No Fap challenge

[Newbieboy]

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

[DEREK88888]

298? Are you serious....

[Newbieboy]

7 minutes ago, DEREK88888 said:

298? Are you serious....

Yeah no joke!

[bigdanbeam]

So do you get a prize for achieving X number of days?

[keroppi]

Woah how do you do that?! I think you probably exercise better self restraint than some monks out there 

[DEREK88888]

Its like 42 weeks sia....how to tahan?

[Guest nostalgic]

4 hours ago, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

do you have wet dream? cause If I hold for too long, sure will have wet dream and the orgasm is much more satisfying than jerking in one sense. but in other sense I feel incomplete without the physical stroking.

[Steve5380]

What's the purpose of your "no fap challenge"?

Will you try next the "no poop challenge", the "no piss challenge", the no breath challenge"?

 

Our bodies want us to do some periodic acts it needs to have done.  This is why to poop is enjoyable, to piss is enjoyable, to breathe is enjoyable, and... to cum is great!  Why challenge these?

[Guest iwannaknow]

Serious question, do you feel any changes? better concentration? more energy? more confident? feeling better? socialize better?  healthier? i'm sure you will feel some differences, please tell me your experience.

[ProMouth]

7 hours ago, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

298 days.。。sincerely hope it does not affect your physical heal as well as sanity. Care to share with us why you hold for such an extended period of time. if it is not too personal?

thanks

[xavier98]

298 days without jerking off... at your age...

Out of these 298 days, how many wet dreams have you experienced. 

If you didnt experience any wet dream...i think you better go for a detailed health check.

[Guest orgasm]

2 hours ago, Guest nostalgic said:

do you have wet dream? cause If I hold for too long, sure will have wet dream and the orgasm is much more satisfying than jerking in one sense. but in other sense I feel incomplete without the physical stroking.

I don't think Orgasm through wet dream is satisfying...Sudden wake up by the dream and have to clear the messy before returning back to sleep.

 

[Guest Nostalgic]

10 hours ago, Guest orgasm said:

I don't think Orgasm through wet dream is satisfying...Sudden wake up by the dream and have to clear the messy before returning back to sleep.

 

Haha. I did not clear the mess. I feel more intense during wet dream. Some forceful ejaculation that I experience lesser during jerking. I will try to sleep on my back or fetal position to avoid wetting my mattress. And the next morning i will smell on it and may or may not jerking again.

[Kimochi]

13 hours ago, Guest iwannaknow said:

Serious question, do you feel any changes? better concentration? more energy? more confident? feeling better? socialize better?  healthier? i'm sure you will feel some differences, please tell me your experience.

Yes do you feel any changes or better at something or easily agitated? 

[Guest Nostalgic]

10 minutes ago, Kimochi said:

Yes do you feel any changes or better at something or easily agitated? 

I easily got agitated and usually cannot mask my emotion. I really hate those people who can mask their emotion. I'm referring to those pretender, tiger in lamb wool/skin- say one thing but do the other without shame. And then cactus master from this forum advised me to eat vegetarian and do not jerk off. I eat vegetarian and smoothies diet for a total of 3 months +1 month. I did not feel anything. And practice abstinence close to a month. I feel more moody than jerking off whereby i can  release the stress. 

[Kimochi]

Thats harming yourself ~

[DEREK88888]

Isnt it day 300 now? 

[hmgen]

On 5/28/2018 at 9:05 AM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

 

35th day now 

[DEREK88888]

Wow.....35 days

[Guest 298 hours]

For many, it's difficult to even achieve 298hours

[Guest 298 hours]

On 5/28/2018 at 8:59 PM, Steve5380 said:

What's the purpose of your "no fap challenge"?

Will you try next the "no poop challenge", the "no piss challenge", the no breath challenge"?

 

Our bodies want us to do some periodic acts it needs to have done.  This is why to poop is enjoyable, to piss is enjoyable, to breathe is enjoyable, and... to cum is great!  Why challenge these?

 

He already said it's for fun. Just like some people compete on how long they hold their breath - just for fun. 

 

He is achieving something not many can - even if it's for the sake of fun. 

