Guest Gettow Posted July 10, 2018 Report Share Posted July 10, 2018 Have you guys noticed whenever you are chatting online in any gay apps or social media, those who already have a boyfriend are more relax to talk with, sincere, no hang ups and more real. But single guys tends to be more complicated, sometimes difficult to talk with, a lot hang ups, very superficial and not really sincere and will just gone when you dont reply, sometimes they only answer on word like yes, hi, of course, ic. Is it should be the other way around? just wondering.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted July 10, 2018 Report Share Posted July 10, 2018 Good guys are either attached, married, in heaven or still a young kid. The remaining you know ah... Marineboy, leo yok loo and blowmenow 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post repressednerd Posted July 10, 2018 Popular Post Report Share Posted July 10, 2018 There’s a reason why those guys are attached, and also another reason why the uncoupled ones are still not able to find someone. #personalityproblem leo yok loo, blowmenow, auri and 2 others 2 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel_dust Posted January 26, 2019 Report Share Posted January 26, 2019 Because most of them have no agenda and expectations. Peterjty 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingbitch Posted January 27, 2019 Report Share Posted January 27, 2019 (edited) I think this is only partially true. There are many attached guys who look for hook-ups online discreetly. They behave no differently from singles - or rather, even worse since they need to maintain personal discretion. Edited January 27, 2019 by kingbitch blowmenow 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guilty Posted January 27, 2019 Report Share Posted January 27, 2019 they are probably guilty cos chat behind their partner's back so appear nicer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2019 Report Share Posted January 27, 2019 7 hours ago, Guest guilty said: they are probably guilty cos chat behind their partner's back so appear nicer. yep agree, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted January 27, 2019 Report Share Posted January 27, 2019 (edited) Dont blame the singles! They have to be aware of falling for attached people/ married guys. Constant lookout for danger signs; conatant check on own feelings. My single fren had affair with an attached guy. The guy wants sex and good company, likes chatting n cuddling a lot. But theres only so much heart that my fren can pour. He has to constantly manage.his feelings. Otherwise he feels he might slowly fall for the guy. Edited January 27, 2019 by auscent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alponsu Posted January 28, 2019 Report Share Posted January 28, 2019 3 hours ago, auscent said: Dont blame the singles! They have to be aware of falling for attached people/ married guys. Constant lookout for danger signs; conatant check on own feelings. My single fren had affair with an attached guy. The guy wants sex and good company, likes chatting n cuddling a lot. But theres only so much heart that my fren can pour. He has to constantly manage.his feelings. Otherwise he feels he might slowly fall for the guy. Yes indeed, the singles could be unsure because they have to consider a lot of things like how to approach or if the other party is sincere. On the other hand, those attached may be chatting in a more relaxed manner because they are confident they have nothing to lose since they already have a partner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgind Posted January 28, 2019 Report Share Posted January 28, 2019 On 1/27/2019 at 2:53 AM, angel_dust said: Because most of them have no agenda and expectations. Agree with this point. Most have no expectations that can be lost. Dont think it is the single ones with personality problems all the time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Solamio Posted January 28, 2019 Report Share Posted January 28, 2019 1 hour ago, Alponsu said: Yes indeed, the singles could be unsure because they have to consider a lot of things like how to approach or if the other party is sincere. On the other hand, those attached may be chatting in a more relaxed manner because they are confident they have nothing to lose since they already have a partner. Unfortunately true. They are only looking for quick sex otherwise they can eat at home. We singles are more desperate for release. We hope to get a good guy but sometimes no fish, prawn also can. No relationship, only sex also can. After the attached guy finished, he can merrily go back to his partner. We single have to look for another one again. It gets kind of tiresome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Solamio Posted January 28, 2019 Report Share Posted January 28, 2019 On 7/10/2018 at 10:39 AM, Ben Ben Ben said: Good guys are either attached, married, in heaven or still a young kid. The remaining you know ah... Appear too often on the gay apps and we singles appear to be 剩男。 No more bargaining power left, even know he's attached also no choice. During sex is 任人宰割。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suckmegood Posted January 28, 2019 Report Share Posted January 28, 2019 There’s a reason why some people are #ForeverAlone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heroman Posted January 28, 2019 Report Share Posted January 28, 2019 On 7/10/2018 at 10:32 AM, Guest Gettow said: Have you guys noticed whenever you are chatting online in any gay apps or social media, those who already have a boyfriend are more relax to talk with, sincere, no hang ups and more real. But single guys tends to be more complicated, sometimes difficult to talk with, a lot hang ups, very superficial and not really sincere and will just gone when you dont reply, sometimes they only answer on word like yes, hi, of course, ic. Is it should be the other way around? just wondering.... that's the reason why they are already attached? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted January 29, 2019 Report Share Posted January 29, 2019 It boils down to a person character, not so much on the relationship status, isn't it? How a person treats others is a clear reflection of how he/she wants to be treated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted January 29, 2019 Report Share Posted January 29, 2019 The single guy who is holding back is just being responsible to himself and the couple. He prob didnt want to wreck havoc. Those who think of others often get bashed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CherieLove Posted January 30, 2019 Report Share Posted January 30, 2019 Welp thats an unfair generalisation of us singletons. isn't it more like its harder to find good conversations regardless or relationship status in this day and age? Source: my message inbox Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abgsam001 Posted January 30, 2019 Report Share Posted January 30, 2019 On 1/29/2019 at 2:26 PM, thorzguy said: It boils down to a person character, not so much on the relationship status, isn't it? How a person treats others is a clear reflection of how he/she wants to be treated. Agree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Candy Boy Posted January 31, 2019 Report Share Posted January 31, 2019 On 7/10/2018 at 10:32 AM, Guest Gettow said: Have you guys noticed whenever you are chatting online in any gay apps or social media, those who already have a boyfriend are more relax to talk with, sincere, no hang ups and more real. A small boy with candies in hand is always happier than a boy with none. This is called the secured vs the insecurity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgind Posted February 4, 2019 Report Share Posted February 4, 2019 On 1/31/2019 at 8:41 AM, Guest Candy Boy said: A small boy with candies in hand is always happier than a boy with none. This is called the secured vs the insecurity. Amen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lah Posted February 4, 2019 Report Share Posted February 4, 2019 Attached and still go on-line to communicate... with who? What kind of attachment? Sincere to who? Spare me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lah Posted February 4, 2019 Report Share Posted February 4, 2019 On 7/10/2018 at 2:58 PM, repressednerd said: There’s a reason why those guys are attached, and also another reason why the uncoupled ones are still not able to find someone. #personalityproblem Exactly. Attached and never tired of cheating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raveology Posted February 5, 2019 Report Share Posted February 5, 2019 On 7/10/2018 at 10:32 AM, Guest Gettow said: Have you guys noticed whenever you are chatting online in any gay apps or social media, those who already have a boyfriend are more relax to talk with, sincere, no hang ups and more real. But single guys tends to be more complicated, sometimes difficult to talk with, a lot hang ups, very superficial and not really sincere and will just gone when you dont reply, sometimes they only answer on word like yes, hi, of course, ic. Is it should be the other way around? just wondering.... uhm. attached people in social media r just looking for friends ba. cause they r commitment? i guess? hahahah single people usually wanna find fun more ba ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zackling Posted February 5, 2019 Report Share Posted February 5, 2019 (edited) it is call maturity goofy!! NEXT TOPIC PLEASE!!! Edited February 5, 2019 by Zackling Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted February 5, 2019 Report Share Posted February 5, 2019 16 hours ago, Guest lah said: Attached and still go on-line to communicate... with who? What kind of attachment? Sincere to who? Agree. This atrached guy i once knew wants good sex and great company. Wtf. Must be missing heaps in his relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted February 5, 2019 Report Share Posted February 5, 2019 Sorry guys, the good and handsome gays are already taken The singles continue to be single due to many reasons of themselves of the time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted February 5, 2019 Report Share Posted February 5, 2019 12 minutes ago, Guest Blank said: The singles continue to be single due to many reasons of themselves of the time If singles are so psychotic why market still has attached players? How many topics in forum is about attached but no sex/how to have 3some with bf/etc? If being attached satisfies all ur needs, why still want others including singles company? Point is: many remain single becos of circumstances. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted February 5, 2019 Report Share Posted February 5, 2019 19 minutes ago, auscent said: If singles are so psychotic why market still has attached players? How many topics in forum is about attached but no sex/how to have 3some with bf/etc? If being attached satisfies all ur needs, why still want others including singles company? Point is: many remain single becos of circumstances. You have to ask those who are attached but still looking for singles. I'm attached monogamously for >3years with my cute bf I'm not saying singles are psychotic, they have their own mindsets and there is nothing wrong being single either. Most of the time, they yearn for a bf but couldn't or for some reasons don't want due to many reasons... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lah Posted February 6, 2019 Report Share Posted February 6, 2019 19 hours ago, Guest Blank said: I'm not saying singles are psychotic, they have their own mindsets and there is nothing wrong being single either. Most of the time, they yearn for a bf but couldn't or for some reasons don't want due to many reasons... Simple reason: Don't want to be with maggots that are craving for irresponsible sexual activities yet still gave fake excuses of matured attached looking for friends and expect everyone to be pathetic, desperate and three years old. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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