NVZbl Posted March 7, 2016 Report Share Posted March 7, 2016 (edited) I'll be visiting tokyo for a stay following a business trip between 3/18-3/22, and wanted to see if there were other travelers or tokyo-locals who'd be up for hanging out and checking out night life. Message me if that's the case. Thanks! Edited March 7, 2016 by NVZbl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pipi Posted March 12, 2016 Report Share Posted March 12, 2016 Is anyone heading to Tokyo 2-10April? Will be there with str8 friends but would like to explore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emocrab Posted March 13, 2016 Report Share Posted March 13, 2016 I'm in Tokyo now, tried out DG last night. It was amazing! It's actually located at the Shinjuku E 組 shop, so if you ask nicely they might even allow you to use the "special" rooms and "special" scenarios. You can also communicate your requests to them. However, credit card use will induce a 10% charge which is not communicated anywhere on the site or their shop (ouch!). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rotikawin Posted March 13, 2016 Report Share Posted March 13, 2016 Any gmen clubs or saunas to recommend in Tokyo? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted March 14, 2016 Report Share Posted March 14, 2016 On 13/03/2016 at 11:14 AM, Emocrab said: I'm in Tokyo now, tried out DG last night. It was amazing! It's actually located at the Shinjuku E 組 shop, so if you ask nicely they might even allow you to use the "special" rooms and "special" scenarios. You can also communicate your requests to them. However, credit card use will induce a 10% charge which is not communicated anywhere on the site or their shop (ouch!). I remember this credit card surcharge. The mama-san at the bar asked me if I was fine with the surcharge as it was better for me to pay with cash but since I didn't have cash on hand, I went ahead with paying by card. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 15, 2016 Report Share Posted March 15, 2016 11 hours ago, darkflame said: I remember this credit card surcharge. The mama-san at the bar asked me if I was fine with the surcharge as it was better for me to pay with cash but since I didn't have cash on hand, I went ahead with paying by card. what is dg? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ell Posted March 15, 2016 Report Share Posted March 15, 2016 Will be in Tokyo from 1-14 April with a str8 friend! Anyone heading there wanna meet up to explore the nightlife together? Please PM me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 17, 2016 Report Share Posted March 17, 2016 On March 11, 2016 at 2:14 AM, pipi said: Is anyone heading to Tokyo 2-10April? Will be there with str8 friends but would like to explore. Hey. Yes. 8 - 12. Wanna meet up and explore d Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 17, 2016 Report Share Posted March 17, 2016 On February 23, 2016 at 3:33 PM, Phil said: You could try 24 Kaikan Ueno, near Ueno railway station. Different atmosphere, and can be very fun too. Have a nice trip! Thanks. Thanks any young guys there or mainly older ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted March 17, 2016 Report Share Posted March 17, 2016 13 hours ago, Guest said: Thanks. Thanks any young guys there or mainly older ? Well, there are less twinks in Ueno than in Shinjuku. I would say more bears, G-men, 30/40. And in 24 Kaikan Asakusa, you can see elder people and CDs, but not only. Maybe some more recent comment would be useful... Help, darkflame! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted March 17, 2016 Report Share Posted March 17, 2016 8 hours ago, Phil said: Well, there are less twinks in Ueno than in Shinjuku. I would say more bears, G-men, 30/40. And in 24 Kaikan Asakusa, you can see elder people and CDs, but not only. Maybe some more recent comment would be useful... Help, darkflame! This is always how I see it: Shinjuku - young crowd & hunky Ueno - bears & g-men Asakusa - older men (you may not get a good experience if too young) There are also much sauna special events to benefit from provided you understand Japanese well. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted March 18, 2016 Report Share Posted March 18, 2016 4 hours ago, darkflame said: This is always how I see it: Shinjuku - young crowd & hunky Ueno - bears & g-men Asakusa - older men (you may not get a good experience if too young) There are also much sauna special events to benefit from provided you understand Japanese well. Thanks, darkflame, in name of the guest. I'm not sure he can speak Japanese... