FirsTimer Posted March 2, 2016 Report Share Posted March 2, 2016 I have had quite about a hundred chat and guess what, mostly don't give balls+ till the worst point of no replies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wantonmee Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 Random dude: I wanna bend u over and fuck your ass till it splits. Then I'm gonna fuck your face till I break your nose. Me: And they say romance is dead.... *where do they come from?....* grocksd and mate69 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rice60640 Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 These apps are mostly a waste of time. If you're looking for sex, the sauna is probably a better alternative. If you're looking for love though. I guess it's possible but I think you'll have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. ahben94 and lovehandle 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 I truly agree! and your last liner on "to kiss a lot of frogs" is so funny! - luv it! I think I m one of the frogs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sad ! Rice60640, grocksd, luvhandle and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 24 minutes ago, lovehandle said: I truly agree! and your last liner on "to kiss a lot of frogs" is so funny! - luv it! I think I m one of the frogs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sad ! you mean "toad"... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 It s frog and if u r not learned, pls dont attempt to air your nonsense go readup the story first Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rice60640 Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 2 hours ago, lovehandle said: I truly agree! and your last liner on "to kiss a lot of frogs" is so funny! - luv it! I think I m one of the frogs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sad ! One person's frog is another person's prince. Don't sell yourself short. lovehandle 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ener Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 I got rejected by a toad before. Lolz... definitely he didn't sell himself short. He was rather short though + old + balding + plump + he looks like gao ling feng... it was a blind date, he wasn't my type (I guess he wasn't most people's type) and I wasn't his (soon to find out). Since he travelled, I was all ready to buy him a drink and just talk it out, end up the first few words that came out from him was "Hello, wah, u not my type. Bye." And he walked back into the train station. Hah, I never felt soo good being rejected... saved my money and time. doublehappiness and allbino 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 7 minutes ago, Guest Ener said: I got rejected by a toad before. Lolz... definitely he didn't sell himself short. He was rather short though + old + balding + plump + he looks like gao ling feng... it was a blind date, he wasn't my type (I guess he wasn't most people's type) and I wasn't his (soon to find out). Since he travelled, I was all ready to buy him a drink and just talk it out, end up the first few words that came out from him was "Hello, wah, u not my type. Bye." And he walked back into the train station. Hah, I never felt soo good being rejected... saved my money and time. He might consider himself to be a learned frog though, and you were attempting to air nonsense and you didn't read up the story ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topdownunder Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 19 minutes ago, Guest Ener said: I got rejected by a toad before. Lolz... definitely he didn't sell himself short. He was rather short though + old + balding + plump + he looks like gao ling feng... it was a blind date, he wasn't my type (I guess he wasn't most people's type) and I wasn't his (soon to find out). Since he travelled, I was all ready to buy him a drink and just talk it out, end up the first few words that came out from him was "Hello, wah, u not my type. Bye." And he walked back into the train station. Hah, I never felt soo good being rejected... saved my money and time. Save yourself the trouble and money. That was nasty! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ener Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 4 hours ago, Guest Guest said: He might consider himself to be a learned frog though, and you were attempting to air nonsense and you didn't read up the story ... 4 hours ago, Guest Guest said: Sorry, did I hurt your feelings? Lolz... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 4 hours ago, Guest Ener said: I got rejected by a toad before. Lolz... definitely he didn't sell himself short. He was rather short though + old + balding + plump + he looks like gao ling feng... it was a blind date, he wasn't my type (I guess he wasn't most people's type) and I wasn't his (soon to find out). Since he travelled, I was all ready to buy him a drink and just talk it out, end up the first few words that came out from him was "Hello, wah, u not my type. Bye." And he walked back into the train station. Hah, I never felt soo good being rejected... saved my money and time. Aiyo tt person is bad Since u r here and cedckea 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hanzothetan Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 i really don't understands...am i that ugly? every time the convo will be... Me: Hi =D Him: Hi, face pic? Me: with my face pic. no more 'him' __________________________________________________ KTeddy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 1 hour ago, Guest Ener said: Sorry, did I hurt your feelings? Lolz... Not mine, but his below.... 