Share Your Grindr / Jack'd Experience

[ahb0yy91]

56 minutes ago, suckmegood said:

 

they are 2 diff thing if i'm not wrong. hemorrhoids are like swelling due to blood vessels inflammation or something... and it can be a recurring issue, even after surgery to remove it. 

 

warts are like sores. no?

i am surprised after knowing he had warts you didn't get turn off immediately.

most people would probably get the shocked of their live and ran far far away 

[Guest Dean]

14 hours ago, Guest Friendly said:

I think a lot of people have this sense of entitlement and they think the world revolves around them. Met this guy through Grindr and clearly wasn't my type. I guess I wasn't his type as well. Since we are already out, we might as well end the night well with a nice chat and meal. To my horror this person turned out to be a diva. We went to a subway kind of shop for dinner and he expected me to pay and serve him like a queen. Conversation was bad as well & I guess he has low or zero eq. Keep telling me how cheapo he was. Worst of all he asked me if I am buying him the meal since I look like a generous guy. I smiled at him and said no and he paid me back. It was a painful experience. I guess a mistake on my part is that he didn't want to share his face pic when I asked before we met and I should have cancelled the meeting .. Lesson learnt, if people are hiding or secretive about stuff don't waste time, simply drop them ..

That's why I dont meet people who have just 1 picture. At least face 1, overall or upper body. And please make sure to ask his weight and height if he doesn't state cause this is the only way you can imagine his size as I saw a lot of people complaining the reality size of him and from the picture is different.

[suckmegood]

57 minutes ago, ahb0yy91 said:

i am surprised after knowing he had warts you didn't get turn off immediately.

most people would probably get the shocked of their live and ran far far away 

 

not me hor. u said it as if it's me who posted it. hahahahahaha. 

[Guest willing]

2 hours ago, suckmegood said:

 

they are 2 diff thing if i'm not wrong. hemorrhoids are like swelling due to blood vessels inflammation or something... and it can be a recurring issue, even after surgery to remove it. 

 

warts are like sores. no?

alot of people have hemorrhoids. Most bottoms also get it due to the pressure being placed at the anus..

[suckmegood]

1 minute ago, Guest willing said:

alot of people have hemorrhoids. Most bottoms also get it due to the pressure being placed at the anus..

 

i would think so too. heard from my colleagues that it's largely due to "pressure" build up in the anus area. so like giving birth... super frequent constipation... diet... etc etc

[ahb0yy91]

2 hours ago, suckmegood said:

 

not me hor. u said it as if it's me who posted it. hahahahahaha. 

woopssyyy sorry

[ahb0yy91]

the thing about hemorrhoids is that either you can choose to cut it or leave it there and let it disappear by itself.

 

[zackywacky]

[Guest Not Rimming That]

On June 20, 2017 at 1:06 AM, Guest willing said:

alot of people have hemorrhoids. Most bottoms also get it due to the pressure being placed at the anus..

 

I met up with a really tall and cute guy from Taiwan. Perfect hairless chest and ass. But he also had hemorrhoids totally surrounding his anus. I asked him when I opened his cheeks and saw this. He said it was because he dated an ang moh for more than a year before, and that guy always topped him very roughly with his huge cock, and often just used saliva rather than lube. I made sure to use a lot of lube and top him gently so he could experience the contrast and made him promise to see a doctors to treat his hemorrhoids when he returned to Taiwan. He had been afraid a doctor would automatically know he is gay and inform his parents and did not realize that hemorrhoids could be caused in other ways.

[Guest 72%dark]

If you're going to use someone else's photos instead of your own (i.e. a "fake pic"), perhaps it's best not to choose someone famous and recently in the news, no matter how hot that person is. Just sayin'!

[yuquidam]

On 20/06/2017 at 10:42 AM, ahb0yy91 said:

anal warts isn't it hemorrhoids??

Pl do note anal warts are highly infectious. Hemorrhoids are not.