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 18, 2016 Report Share Posted March 18, 2016 On March 15, 2016 at 9:04 AM, Ell said: Will be in Tokyo from 1-14 April with a str8 friend! Anyone heading there wanna meet up to explore the nightlife together? Please PM me Ill be coming april 8 to 12. Let's meet and explore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ell Posted March 19, 2016 Report Share Posted March 19, 2016 7 hours ago, Guest said: Ill be coming april 8 to 12. Let's meet and explore Any way you can drop me a PM? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 19, 2016 Report Share Posted March 19, 2016 I can't remember the Japanese term for those who like old men. Anyway, those of you who have tried Asakusa, are there any of those around? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted March 19, 2016 Report Share Posted March 19, 2016 (edited) There's an upcoming event on 25 March (Good Friday) - underwear party at aisotope lounge: https://www.facebook.com/events/982003291867414 For those in Nagoya, there is an event at X-Tribe: http://www.gclick.jp/bbs03.php?NO=12647 Banana Friday on 1st April @ aisotope lounge: https://www.facebook.com/events/1718098211736081/ Exhibitionist party night at aisotope lounge (Tokyo) on 22 April and Explosion (Osaka) on 29 April: http://www.gclick.jp/bbs03.php?NO=12650 ***Free original tenugui (hand rag) for attendees. And for those coming in end April, this is the big event... https://www.facebook.com/events/469058693302234/ Edited March 19, 2016 by darkflame Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kencer Posted March 22, 2016 Report Share Posted March 22, 2016 anyone going Tokyo in june? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted March 22, 2016 Report Share Posted March 22, 2016 On 19/03/2016 at 2:11 PM, Guest said: I can't remember the Japanese term for those who like old men. Anyway, those of you who have tried Asakusa, are there any of those around? Yes, a few ones; and some CDs too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 23, 2016 Report Share Posted March 23, 2016 7 hours ago, kencer said: anyone going Tokyo in june? yes yes end june till earlly july Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kencer Posted March 23, 2016 Report Share Posted March 23, 2016 9 hours ago, Guest said: yes yes end june till earlly july ah I'm going 9 to 20 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 23, 2016 Report Share Posted March 23, 2016 1 hour ago, kencer said: ah I'm going 9 to 20 Ahh reach there 25th June... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted March 23, 2016 Report Share Posted March 23, 2016 (edited) The rainy season starts in June. My friend was unlucky enough to come during the onset of the rainy season and it constantly rained everyday during her stay. As I dislike rain, I'd prefer to go to Hokkaido during summer. Everyday during that rainy week, I would keep cursing the weather. Edited March 23, 2016 by darkflame Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kencer Posted March 25, 2016 Report Share Posted March 25, 2016 was there last year and it wasn't so bad. thanks for the reminder. planning to go Hokkaido for a few days though. are you staying in Japan? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kencer Posted March 25, 2016 Report Share Posted March 25, 2016 " Although I cannot really go into detail here, the gay male community of Japan loosely divides itself into three categories: “nai-sen” (those who prefer other Japanese men, representing the majority), “gai-sen” (those who prefer white foreign men) and “ajia-sen” (those who prefer East or South-East Asian). I would also point out here that Latino and Black ethnicities, as well as South and Central Asian, are rather invisible. " came across this today. any idea where we can hang out with ajia-sen? mostly seem to encounter nai-sen or gai-sen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-boy Posted March 27, 2016 Report Share Posted March 27, 2016 Hi, anyone know the dress code to ageHA Splash party? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted March 30, 2016 Report Share Posted March 30, 2016 On 25/03/2016 at 9:44 PM, kencer said: was there last year and it wasn't so bad. thanks for the reminder. planning to go Hokkaido for a few days though. are you staying in Japan? Based in Japan for 2 years but moving back soon. On 25/03/2016 at 9:48 PM, kencer said: " Although I cannot really go into detail here, the gay male community of Japan loosely divides itself into three categories: “nai-sen” (those who prefer other Japanese men, representing the majority), “gai-sen” (those who prefer white foreign men) and “ajia-sen” (those who prefer East or South-East Asian). I would also point out here that Latino and Black ethnicities, as well as South and Central Asian, are rather