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Side track a bit, this video has a message for meeting people based on pictures

 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Just a few minutes ago. He complimented my body and asked for workout advice. To understand his physique (profile no picture, no age, no height, no weight), I asked for his weight then height. I told him he needs to get rid about 30-35 kg. Then I asked how old. He said 16. Told him he shouldn't be on Grindr. Told him to workout before I reported his account to Grindr and blocked him.

 

16 years old!

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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how many of you actually paid grindr for thier upgraded service? I never found it motivating enough to do so heheh

** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021.

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Someone said Hi on Grindr. I asked why his profile empty. I got a reply ''Fuck Off! Get Lost!'' Wow!

 

Not wanting to be in exchange of e-fucking, I decided to block that young man. I am learning to use the Block option more these days for haters/insecure guys. It calms the heart and mind.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I feel you guys for the experiences you all had on grindr. I don't understand Y ppl message u first then don't reply for days although they are shown to be online.

But anyways I met my present bf thru grindr and we've been together for the last 3 months and counting.

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I actually guess maybe those who messaged and not repl are those who are last min fun seeker. 

Imagine them gg online and scanning thru Grindr. They probably text 5-10 users there and see which replies and are able to make it to meet. 

If they managed to find at least one to meet up, why would they want to repl the rest?....

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I actually guess maybe those who messaged and not repl are those who are last min fun seeker.

Imagine them gg online and scanning thru Grindr. They probably text 5-10 users there and see which replies and are able to make it to meet.

If they managed to find at least one to meet up, why would they want to repl the rest?....

You are one of those bitches for sure

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Well. I'm sure you are one of those trolls who have no balls to sign up as a user to attack people here.

I really do hope that you grow some. :)

Same tactic

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Yawn

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I think all should just chill and not take anything seriously and get worked up by someone you don't even know. Do you need to be persistent? Do you need to be annoyed and offended if you don't get replies? Is the other guy, or rather you, in his shoes, obliged to reply or continue conversation if there is no interest? Does everyone need to get worked up and be hostile and be in blocking mode and engage in cursing wars among complete strangers?

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how many of you actually paid grindr for thier upgraded service? I never found it motivating enough to do so heheh

i had a friend in his early 30s who paid both for grindr and jackd extra so he could see more guys but he adds on a filter to it... hai what's the point then.........

 

to be abit desperate already to be paying for such apps

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grindr is good.

 

Some rules though. Don't even try to chat up with a profile with no pic...just ignore them.

 

I met a guy who live opposite my blk on grindr. He is married, friendly and good to me. I've since deleted grindr as I don't see why I need different guys in my life.

One thing that pisses me off is there was this guy who is like only 30meters away from me...hit up a friendly chat but he only ask me which floor i'm staying.

I ignored him. 

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Hate when a person ask for a pic yet there picture is blocked or have somenhakf head picture yet they ask you where urs and they don't have none ... Like what do you say once u ask for there and they don't unlock

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I feel you guys for the experiences you all had on grindr. I don't understand Y ppl message u first then don't reply for days although they are shown to be online.

But anyways I met my present bf thru grindr and we've been together for the last 3 months and counting.

u r lucky, i really wonder how many can be as lucky as you

 

lots of pic cheater!! Ask your pic, after sending replied nice...but dun wanna to exchange their pic -_-

i had my fair share of such irritating ppl. first they say "trade" then "you first" or "after you" so after i send, either nice, or no reply or block

i know im not a muscled hunk with gorgeous looking face but at least im average looking. make me feel so cheated and as if i looked like a monster

nowadays, whoever says "you first" or "after you" i wont bother to reply them because they lack the sincerity in my opinion, because they initiated asking for a picture but yet want the other party to offer their pict first before them when it was an agreed exchange of pict

how many of you actually paid grindr for thier upgraded service? I never found it motivating enough to do so heheh

well i got a friend who paid and finally saw results. he was hooked up some time ago after paying for n years