8 hours ago, lovehandle said: It s frog and if u r not learned, pls dont attempt to air your nonsense go readup the story first Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guesta Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 There was this local guy whom we chatted on Grindr. He ask me if I have whatsapp. I said that I have wechat. And he assumes that I am from China despite me saying that I work in cs. So I got blocked halfway through the convo. Looking back, it is kinda funny that closed-minded locals still exist. Wechat = Chinaman Hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guesta Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 Another local guy who claims to be have a positive outlook. My whatsapp is linked to my current overseas number, so I use it since he wants to bring the conversation offline. After exchanging pictures, he ask where my number is from. I explain to him and there was dead silence after. So much for being positive thinking. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Joker Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 Me: hey how you doing mate. Him: Good afternoon, thanks. (I don't understand). Me: I'm sure you mean good evening by now, is 10pm now haha. Him: Pic? Me: I've unlocked it the moment I texted you. That's it, for our tconversatio. AND he is a professional worker lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dexter9898 Posted June 11, 2016 Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 On 6/10/2016 at 7:59 AM, Guest Joker said: Me: hey how you doing mate. Him: Good afternoon, thanks. (I don't understand). Me: I'm sure you mean good evening by now, is 10pm now haha. Him: Pic? Me: I've unlocked it the moment I texted you. That's it, for our tconversatio. AND he is a professional worker lol Most likely grindr bot http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/08/11/warning-these-grindr-profiles-are-actually-robots-trying-to-steal-your-info/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Joker Posted June 11, 2016 Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 7 hours ago, dexter9898 said: Most likely grindr bot http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/08/11/warning-these-grindr-profiles-are-actually-robots-trying-to-steal-your-info/ Oh? im not sure about it but well, when they are not happy with the pic they see, their IQ drop to negative most of the time. maybe u are right too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KTeddy Posted June 11, 2016 Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 Its a face / body world in the apps. Great looks / hot bods gets massive attention. Other than that, probably you can only browse pics like tumblr. Lol. No high hopes on such apps for me Chubby_1986, jdu and lovehandle 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted June 18, 2016 Report Share Posted June 18, 2016 When I saw this, I was like ''Wow! Really?" Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carpenter Posted June 19, 2016 Report Share Posted June 19, 2016 On 6/9/2016 at 10:13 AM, wantonmee said: Random dude: I wanna bend u over and fuck your ass till it splits. Then I'm gonna fuck your face till I break your nose. Thats too extreme, man. Sure it wasnt some psycho serial killer? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carpenter Posted June 19, 2016 Report Share Posted June 19, 2016 I had been in one of those apps n frankly speaking, all they care is about body. I use body as pp alot of them suddenly chat me up. Then i change to face pic n only several people try to chat me. Most of them dont even bother to look at the profiles i wrote. Lately, ive been seeing lot of pic with face pic than body pics. grocksd and casey_pjkl 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sfr Posted June 19, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 19, 2016 (edited) This happened to me, only I use LINE/Wechat/WhatsApp), but still I know similar situation happened to those who used Grindr/Jackd. So, half of the guys I texted (within past one month) at first was complimenting my stat and using sexily nasty words while expressing the way they prefer to fuck me or to get sucked by me. Then set the place and time we will meet up. Guess what, a day or several before the meet up, they asked for pic (some asked for face, some asked for half top, some asked both) and when I gave the requested pic, "voila!" they suddenly became silence like "IDGAF". I don't care if my look or bod is not in their preferences but at least be a gentleman, speak the truth with full of honesty as simple as "Hey I saw your pic, apparently I find that you're not my type. Sorry if I waste your time, let's stop here before one of us get dissapointed. Nice to chat with you. All the best" or even shorter vers "Apparently your pic doesn't suits my preferences, sorry for wasting your time. Hope you understand. Thanks." I am an easy man (boy I guess haha) just like many guys here, don't worry we will somehow understand. just don't leave me hanging, clueless. It is rude and can hurts inside, if the guy the type that I dreamed of. As basic as that! I mean, it's common sense, yes you're looking for at least one night stand but you're communicating with another human being. Please be reasonable. ATTITUDE MATTERS! Thank god some other have been real good to me which couples of them are damn good looking (face wise especially, could care less if their body is not my cup of tea when their face is adorable or hot) and the rest are at least average (either body wise @ face wise) enough for me not to reject them last minute. Thanks to them! Edited June 19, 2016 by sfr confused_indie, mate69, allbino and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted June 20, 2016 Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 you could insist on not giving them any photos, but glad that u have your fair share 6 hours ago, sfr said: This happened to me, only I use