[Guest Guest]

On 5/29/2018 at 11:34 AM, Guest Nostalgic said:

I easily got agitated and usually cannot mask my emotion. I really hate those people who can mask their emotion. I'm referring to those pretender, tiger in lamb wool/skin- say one thing but do the other without shame. And then cactus master from this forum advised me to eat vegetarian and do not jerk off. I eat vegetarian and smoothies diet for a total of 3 months +1 month. I did not feel anything. And practice abstinence close to a month. I feel more moody than jerking off whereby i can  release the stress. 

Dear Guest Nostalgic,

I visit BW forum once in a while and I happened to see your post. Discussion threads like this, spiritualism, vegetarianism & etc., interest me but I tried not to participate too much in BW forums. I spend time in other Chinese forums and I feel my posts are much appreciated, especially, sharing same thought as me. Also, it is easy for me to express in Chinese, and I do not have to spend time convince/explain. 

Before my NS enlistment, I am already a vegetarian. I do not have sex and sexual thoughts seldom cross my mind. I have not wank off for many years. In fact, no masturbation at all. I have wet-dream once in a while and I can't helped it.

I am glad you tried for vegetarian diet and stay away from masturbation for some times. Thank you for sharing something about yourself. There could be a few reasons why a person feel moody and frustrated easily. It has nothing to do with vegetarian and abstinence from masturbation. I can point out two common factors in terms of spiritual explanation (it is very tough for me to explain in English, but I will try). 

It occurs only in some people and they got agitated/mood swing for no reason. It has to do with either yourself, or the environment you are living.  

Firstly, if there is spirit(s) in inhabited in a person, it is hard to tell. The person can look perfectly normal just like ordinary people and harmless but I afraid almost all mighty tangki/trance medium do not have the ability to see or differentiate. These people (with unwanted spirits inhabited in the body) have "ticking time bomb", and they can flare up at anytime. The inner spirit(s) act as catalyst/reactant, causing/influencing the real person to explode. When they got into fight or quarrel, it not themselves. Based on my experience, I have seen was four spirits inhabited in one person.

Next, spirit(s) (aka hantu) became unwelcome inhabitant in your house. When a person is outside of the house, s/he (you) feel relief and get alot well with others. But, once s/he (you) stepped into the house, family members started to pick fight with him/her/you or vice versa. That is one of the common reasons, why people living under one roof can't get along well. Examples: couples divorced, partners parted, agitated, quarrelsome & etc. There are also some other symptoms like unrecoverable illness, insomnia & etc.

Off hand, I can't give you a well defined answer about you. Probably, the time is short. As I haven't seen you in person, I can't be conclusive what is the cause of your "moodiness". In terms of spiritualistic explanation in general and based on my experience, it could be the person (himself/herself), environment or both. 
 

Sorry to everybody that I don't know how to organise paragraph to entice readers. 
 

In the entire Singapore, nobody can write this. I believe you are smart and you should know who am I by now.

[Guest Nostalgic]

21 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

Dear Guest Nostalgic,

I visit BW forum once in a while and I happened to see your post. Discussion threads like this, spiritualism, vegetarianism & etc., interest me but I tried not to participate too much in BW forums. I spend time in other Chinese forums and I feel my posts are much appreciated, especially, sharing same thought as me. Also, it is easy for me to express in Chinese, and I do not have to spend time convince/explain. 

Before my NS enlistment, I am already a vegetarian. I do not have sex and sexual thoughts seldom cross my mind. I have not wank off for many years. In fact, no masturbation at all. I have wet-dream once in a while and I can't helped it.

I am glad you tried for vegetarian diet and stay away from masturbation for some times. Thank you for sharing something about yourself. There could be a few reasons why a person feel moody and frustrated easily. It has nothing to do with vegetarian and abstinence from masturbation. I can point out two common factors in terms of spiritual explanation (it is very tough for me to explain in English, but I will try). 

It occurs only in some people and they got agitated/mood swing for no reason. It has to do with either yourself, or the environment you are living.  