[Guest 72%dark]

I happen to fall in the school of thought that says blocking someone is pretty darn rude. But recently for the first time ever, someone upset me enough to make me block him. He happened to combine two obnoxious (but sadly quite common) behaviors: 

(1) Flirting with someone or leading them on without actually having the intention to meet up or move to the next stage.

(2) Chatting someone up with the sole intention of 'fact finding' or 'photo mining'. Such people barrage you with an unending string of personal questions and requests for more pics more pics more pics, and the conversation never leads anywhere except to satisfy the curiosity of the questioner.

[SubChnBtm]

i hate chatting with guys that just leave me hanging.. ask him a question and he would take a long time to reply even if he's online.. with a one word answer.. i always just stop chatting altogether and even block him. So not to waste my time. Haha

[EQUINOXx]

Ugh no luck on grindr.

 

Everyone just wants 'fun'

 

I think I have more luck on tinder 

[joey awesome]

3 hours ago, EQUINOXx said:

Ugh no luck on grindr.

 

Everyone just wants 'fun'

 

I think I have more luck on tinder 

Ya...everyone wanna cum hehe

Friendship are much better

[EQUINOXx]

10 minutes ago, joey awesome said:

Ya...everyone wanna cum hehe

Friendship are much better

I'm personally looking for ltr.. but yeah it's not easy

 

The ones I like don't like me

The ones that like me, I don't like lol

[joey awesome]

Haha...it treu.

Sometime we really in him bcoz he just perfect fr us but....

[top_suck]

On 6/20/2017 at 3:23 PM, ahb0yy91 said:

the thing about hemorrhoids is that either you can choose to cut it or leave it there and let it disappear by itself.

 

I had mine removed coz its a higher grade already.. its painful after operation but the effect is im confidently relieved. No regrets after removal. 

[Guest Guest]

18 hours ago, EQUINOXx said:

I'm personally looking for ltr.. but yeah it's not easy

 

The ones I like don't like me

The ones that like me, I don't like lol

Grindr will never be a dating app. it's designed and invented to be a app for hooking up. You'll probably be much better on Tinder.

[EQUINOXx]

27 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

Grindr will never be a dating app. it's designed and invented to be a app for hooking up. You'll probably be much better on Tinder.

I would have to disagree.. there are guys on grindr who look for ltr too.

 

On top of that, my grindr is waaaaay more active than my tinder is..

 

But yeah tinder guy are more inclined to ltr albeit really hard to find the right match because it only comes by once in a while 

 

So I guess we can't have the best of both worlds haha 

[Guest Guest]

Here are my two Grindr experiences so far.

 

The first was this Australian guy in Singapore for work. We were chatting and he invited me to his hotel room for fun, we tried one night but he said he had bad acne so didn't want to meet (lol). Anyway the next night or a few nights later, we were messaging again, and in the interlude we had been trading a lot of pics and dirty messages, which got me really horny. he gave me his room number and we agreed to meet, we both showered and cleaned up and I headed to his hotel with my bag with condoms, lube, my dildo and vibrator (you never know, and I had no idea what we'd do apart from the description of "kiss, suck, rim, fuck", which I'd told him I was fine with except for the fucking). I got to his hotel room and rang the doorbell, and h opened it. He was tall, reasonably muscly, but not super fit or toned. After quick small talk, he asked me "what do you want to do?", I had no idea and responded accordingly. He smiled and said "how about making out", and I said sure, so he approached and he was a good head taller than me, but we started kissing, and he used a lot of tongue. His scruff was pretty hot. He started feeling me up, spreading his hands over my shoulders and back, my butt, and my cock. I reciprocated, feeling his large shoulders, and we paused to move to the bedroom. Once there, I took off my shorts, revealing my white jockstrap, which he appreciated and then stripped of my shirt and jock, I lay down on his bed, and he began to suck my already hard cock. He alternated between kissing and sucking my dick, and he deep throated it several times. He was stil in his sweatpants, so I could feel his semi/almost hard cock, it was super hot to feel it behind his pants. Then I pulled down his pants and underwear, and there was his cock. According to his Grindr, he was 8" uncut. I believed that! I started to suck his cock, and then I asked if we could 69 and he obliged, so we sucked each other's hard dicks. We were just lying on the bed parallel, but after a while he asked me crawl over his lying body so he could rim me as well. Then followed rimming and more sucking and he licked everywhere! He started to finger me, but it wasn't feeling good in that position, so we moved to me lying down while he fingered me and sucked my dick. It felt amazing. I almost came, but told him, and he paused while I sucked him. I got pretty tired at one point so just lay back as he serviced me. Then I repeated the favor for him. Eventually we returned to him fingering and sucking me, and when I was close to cumming I told him and he smiled and said he was ready, I asked if he wanted me to cum in his mouth and he smiled again and said "where else?". What followed was my climax where I moaned like hell and shot what might have been the biggest load I have shot but I wouldn't know because he swallowed it all up happily. After pausing to regain my breath (yup the orgasm was *that* good), I returned to worshipping his amazing cock, and I could feel his dick starting to pulse after a while, I asked him to cum on my face or ass, and he didn't mind either, I didn't want to have to wash my face after so I told him my ass. Happily I got on all fours and he jerked off, after a few seconds, and came all over my hole and ass. Some of it got onto the bed but he grinned and said that was what housekeeping was for. After, I wiped off with a towel and left, thanking him. He told me "You have a really talented mouth". After an hour of fun, I was exhausted but happy for a good cum.