LINE/Wechat/WhatsApp), but still I know similar situation happened to those who used Grindr/Jackd. So, half of the guys I texted (within past one month) at first was complimenting my stat and using sexily nasty words while expressing the way they prefer to fuck me or to get sucked by me. Then set the place and time we will meet up. Guess what, a day or several before the meet up, they asked for pic (some asked for face, some asked for half top, some asked both) and when I gave the requested pic, "voila!" they suddenly became silence like "IDGAF". I don't care if my look or bod is not in their preferences but at least be a gentleman, speak the truth with full of honesty as simple as "Hey I saw your pic, apparently I find that you're not my type. Sorry if I waste your time, let's stop here before one of us get dissapointed. Nice to chat with you. All the best" or even shorter vers "Apparently your pic doesn't suits my preferences, sorry for wasting your time. Hope you understand. Thanks." I am an easy man (boy I guess haha) just like many guys here, don't worry we will somehow understand. just don't leave me hanging, clueless. It is rude and can hurts inside, if the guy the type that I dreamed of. As basic as that! I mean, it's common sense, yes you're looking for at least one night stand but you're communicating with another human being. Please be reasonable. ATTITUDE MATTERS! Thank god some other have been real good to me which couples of them are damn good looking (face wise especially, could care less if their body is not my cup of tea when their face is adorable or hot) and the rest are at least average (either body wise @ face wise) enough for me not to reject them last minute. Thanks to them! Since u r here 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdanbeam Posted June 20, 2016 Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 After a while you should be used to such antics. After all there is no loss on our part. lovehandle 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaze Posted June 20, 2016 Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 8 hours ago, sfr said: This happened to me, only I use LINE/Wechat/WhatsApp), but still I know similar situation happened to those who used Grindr/Jackd. So, half of the guys I texted (within past one month) at first was complimenting my stat and using sexily nasty words while expressing the way they prefer to fuck me or to get sucked by me. Then set the place and time we will meet up. Guess what, a day or several before the meet up, they asked for pic (some asked for face, some asked for half top, some asked both) and when I gave the requested pic, "voila!" they suddenly became silence like "IDGAF". I don't care if my look or bod is not in their preferences but at least be a gentleman, speak the truth with full of honesty as simple as "Hey I saw your pic, apparently I find that you're not my type. Sorry if I waste your time, let's stop here before one of us get dissapointed. Nice to chat with you. All the best" or even shorter vers "Apparently your pic doesn't suits my preferences, sorry for wasting your time. Hope you understand. Thanks." I am an easy man (boy I guess haha) just like many guys here, don't worry we will somehow understand. just don't leave me hanging, clueless. It is rude and can hurts inside, if the guy the type that I dreamed of. As basic as that! I mean, it's common sense, yes you're looking for at least one night stand but you're communicating with another human being. Please be reasonable. ATTITUDE MATTERS! Thank god some other have been real good to me which couples of them are damn good looking (face wise especially, could care less if their body is not my cup of tea when their face is adorable or hot) and the rest are at least average (either body wise @ face wise) enough for me not to reject them last minute. Thanks to them! I'm sure we all understand the point about "you choose me, I choose you" & "every1 has their preference, no offense intended" logic. Otherwise, it's best not to use the apps.. those people who went silent apparently doesn't know this. So.. sucks to be them.. just know these people, when they got rejected, they will go drama on why the other party is so picky etc.. so.. considered it one less mess in your life =) jdu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Job Welch Posted June 20, 2016 Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 Majority, NSA fun If he's a friend, he'll be blocked Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColdIceTea Posted June 20, 2016 Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 There was this guy who initiated the convo with me. I went to view his profile and I'm like Waaa my type of guy. Muscular and average looking. He asked what I was seeking, so I told him friends, dates or LTR. He replied, same ! So he asked if I wanna go out on a date? twice in a week weeks but I kept rejecting him, idk why. Days later we stopped chatting and his profile description suddenly changed, looking for fun People change so fast on these apps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