Firstly, if there is spirit(s) in inhabited in a person, it is hard to tell. The person can look perfectly normal just like ordinary people and harmless but I afraid almost all mighty tangki/trance medium do not have the ability to see or differentiate. These people (with unwanted spirits inhabited in the body) have "ticking time bomb", and they can flare up at anytime. The inner spirit(s) act as catalyst/reactant, causing/influencing the real person to explode. When they got into fight or quarrel, it not themselves. Based on my experience, I have seen was four spirits inhabited in one person.

Next, spirit(s) (aka hantu) became unwelcome inhabitant in your house. When a person is outside of the house, s/he (you) feel relief and get alot well with others. But, once s/he (you) stepped into the house, family members started to pick fight with him/her/you or vice versa. That is one of the common reasons, why people living under one roof can't get along well. Examples: couples divorced, partners parted, agitated, quarrelsome & etc. There are also some other symptoms like unrecoverable illness, insomnia & etc.

Off hand, I can't give you a well defined answer about you. Probably, the time is short. As I haven't seen you in person, I can't be conclusive what is the cause of your "moodiness". In terms of spiritualistic explanation in general and based on my experience, it could be the person (himself/herself), environment or both. 
 

Sorry to everybody that I don't know how to organise paragraph to entice readers. 
 

In the entire Singapore, nobody can write this. I believe you are smart and you should know who am I by now.

I think only spirit can write like what you are writing now. Thank you spirit for informing me.

 

I really feel strange about myself. I am moody, introvert, asocial, prefer to keep to myself, spending time alone with myself. and really cant mingle well with people. don't like to strike a conversation with people. really wanted to end a conversation and quickly start my work. don't know how to sing praises to someone cause feel goosebump raising all over my body. really not my style. I can be moody and have a foggy brain at one moment and  happy and clear minded at other moment. when I feel someone is bad guy and speaking ill about me, I will avoid the person using whatever means that I can.

 

I know something is wrong with me. I really wish that a ghost is inhabitated inside of me. at least I know the reason why about my peculiar behaviour. now if there is a ghost inhabitated inside of me, how to I perform the self- exorcism? I really wish to become the normal self of me. If wasn't because of this problem, I wont take a backwards approach in my career.

 

Have you about Guanyin citta burning little houses for the spirits that disturb us? Somebody said that Master Lu can read people's mind and not because he can talk to the totems. I was lazy to try because it takes too much efforts to experiment with the methods. unless I have more of a convincing faith about the methods.

 

I think I know who you are. You must be my guardian spirits

Thank you so much for contacting me. Love you. Muach

[Steve5380]

3 hours ago, Guest 298 hours said:

 

He already said it's for fun. Just like some people compete on how long they hold their breath - just for fun. 

 

He is achieving something not many can - even if it's for the sake of fun. 

 

Yes, one cannot argue against people having fun...

Some people have fun rock climbing without protection, skydiving, playing russian roulette, etc. 

[Ben Ben Ben]

On 5/28/2018 at 4:05 PM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

You so cute

let gor got help you to unload 

[DEREK88888]

Anyway, this is the 1st time i come across people claming for No Fap for so long....298 days. But, again how true is it?? I can also said i No Fap for 400 days now and still counting....lol...if not lesser....350 days now and still counting! The person whom posted it seems dissapeared and didnt say or comment anything....anymore. Maybe he is thinking how to No Fap forever.....perhapes.

[Steve5380]

35 minutes ago, Guest Nostalgic said:

 

I really feel strange about myself. I am moody, introvert, asocial, prefer to keep to myself, spending time alone with myself. and really cant mingle well with people. don't like to strike a conversation with people. really wanted to end a conversation and quickly start my work. don't know how to sing praises to someone cause feel goosebump raising all over my body. really not my style. I can be moody and have a foggy brain at one moment and  happy and clear minded at other moment. when I feel someone is bad guy and speaking ill about me, I will avoid the person using whatever means that I can.

 

I know something is wrong with me. I really wish that a ghost is inhabitated inside of me. at least I know the reason why about my peculiar behaviour. now if there is a ghost inhabitated inside of me, how to I perform the self- exorcism? I really wish to become the normal self of me. If wasn't because of this problem, I wont take a backwards approach in my career.