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This just happen today... A guy message me in the morning for a BJ, so I asked for his pic and he gave me a FAKE ONE. It was some irresistible cute chn guy with slim-hard bod and I reluctantly shared my pics with him too. I told him I had to work in AMK so we can only have fun at night. So after work, I was damn horny enduring the entire day to blow him, I traveled from AMK to CCK to Teck Whye where he lived. When I reached, no one was there so i waited and waited until I got a reply. He finally confessed that he isnt chinese but chubby indian.  (no hate intended but im chn and I personally prefer chn guys). I couldn't believe him at first asking if he was playing with me but no he was damn right serious. The cute chn guy was apparently his "ex-BF" which i cant tell if thats a lie too. I got so frustrated that I didnt even want to continue our convo and blocked him... SHAMELESS & DISHONEST for wasting people's time and using someone else's pic. I pretty sure I'm not the first victim. To everyone out there, if you're meeting someone who lives ard Teck Whye's LRT pls becareful... PM if you wanna make sure it isit the same guy.. For all we know, he might be ussing my pictures for impersonation this time round...

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I was naive enough to think that Jack'd/Grindr are just normal social app to make friends around my area. Soon i realized that about 9 out of 10 people there are seeking fun.

Thru Grindr I knew one guy who is just a few blocks away. He told me he is not into fun. We clicked quite well, exchange texts for 1 or 2 weeks, then he finally lose his patience and revealed his true intentions. I also knew some of them are using fake pictures, or pictures that were taken 10, 20 years ago. There are so many hypocrites around. Uninstalled both apps.

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Through a friend, I got to know that Jack'd seems a 'safer' app than Grindr, so with that in mind, I installed the former. So far my experiences have been more hits than misses, with several meetups with the guys I chatted. Hey, I even met my boyfriend through this app! Hmm... I wonder if this would restore some faith in those of you looking for a relationship? All the best!  

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I love it when people assumes I'm a mb in Grindr, Growler, PlanetRomeo, etc. And then you have this few amount of people who just sweet talks to you and once you give them your dick, YEP INSTANT IGNORE.

 

Also had this one person who used another person's photo on Grindr and talked to me. Met up with him, and he looks fucking different than the photo shown. You know what's funny? During the date he asked me this "do you have any drawings for me I can use to get into Laselle." I just told him I don't have any. Wonderful.

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  • 1 month later...

had a good convo to start with but said no after exchanging pic

 

and then i got hit with a multi-threaded reply on superficiality, vanity and insincerity for a few days... 

 

as much as I enjoy a good convo, it shld not be assumed that there will be a hook-up

 

i am not looking for greek gods, but it still boils down to some level of physical attraction before hooking up.

 

just sayin and don't flame me with more superficiality posts... 

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Hi. I'm new here but just wanted to share my Jack'D experience with this one particular user.

 

 

I first noticed him looking at my profile multiple times over a stretch of about a week via the "Who's View You" tab and didn't really bother about it much. He had a nice bod pic that was a little bit blurry and he looked like he works out a little but apart from that blurry torso shot of his, there wasn't much about him I could go on to really garner my interest,  so I never really bothered to start a conversation with him.

 

 

Fast forward to today, he finally dropped me a message, a simple "Hi" and "What are you looking for", I responded to those messages promptly, telling him I was looking for what majority of the users with topless profile pics there were looking for, he understood what I was talking about and asked me if I was a top or bottom. We had a few exchanges back and fourth and he ask me for pics. 

 

 

When someone ask me for pics, naturally I would ask them for theirs first before I unlocked mine. I assume that's what majority of us will do, especially if the profile is a faceless profile. 

 

 

So I ask him if he had any and he replied with a simple "Yup", I told him I will unlock mine if he unlocked his, to which he replied "I'm a no nonsense guy". I reiterated to him again that if he wanted my pics, he should give me his first, and he goes, "so you are one of those guys." Up to now I still don't know what he means by I am one of "those guys", and since we weren't getting anywhere, I just told him to have a good day and delete the conversation, butfor some reason, he wasn't very happy with my response and had this to say to me.

 

 

 

"You are obviously not a nice person"

 

 

 

 

I really don't understand what's happening with him to be honest, so I just wrote back of chunk of text to him, essentially telling him sarcastically that I was not a nice person for not giving in to his simple request, and then proceeded to block him, which I probably shouldn't have because that means he wouldn't be able to have read that chunk of text I send to him.

 

 

 

So this is my experience with Jack'd, with that one guy, majority of the others I've met on the app seemed pretty friendly, but once in a while, I get this weird ones.

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Please bear with this little rant of mine, just wondering if this is supposed to be a common occurrence in jackd.

 

~ after some basic correspondence and pics exchange with this person on jackd.