top_suck Posted June 20, 2016 Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 When both sides agree to exchange face pictures.. and when you send they suddenly block you without sending their pic. For me if he sends first and not my type, with due respect i would still send mine. Then later tell him...sorry not keen. shyboi, giPmuC, Kenneth Soo and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post paddle_up Posted June 20, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 Totally agree on that as respect begets respect. Many a times, we have to take it with a pinch of salt. Profiles stating friendly but never reply. Profiles stating looking for chat but respond with monosyllabic word. Profiles stating no reply is a reply, hmmmmm, I am sure my mother has taught me better than that. Some treats another person as a information providence service, always full of questions in digging out information but never offer any of theirs in return: Of course the detective version:. For example, when one shared that he is an accountant: immediate respond will be KPMG? Arrrrghh nope:. E&Y? Arrrghhhhh nope;. PWC? As many have mentioned, laugh it off. Frankly, even if we do meet up, I think it will be just once off. As the saying goes, it's a habit: online behavior many a times is a manifestation or mirror of their actual behavior; KTeddy, Skinny, mate69 and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KTeddy Posted June 20, 2016 Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 3 hours ago, paddle_up said: Totally agree on that as respect begets respect. Many a times, we have to take it with a pinch of salt. Profiles stating friendly but never reply. Profiles stating looking for chat but respond with monosyllabic word. Profiles stating no reply is a reply, hmmmmm, I am sure my mother has taught me better than that. Some treats another person as a information providence service, always full of questions in digging out information but never offer any of theirs in return: Of course the detective version:. For example, when one shared that he is an accountant: immediate respond will be KPMG? Arrrrghh nope:. E&Y? Arrrghhhhh nope;. PWC? As many have mentioned, laugh it off. Frankly, even if we do meet up, I think it will be just once off. As the saying goes, it's a habit: online behavior many a times is a manifestation or mirror of their actual behavior; Totally both hands up on this!!!! Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mml Posted June 20, 2016 Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 It's all a meat market no diff from a sauna. If you got good bod, flaunt and show off. Those wo pics are obviously trolls fishing by sending "hi" to everybody hoping to hit someone who's horny and desperate at the right moment. Don't give me that bullshit that they r discreet and u met some who r handsome. I have a good bod and got hit upon by many of these trolls. Of course I ignored them all. I took the trouble to write so much in my profile yet they don't even bother to address my preferences. If they don't take the efforts then no gain for them. Instead of taking the time to write more interesting stuff, they simply send "hi" to everybody and every few days again and again hoping for a reply. Apparently there are enough horny guys who responded and rewarded them with sex, enough to encourage them to use this fishing technique again and again. Still I'm not discouraged because it takes me no time or efforts to stay online. I'll rather wait for the right guy for a meaningful relationship than look for easy sex. 宁缺勿滥。 grocksd 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest :-( Posted June 20, 2016 Report Share Posted June 20, 2016 Lucky I had a bf now, not into such apps anymore Indeed more incoming warm chats with a face pic. After changing to black image, the world turns dark too. One guy was chatting with me for a few weeks and suddenly asked how do I look like and told him that it was taken down and won't load it again. Somehow, he wanted to meet me but I didn't want to. He had several face pics, my type but the convo isn't holding well so guess no point and bid him goodbye in the chat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 24, 2016 Report Share Posted June 24, 2016 Had this recent encounter. He claims that it is hard to finds friends and ask for my contact. I gave him my line. We chatted over phone and he sounds decent. He wanted to meet but I couldn't. So after a few chats, we sort of click. He thinks that I like him. I was open to long term but I told him it depends. He ask to meet. I am keen. I gave him my photo upon request but the next day he wishes me good luck to find someone I like. And I was blocked from all contacts. Had no chance to find out the real eason and I don't think that I will. Oh well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KTeddy Posted June 25, 2016 Report Share Posted June 25, 2016 10 hours ago, Guest Guest said: Had this recent encounter. He claims that it is hard to finds friends and ask for my contact. I gave him my line. We chatted over phone and he sounds decent. He wanted to meet but I couldn't. So after a few chats, we sort of click. He thinks that I like him. I was open to long term but I told him it depends. He ask to meet. I am keen. I gave him my photo upon request but the next day he wishes me good luck to find someone I like. And I was blocked from all contacts. Had no chance to find out the real eason and I don't think that I will. Oh well I know. It happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jojo Posted June 25, 2016 Report Share Posted June 25, 2016 Obvious right? You not his type. He not attracted to u in any way.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColdIceTea Posted June 25, 2016 Report Share Posted June 25, 2016 23 hours ago, Guest Guest said: Had this recent encounter. He claims that it is hard to finds friends and ask for my contact. I gave him my line. We chatted over phone and he sounds decent. He wanted to meet but I couldn't. So after a few chats, we sort of click. He thinks that I like him. I was open to long term but I told him it depends. He ask to meet. I am keen. I gave him my photo upon request but the next day he wishes me good luck to find someone I like. And I was blocked from all contacts. Had no chance to find out the real eason and I don't think that I will. Oh well As what jojo mentioned, you are not his type. That's the reason. Well atleast he made an effort to prompt you. Some would just block you immediately without saying a word ~.