

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anyone knows where i can buy tenga eggs besides sex shops? any more discreet places that sell them?

Some pharmacies sell the Tenga eggs. From the appearance of Tenga eggs, you can't really guess what they are used for, so it is not obscene for them to be openly displayed in pharmacies.

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It's a rather regular event I think, was in Tokyo over weekend that turned from Nov to Dec last year and this event was happening too, but I didn't go as I was with some straight friends that trip. Not that I planned to go for it but it just so happened the same time.

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Hey all,

 

  Will anyone be in Tokyo on Nov 30th? There's this awesome party happening ( check out http://aliving.net/schedule/20131130.html as well as http://www.two-cowboys.net/badboys/index_en.html ) and would be fun to go along with new friends.

 

Drop me a PM cheers!

 

 

 

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Wish I could go.

There's hardly any events during the period I go to Japan....

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anyone knows where i can buy tenga eggs besides sex shops? any more discreet places that sell them?

If you are too shy to enter the sex shops, you could visit Don Quijote stores (www​.donki.com/index_en.php). It's kind of Mustafa center with multifloors that stocks Kit Kat, ramen, electronics to costumes for sex role play and of course, in between 18+ corner, they stock Japanese condoms and varieties of Tenga. You could cover your Tengas and lubricants with tons of Kit Kat or 'I love JP' souvenirs if you want. Some of their stores are located in tourist areas and some are open 24 hours.

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I'm looking forward to seeing you ^_^

 

http://www.two-cowboys.net/badboys

https://www.facebook.com/events/613428912054899

 

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Hey all,

 

  Will anyone be in Tokyo on Nov 30th? There's this awesome party happening ( check out http://aliving.net/schedule/20131130.html as well as http://www.two-cowboys.net/badboys/index_en.html ) and would be fun to go along with new friends.

 

Drop me a PM cheers!

 

 

 

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