 

My second experience was about a month later, this time in the toilets at Serene Centre. I got there around 11, just before the toilets' access requires a card. The hookup came and met me in the toilet, and initially walked up to me and felt me up a little, including my dick. We quickly went into one of the stalls, and he stripped off asking me to do the same. I obliged, and he asked me to go back to his place since he was worried one of the uncle's would catch us. I told him not to worry, just be quiet. The toilets were totally empty anyways. So he started to suck me off, we alternated between me standing, him kneeling, and me sitting on the toilet while he serviced me. We jerked off a little bit together, but mainly sucking. I sucked his 7" cock a little too, he had a cock ring on, and seemed to enjoy it, but I was mainly there to cum. After about 20 minutes, he bent me over the toilet and felt my ass up, he used his cock to stroke my hole. I wasn't up for a fuck, so I sat back down and told him to continue sucking me. He was jerking off while he sucked me off, and when I felt the cum starting to come, I asked if I could cum on his face. He said sure, so he got onto his knees, and I stood up and jerked off till I shot onto his face. My first load hit his tongue, and the rest splattered over his face. 

 

sorry if this wasn't too hot! I'm not the best at writing erotica

[SubChnBtm]

7 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Here are my two Grindr experiences so far.

 

The first was this Australian guy in Singapore for work. We were chatting and he invited me to his hotel room for fun, we tried one night but he said he had bad acne so didn't want to meet (lol). Anyway the next night or a few nights later, we were messaging again, and in the interlude we had been trading a lot of pics and dirty messages, which got me really horny. he gave me his room number and we agreed to meet, we both showered and cleaned up and I headed to his hotel with my bag with condoms, lube, my dildo and vibrator (you never know, and I had no idea what we'd do apart from the description of "kiss, suck, rim, fuck", which I'd told him I was fine with except for the fucking). I got to his hotel room and rang the doorbell, and h opened it. He was tall, reasonably muscly, but not super fit or toned. After quick small talk, he asked me "what do you want to do?", I had no idea and responded accordingly. He smiled and said "how about making out", and I said sure, so he approached and he was a good head taller than me, but we started kissing, and he used a lot of tongue. His scruff was pretty hot. He started feeling me up, spreading his hands over my shoulders and back, my butt, and my cock. I reciprocated, feeling his large shoulders, and we paused to move to the bedroom. Once there, I took off my shorts, revealing my white jockstrap, which he appreciated and then stripped of my shirt and jock, I lay down on his bed, and he began to suck my already hard cock. He alternated between kissing and sucking my dick, and he deep throated it several times. He was stil in his sweatpants, so I could feel his semi/almost hard cock, it was super hot to feel it behind his pants. Then I pulled down his pants and underwear, and there was his cock. According to his Grindr, he was 8" uncut. I believed that! I started to suck his cock, and then I asked if we could 69 and he obliged, so we sucked each other's hard dicks. We were just lying on the bed parallel, but after a while he asked me crawl over his lying body so he could rim me as well. Then followed rimming and more sucking and he licked everywhere! He started to finger me, but it wasn't feeling good in that position, so we moved to me lying down while he fingered me and sucked my dick. It felt amazing. I almost came, but told him, and he paused while I sucked him. I got pretty tired at one point so just lay back as he