Him: Hey. Would you like to chat on Whatsapp?

Me: Hmm...shall we chat a little bit more over here first? I'm not comfortable will adding strangers onto whatsapp.

Him: But I don't use this app very often. Why not take a chance?

Me: Hmm....alright then

~ chatted abit more on Whatsapp with him.

 

The next day...

Me: Hey afternoon. Hows your day been? (on Whatsapp)

~ saw him online a few times but no reply even after a whole day.

Me: Hi. Do let me know if you are still keen on this conversation? If not I'll be clearing this chat window. No hard feelings. Thanks! (on Whatsapp)

~ saw him online a few times again but still no reply. I assumed he is not keen and proceed to clear it and delete his contact from my phone.

 

Maybe its just me but I'm a tad uncomfortable with having remnants of dead chat windows with dubious strangers on Whatsapp. Does anyone else feel that way?

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Please bear with this little rant of mine, just wondering if this is supposed to be a common occurrence in jackd.

 

~ after some basic correspondence and pics exchange with this person on jackd.

Him: Hey. Would you like to chat on Whatsapp?

Me: Hmm...shall we chat a little bit more over here first? I'm not comfortable will adding strangers onto whatsapp.

Him: But I don't use this app very often. Why not take a chance?

Me: Hmm....alright then

~ chatted abit more on Whatsapp with him.

 

The next day...

Me: Hey afternoon. Hows your day been? (on Whatsapp)

~ saw him online a few times but no reply even after a whole day.

Me: Hi. Do let me know if you are still keen on this conversation? If not I'll be clearing this chat window. No hard feelings. Thanks! (on Whatsapp)

~ saw him online a few times again but still no reply. I assumed he is not keen and proceed to clear it and delete his contact from my phone.

 

Maybe its just me but I'm a tad uncomfortable with having remnants of dead chat windows with dubious strangers on Whatsapp. Does anyone else feel that way?

As a general rule, I don't my mobile number unless we arrange to meet up on a particular day, be it on the day itself or tomorrow. Otherwise guys just waste time chatting online. Bars, clubs and saunas are much better for meeting people. At least they can't hide behind a computer and pretend to be someone they are not!

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I purposely in my profile say I'm versatile.

Because of my muscular body, most think I'm a top.

I'm already middle aged and lots of young boys around 20yo want to suck my cock or fuck them, calling me daddy this daddy that. Some are really inexperienced. I ignored them.

But some very persistent and message me everyday. Until I had to tell then the truth, I'm a bottom I let men fuck me then they stop troubling me.

But maybe a few are not actually young, maybe some are old uncles wasting time. They'll ask me very embarrassing questions. Then I realised they are also wasting time putting fake profiles as tops and using 2 profiles to test me.

When I chat with the top profile, I don't mind him talk dirty to me like saying how he will fuck me until I cannot walk next day, how he send me dirty photos of anal sex of masculine men getting fucked. Then ask me how I like to be fucked. How I feel with a cock up my ass. Call me a slut but I get turned on and ask to meet. He always got excuses too busy.

Then when I chat with a young bottom. He said he only 20 and scared but like to please me as a bottom. I told him I'm a bottom and older than his father, don't bother me. At first I didn't know so I got curious to exchange dirty talks with an inexperienced bottom. He always asking me shy questions like how I get penetrated when so pain, how I choose tops, what is my fav sex positions, even asked me got pics of when I got fucked or send him pics of my wet hole.

When I rejected him to meet for sex, he tease me about my sexual details when serving men with my legs open. Then I suspect he's one of those talk only no action tops. But then there are a few I cannot know who is it.

I don't know why these time wasters like to disturb me. People say I should block them but I think, let them waste their time. If I block them, they will come back with another profile or even more profiles.

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A 21-year old Chinese Indian wrote in his profile just because he is Chinese Indian doesn't mean he would reply to Indians. I wonder if he needs to write that.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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What he needs to do is grow up.

 

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Lol! Won't reply or will block if not up to his standard.

You got to laugh at such immaturity! What does he think he is? The next King of England?

That kind of attitude will not get him far in life! For his sake, I hope he learns his lesson soon. This is the "I am a big fish in a small pond" attitude. But unfortunately, what he doesn't realise is that its NEVER a small pond but a huge ocean. And he is only a small fry!

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