~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jdu Posted June 26, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 26, 2016 Just my own two cents... (Disclaimer: No offence to anyone.) Sometimes... meeting people off the street/or friends for the case maybe, might be better than thru apps... As the world evolved... Apps become more like hooks for fishes than for real friendship. A bit unfortunate I would say unless those that response are for genuine friendship. Then again, sometimes we ourselves step on our own shit - when what we say do not represent what we preach. This is how the world has become - not just in this circle. Stopped using Grindr and Jack'D about a year ago... happy to just meet friends or make friends who are genuine and walk thru the rest of life with you than those just meet you for a quickie and then either you disappear or they disappear from your life - it just shows the animalistic nature of us human beings. When conversations has become mono syllabus like what some of the guys mentioned, some even worse don't even know how to begin a proper conversation. Using words like "seek" or "fun"... I wonder what happened to the proper languages which we were taught in our primary or pre-school... maybe already flush down the rubbish chute. gsky, KTeddy, grocksd and 2 others 5 Quote Life is like a river flowing into the sea, Love Life. Love, Joy and Peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 26, 2016 Report Share Posted June 26, 2016 Fully agree with u jdu.great mind think alike.lol i feel the same.when u meet guys on street u can juz choose from the look or chrmistry rather than asking for pic n the party dont send or send someone else pic thru apps. So agree with u. jdu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allbino Posted June 26, 2016 Report Share Posted June 26, 2016 Both apps have involved to this. LOL grocksd and sfr 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post TheVisitors Posted June 27, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 27, 2016 You can't get yourself to be too serious in such kind of apps It is just a game. It is just another show, whereby everyone is putting on their best behaviours, to sell themselves as much as they can, then slowly filter out and target on those they are interested in It s merely a form of online masquerade show, people posing at their best angles,, and post their best photoshopped pictures Sometimes I cannot help but to think, there is not much difference between a normal user and a MB, One sells themselves for sex, the other sell themselves for cold hard cash Both are selling, except one has monetary transaction involved And if you look at another angle, there are the very lonely ones, and those with unresolved issues, and want themselves to be heard. You get much entertainment from such a diversity For me its a form of comic relief I derived from the the amount of stupidity you can laugh at from the not so very smart ones, along with those very desperately seeking ones Rarely will you come across a smart chap with much substance for a decent conversation I even flirt with MBs to understand their mentality and the drive behind that propels them to sell their services, and from there you can dissect who are the more humble nationalities, from the arrogant ones. Expand it a bit more internationally and you will know the general mentality of certain nationalities. Some are just so racist The scary part was once in India, I received on the average, 87 messages from different individuals daily And if you go to Korea, Chinese are quite highly sorted. If you were to ask them why they will tell you, Koreans are not known for been Hung there Grindr etc, on one hand is a hard reality by itself When I first started, I get only 18 msg averagely daily just by a face pic. . Then show your face with a tank top..28. Then go topless, it can be 36 averagely including foreigners The same people who ignore/rejected you there, will stalk you in swimming pools, gym or saunas Its pretty foolishly to think a person's pic holds the ultimate truth on his looks ( and even his personality and mannerisms), and the herd instinct subscribes to such a belief Some merely look photogenic, but not so in real person While those who are not, are quite stunning to look at in real life Its just a game ..don't take it so seriously Hilder, chopafl, jdu and 4 others 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimlo777 Posted June 28, 2016 Report Share Posted June 28, 2016 I deactivated my grindr account after several bad 'misses': Case 1: an Indonesian boy sent me a photo of himself posing in nude but camouflaging his family jewels with a book. He looked gorgeous and I was sold. We arranged to meet at his place up in Marsiling. I travelled all the way there from my apartment and when I reached his flat I was disappointed. It was definitely him in the photo but in person, he looked tired and hagged, and his hair was unkempt. Not that looks matter but the real shock came when he quoted me his prices - $100 for a blowjob, $300 for anal and $800 for overnight company. And all the while I thought we were into some trivial pursuit and not a business transaction. So I said thank you but no thanks and prepared to leave. Then the 3rd shock came when he stopped me from leaving and reduced his price by almost half and pulled down his pants to show me his not so large dick which he claimed to be 7 inches long. It definitely wasn't anything near 7 inches. I stood my ground and headed for the door and he cursed me something in Indonesian that I didn't understand. Case 2: a young Chinese guy told me he was in his late 20s, recently married but had trouble maintaining his erection when trying to have sex with his newly married wife. He confided in me that he