 

 

Early in life I was also very unsociable.  You should ask yourself one fundamental question:  how you feel when you are by YOURSELF?  When you do your work or some entertainment by yourself?  You feel then at peace, undisturbed, relaxed?

 

If so, there is nothing wrong with you.  You just LACK social skills.  They can be easy or difficult for us, but in the end they are skills that CAN BE LEARNED.   I remember feeling sick, with all the symptoms you have, when I had to do something that scared me to death.  Like ice skating, diving into a pool, rolling on the floor from a standing position, etc.  At those times I could have found a "spirit" inside me, a ghost that filled me with fear.  But now I laugh at the idea of ghosts.

 

It could be beneficial if you change your belief in being invaded by ghosts with being proactive finding help to practice social skills and so overcome all the fears that their lack produces. There is nothing shameful in seeking such help, like there is nothing shameful in asking for help with the computer.  Some are lucky to learn social skills from their parents and their environment, some of us we were not that lucky and have to struggle until we find either professional help or self-help.

 

BTW,  having good social skills should not force you to be sociable.  You can still enjoy most of your time being in solitude, but when the circumstances are that you mingle with others then you apply your social skills feeling good, at ease, chatting freely and abundantly, being corresponded, appreciated, etc. until you can return without rush to be by yourself.

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Edited May 30, 2018 by Steve5380

[Guest Nostalgic]

10 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

Early in life I was also very unsociable.  You should ask yourself one fundamental question:  how you feel when you are by YOURSELF?  When you do your work or some entertainment by yourself?  You feel then at peace, undisturbed, relaxed?

 

If so, there is nothing wrong with you.  You just LACK social skills.  They can be easy or difficult for us, but in the end they are skills that CAN BE LEARNED.   I remember feeling sick, with all the symptoms you have, when I had to do something that scared me to death.  Like ice skating, diving into a pool, rolling on the floor from a standing position, etc.  At those times I could have found a "spirit" inside me, a ghost that filled me with fear.  But now I laugh at the idea of ghosts.

 

It could be beneficial if you change your belief in being invaded by ghosts with being proactive finding help to practice social skills and so overcome all the fears that their lack produces. There is nothing shameful in seeking such help, like there is nothing shameful in asking for help with the computer.  Some are lucky to learn social skills from their parents and their environment, some of us we were not that lucky and have to struggle until we find either professional help or self-help.

If I liken social skill to a woman, I wont have the interest to force myself to learn to like a woman. at least that's how I feel- exhaustive and lack of interest.

 

I know the important of teamwork and networking, but I prefer and perform best when working by myself. Yes I feel more peace and calm.

 

I read the book how to win friends and influence people. I have tried one of the skill there. It works and I was happy and satisfied. but that's it. do I eager to try it next time. the answer is no.

 

I can see people who are so naturally love to socialise. He can enliven the environments. but then I imagine to myself, would I want to be like him and spilling all those words. The answer is no. I feel disgusted of myself if I ever speak like that.

 

and I have a type B blood. Japanese people don't like blood type B because they are not husband/BF material. I think there is some true to it.

[Kkklaus]

On 5/28/2018 at 4:05 PM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

omg why tourture yourself like this HAHAAHS

[Guest Nostalgic]

the ever popular term: use it or lose it. Will your penis muscle start to atrophy after sometimes?

[Ben Ben Ben]

I think if a gal don’t use her cb for 298 days, she has no issue with her cb. So TS shouldn’t have any issue if he doesn’t use his kkj for 298 days. 

[mango_juice]

usually close to the end of 2nd week i will get wet dream liao 

[mango_juice]

On 5/28/2018 at 4:05 PM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

 

wa fuck any way u challenging with who? i think i touch u only u cum liao liddat

[Guest Blank]

On 5/28/2018 at 4:05 PM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

 

Signing up! Day 1 challenge 

 

Goal: To have wet dream 

 

Not sure if I get wet dream, it happened before during a 3weeks overseas ns training. TS, you want to sleep beside me? But you cannot touch me 

[mate69]

Lmao this topic !