invisible. " came across this today. any idea where we can hang out with ajia-sen? mostly seem to encounter nai-sen or gai-sen. I think there are many ajia-sen bars etc, though they prefer to separate it into preference for East Asian and Southeast Asian. If you are fair enough, probably treated as an east Asian. I haven't really seen Latino and Black ethnicities in Nichome; most are foreigners. On 27/03/2016 at 1:58 AM, D-boy said: Hi, anyone know the dress code to ageHA Splash party? I wore shorts to Splash last year. Like shirt with inner tee and shorts. D-boy 1 Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-boy Posted March 30, 2016 Report Share Posted March 30, 2016 2 hours ago, darkflame said: Based in Japan for 2 years but moving back soon. I think there are many ajia-sen bars etc, though they prefer to separate it into preference for East Asian and Southeast Asian. If you are fair enough, probably treated as an east Asian. I haven't really seen Latino and Black ethnicities in Nichome; most are foreigners. I wore shorts to Splash last year. Like shirt with inner tee and shorts. Thanks for the advice, how about footwears? Is it better to wear slippers since easier to take off & head into the water Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted March 31, 2016 Report Share Posted March 31, 2016 On 30/03/2016 at 11:27 PM, D-boy said: Thanks for the advice, how about footwears? Is it better to wear slippers since easier to take off & head into the water There is no pool at ageHa splash. There is indeed one of the dance areas where people can dance around a pool but nobody can get inside the pool. If you want to have a 'wet' event, there is one in August where people can get inside. I have always wore covered shoes. Slippers might be more the norm for 'Muscle Beach' in July. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SuperTon Posted April 1, 2016 Report Share Posted April 1, 2016 I will be going to Sapporo 11-15 April. wondering where is more crowded or better than the other between Kiraku kaikan and BCYS ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-boy Posted April 1, 2016 Report Share Posted April 1, 2016 21 hours ago, darkflame said: There is no pool at ageHa splash. There is indeed one of the dance areas where people can dance around a pool but nobody can get inside the pool. If you want to have a 'wet' event, there is one in August where people can get inside. I have always wore covered shoes. Slippers might be more the norm for 'Muscle Beach' in July. Thanks for the advice hope to see u on Splash if u are heading. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curious_boi Posted April 4, 2016 Report Share Posted April 4, 2016 Is there anyone here travelling towards Tokyo, Shibuya, Akihabara or Ikebukero area? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted April 4, 2016 Report Share Posted April 4, 2016 those going there now, must be for the sakuras! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Shinjuku soon Posted April 5, 2016 Report Share Posted April 5, 2016 Hello Ill be coming this weekend. Friday until Monday. Anyone want to meet up and try a Hattenba ? Im a white guy and prefer Asians where should i try or where should we go Anyone try Crew or Club House ? thanks dave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emocrab Posted April 12, 2016 Report Share Posted April 12, 2016 On 3/15/2016 at 11:39 AM, Guest said: what is dg? DG is danshi gakuen 男子學園, it's a porn company that has escort services Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted April 16, 2016 Report Share Posted April 16, 2016 everyone safe in jp? Or sex is the only thing in your mind?http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/asiapacific/new-japan-quake-kills-7/2700458.html?cid=FBINThttps://www.facebook.com/maru.japan/posts/1038492196238159 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 17, 2016 Report Share Posted April 17, 2016 On 16 April 2016 at 10:14 AM, lovehandle said: everyone safe in jp? Or sex is the only thing in your mind?http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/asiapacific/new-japan-quake-kills-7/2700458.html?cid=FBINThttps://www.facebook.com/maru.japan/posts/1038492196238159 Please stop it and have respect for others Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samdiggin Posted April 19, 2016 Report Share Posted April 19, 2016 Where's nice to visit in Sapporo haha? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gymguybody Posted April 19, 2016 Report Share Posted April 19, 2016 where is the good gay sauna to find hunk Japanese in Fukuoka? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycasian99 Posted April 19, 2016 Report Share Posted April 19, 2016 Hey everyone, Im heading to Japan during the last two weeks of May. Hope to meet up with someone from here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted April 20, 2016 Report Share Posted April 20, 2016 On 19/04/2016 at 5:08 PM, birth_ave said: Where's nice to visit in Sapporo haha? I finished my city tour of Sapporo within half a day. There's basically those historical buildings and JR towers, along with Susukino. Good for two day trips to Otaru and Asahikawa. samdiggin 1 Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackrezal Posted April 23, 2016 Report Share Posted April 23, 2016 On 3/22/2016 at 0:42 AM, kencer said: anyone going Tokyo in june? I'll be in Tokyo, June 1-15 kcyhm1991 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Os Na Posted April 24, 2016 Report Share Posted April 24, 2016 I read a few posts and I am looking for recommendations for bars in Tokyo. My type is mature Japanese chubby/stocky ideally no body hair and between 40 and 50. I do not speak any Japanese and hence I am looking for foreigner friendly places. Based on reading up it seems that 24 Kaikan Shinjuku is a good sauna spot and was wondering if it is popular with mature chubs. I also saw a bar called "popular" that was recommended, but I am unable to find it when I googled the name. Any other recommendations for bars where majority would be the type I am looking for and also that are foreigner friendly? Also, if a bar mostly caters to stocky/chubby are they open to avg build guys like me? Also if anyone has names of escort services that would be able to provide my type I would be interested in that. The only escort services I found offered skinny or muscular young guys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 24, 2016 Report Share Posted April 24, 2016 You will not go even you're standing right at the door step. Reason: you're thinking too much ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 24, 2016 Report Share Posted April 24, 2016 40 minutes ago, Os Na said: I read a few posts and I am looking for recommendations for bars in Tokyo. My type is mature Japanese chubby/stocky ideally no body hair and between 40 and 50. I do not speak any Japanese and hence I am looking for foreigner friendly places. Based on reading up it seems that 24 Kaikan Shinjuku is a good sauna spot and was wondering if it is popular with mature chubs. I also saw a bar called "popular" that was recommended, but I am unable to find it when I googled the name. Any other recommendations for bars where majority would be the type I am looking for and also that are foreigner friendly? Also, if a bar mostly caters to stocky/chubby are they open to avg build guys like me? Also if anyone has names of escort services that would be able to provide my type I would be interested in that. The only escort services I found offered skinny or muscular young guys. Definitely not 24 Kaikan Shinjuku. Try 24 Kaikan Ueno - get onto Utopia for directions there, from the Ueno train station. Sorry, not familiar enough with bars to comment. Happy hunting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rotikawin Posted April 24, 2016 Report Share Posted April 24, 2016 Try Leo lounge in shinjuku sanchome. Its a bear bar with a comfy sofa and foreigner friendly staff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konthai Posted April 25, 2016 Report Share Posted April 25, 2016 Hi BW members, Tokyo Rainbow Pride 2016 will take place during 7-8 May. Hope to see you there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gpfun Posted April 25, 2016 Report Share Posted April 25, 2016 1 hour ago, Konthai said: Hi BW members, Tokyo Rainbow Pride 2016 will take place during 7-8 May. Hope to see you there! What a pity. I will be there a week before from 28 April to 3 May Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted April 26, 2016 Report Share Posted April 26, 2016 Wow, it is taking place in May this year. A little off their former preferred period i.e. GW. alphine1234 1 Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 29, 2016 Report Share Posted April 29, 2016 If you don't speak J, forget about bars. You will just frustrate everybody because most places tiny, only a few seats, the Master will try to keep customers entertained, can't escape the embarrassing silence. You might even miss the sign outside showing that that bar is not suitable for you or you not suitable! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimgogo Posted May 2, 2016 Report Share Posted May 2, 2016 any advice on places (massage places, onsen, clubs) to visit for Hokkaido I'm gg from 24-31 July... Thank you in advance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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