never had any problem with an older man and wished to meet me. He said he loves getting blowjobs from men over 50 and I fit the bill. He then sent me a pix of his dick - standing proud like a baseball bat and again, I was sold. So he came to fetch me in his Korean-made car and drove me to a quiet car park not so far from my apartment. He tried kissing and I thought to myself, great kisser. Then my hand went to his crotch and after fondling his dick to full erection, I was wondering to myself - what's happened to the baseball bat??? As it turned out, his erect dick was not more than 4 inches and slim so it really felt small. I am no size queen but somehow I felt cheated. So I gave him a perfunctory handjob and he cummed like speedy gonzalez. Case 3: this guy introduced himself with a Caucasian name and then told me he was a Eurasian with an European sized dick. That day my mouth and man-cunt were a little sore from servicing a group of well-hung Malay chaps the day before so I told him I prefer to have just an average sized dick for the day. His story immediately changed to having a 5-inch cock which I would love sucking on. We met at a coffee shop in Clementi since I was near there. The shock came when I realised he was not Caucasian, not Eurasian but an Indian. I was not in the mood for Indian cuisine that day so we just chit-chatted and then bade our goodbyes. The worst was to come after that. He sent me messages like every hour on the dot and accused me of discriminating his race etc. It was nightmare for me and so .... I terminated my grindr account. Since u r here 1 Quote Suck my tits and I'll lick your balls. Lick my arse and I'll suck your cock. All in sex is fair. The only bad thing about sex is that it doesn't last long enough. Read my blog - www.anasianjourney.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 28, 2016 Report Share Posted June 28, 2016 Y so fast delete the apps?u should have waited for more cases Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 28, 2016 Report Share Posted June 28, 2016 This is the reason i dont like online shopping.haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4evaboring Posted June 28, 2016 Report Share Posted June 28, 2016 1. I was browsing the app one day and saw my pic, i chatted with the person and he said he love to btm and do raw. ( complete opposite of me) 2. I saw very old pic of a str friend of mine where the location is like so far from his place and work place, best part was that i was with him just an hour ago and we went opposite direction. 3. I not being racist but i noticed some malay/indian like to stat that they are mixed, but after a they send their pic and i state that they don't look what they stated. That when they say it is their ancestor being half this and quarter that. 4. Annoying messages from the same person every few week after he deleted his old account n using back the same pic same stat and messaging again you all over again. 5. Annoying people trying to con photos, from face pic to cock pic. 6. Met up with a guy stating his mid 20s and send me a photo that look like him in his early 20s but when he show up omg he look as old as my dad. 7. Receiving message saying he will be willing to pay me for sex and ask me to cab over since he want it at the moment, guess what he is offering $10. I was like am that cheap and only worth $10, plus it completely not logical since he expect me to pay for my cab which surely cost more than $10 and also getting the condoms and lube. Got too much more to add on to the list and lazy to type them out.... Since u r here 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fakes Posted June 28, 2016 Report Share Posted June 28, 2016 46 minutes ago, cutejack said: This is the reason i dont like online shopping.haha Because these online store is mostly selling fakes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 28, 2016 Report Share Posted June 28, 2016 Is tat y u gave yrself a nick as 4evaboring?lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
water Posted June 28, 2016 Report Share Posted June 28, 2016 seeing a rise of profiles using pics of others, and it's kinda obvious actually. even if these fake profiles managed to get a pic of a face and dick from someone else, that satisfaction is definitely short-lived compared to real friendship/sex with that person, which these fake profiles might probably not get. i guess that explains why they do it so repeatedly and with so many fake profiles. that's the only way to gain constant satisfaction. i don't know about you but if anyone hot or good looking on jackd/grinder gets exposed on sites like tumblr, i just think it gets even better for that person because he gets more attention (and more sex, if that's what he wants). but the person who exposes them gets nothing in return. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColdIceTea Posted June 28, 2016 Report Share Posted June 28, 2016 (edited) I'm uncertain if any members encountered this. Few weeks ago on Jackd, I encountered this imposter who misused photos and details of a fitness trainer. I'm fine with that actually, it's very common these days. What blown my mind was that he initiated the chat by asking if I knew him(as the photo clearly shown some renowned FT-fitness trainer), even before I had anytime to reply, there he goes making nasty remarks. Once done, he would just block you in order to prevent you from having any opportunity to reply nor to scold him back. I didn't knew it was an imposter until I went to google and found this FT IG, mentioning about all these fake accounts with an intention to damage this FT's reputation. Anyone else encountered this other than me? Edited June 28, 2016 by ColdIceTea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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