[DEREK88888]

How long then will have wet dreams??

[mate69]

I definitely cannot tahan. Need to cum always. 

[Guest Blank]

19 hours ago, Guest Blank said:

 

Signing up! Day 1 challenge 

 

Goal: To have wet dream 

 

Not sure if I get wet dream, it happened before during a 3weeks overseas ns training. TS, you want to sleep beside me? But you cannot touch me 

 

 

Day 2 no fap challenge 

 

Just now shower then unrolled kkj skin and wash already erected long and hard  

[Guest Blank]

Day 3 no fap challenge  maybe I should swim before meeting bf

[CumdrinkNgo]

Just now, Guest Blank said:

Day 3 no fap challenge  maybe I should swim before meeting bf

 

 

some people can no fap for 1 year is it possible ?

[CumdrinkNgo]

On ‎5‎/‎28‎/‎2018 at 4:05 PM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

 

 

no flap I year now ?

[xavier98]

On Mon May 28 2018 at 4:05 PM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

 

Hmm...TS are u okie?...

No response frm u, since ur 298th days... anything unusual happened..

Haha....

[Guest Blank]

On 6/3/2018 at 7:22 AM, CumdrinkNgo said:

 

 

some people can no fap for 1 year is it possible ?

 

Not too sure as I've fapped that night after meeting my bf. He kissed me.. 

 

Maybe thread starter doesn't have any bf 

[repressednerd]

No fap means that having sex is not counted.

 

By the time I hit my second month with no fap or sex, I think I would be at the limit of rational thought. My body will be desperate to mate with any guy, and many guys on the street would look pretty hot to me.

[Steve5380]

On 5/28/2018 at 3:05 AM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

 

Don't go too far with your "no fap challenge",

are you sure it cannot become a "fap challenge" after exceeding some time?

You know what they say: "use it or lose it"...

You should not have a "fap challenge" before you are 80 years old...

.

Edited June 9, 2018 by Steve5380

[Guest Blank]

On 6/10/2018 at 12:22 AM, Steve5380 said:

 

Don't go too far with your "no fap challenge",

are you sure it cannot become a "fap challenge" after exceeding some time?

You know what they say: "use it or lose it"...

You should not have a "fap challenge" before you are 80 years old...

.

 

You mean 79yo still can fap? I thought even at 65, the guy can't erect already? Not sure at what age will one start to lose his libido 

[Guest Kkj]

On 5/28/2018 at 4:05 PM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

 

Beware, your kkj long time no use will become rusty and grow mushrooms ..... your sperms will grow too big to discharge through your urethral causing choking. 

[Guest Kkj]

On 5/28/2018 at 4:05 PM, Newbieboy said:

For fun topic haha  Anyone here tried or is currently doing the no fap challenge? It's just something to see how long you can go for without jerking off. I am on my 298th day so far 

 

Beware, your kkj long time no use will become rusty and grow mushrooms ..... your sperms will grow too big to discharge through your urethral causing choking. 

[Steve5380]

1 hour ago, Guest Blank said:

 

You mean 79yo still can fap? I thought even at 65, the guy can't erect already? Not sure at what age will one start to lose his libido 

 

I cannot confirm 79yo still can fap, but I am in my mid 70s and I CAN fap.  Nothing seems to come in the way. 

At 65 there was no problem at all. Not even a loss of libido.  But 10 years later strong urges to fap are gone, although not the libido.  

It seems that we can keep a libido until the last breath.

 

[Guest Blank]

17 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

 

I cannot confirm 79yo still can fap, but I am in my mid 70s and I CAN fap.  Nothing seems to come in the way. 

At 65 there was no problem at all. Not even a loss of libido.  But 10 years later strong urges to fap are gone, although not the libido.  

It seems that we can keep a libido until the last breath.

 

 

Thanks for sharing this wise knowledge, I really appreciate your inputs. That's why I love talking to matured men but I don't know why do I end up with a younger bf

 

 When you say strong urges are gone, do you mean you have no real need to fap for several weeks unless you switch on your pc looking at porn?