serviced me. Then I repeated the favor for him. Eventually we returned to him fingering and sucking me, and when I was close to cumming I told him and he smiled and said he was ready, I asked if he wanted me to cum in his mouth and he smiled again and said "where else?". What followed was my climax where I moaned like hell and shot what might have been the biggest load I have shot but I wouldn't know because he swallowed it all up happily. After pausing to regain my breath (yup the orgasm was *that* good), I returned to worshipping his amazing cock, and I could feel his dick starting to pulse after a while, I asked him to cum on my face or ass, and he didn't mind either, I didn't want to have to wash my face after so I told him my ass. Happily I got on all fours and he jerked off, after a few seconds, and came all over my hole and ass. Some of it got onto the bed but he grinned and said that was what housekeeping was for. After, I wiped off with a towel and left, thanking him. He told me "You have a really talented mouth". After an hour of fun, I was exhausted but happy for a good cum.

 

My second experience was about a month later, this time in the toilets at Serene Centre. I got there around 11, just before the toilets' access requires a card. The hookup came and met me in the toilet, and initially walked up to me and felt me up a little, including my dick. We quickly went into one of the stalls, and he stripped off asking me to do the same. I obliged, and he asked me to go back to his place since he was worried one of the uncle's would catch us. I told him not to worry, just be quiet. The toilets were totally empty anyways. So he started to suck me off, we alternated between me standing, him kneeling, and me sitting on the toilet while he serviced me. We jerked off a little bit together, but mainly sucking. I sucked his 7" cock a little too, he had a cock ring on, and seemed to enjoy it, but I was mainly there to cum. After about 20 minutes, he bent me over the toilet and felt my ass up, he used his cock to stroke my hole. I wasn't up for a fuck, so I sat back down and told him to continue sucking me. He was jerking off while he sucked me off, and when I felt the cum starting to come, I asked if I could cum on his face. He said sure, so he got onto his knees, and I stood up and jerked off till I shot onto his face. My first load hit his tongue, and the rest splattered over his face. 

 

sorry if this wasn't too hot! I'm not the best at writing erotica

pretty hot!

[sum1outhere_03]

On 6/23/2017 at 8:34 PM, zackywacky said:

 

LOL

[Guest Dn07mufan]

Do you guys keep in touch after hookups

[derryfawne]

30 minutes ago, Guest Dn07mufan said:

Do you guys keep in touch after hookups

 

If both of you are good together in bed, why not.

[Guest newbie]

hi i never use grindr and jack'd before, can share with me are there older uncle users? I'm refering to 55yo type of uncle. i always feel that they don't really use such app. 

[cmlf]

can try using free downloadable dog repellent sound and see how in trial

[Firday]

8 hours ago, Guest newbie said:

hi i never use grindr and jack'd before, can share with me are there older uncle users? I'm refering to 55yo type of uncle. i always feel that they don't really use such app. 

omg....in fact above 80% uncle using grindr and jack'd without display their age but the word "mature" "daddy" ....

 

alway on mode since they have the free time of their life now.

 

never doubt of 55 yr old - u will be shock to know, most 50+ look like 25above...eg Chuando

 

i meet a 60 plus who look like late 30plus...unbelievable.

he wear a white tshirt and jean only, crop hair, clean facial and charming smile.

 

another one 67yr old cycling at west coast from tampines...i curse god is unfair lor.

 

 

 

[Guest Ah Boy]

Met this young boy from AMK 20 yrs old. 1st he asked me to hook up so he can use his voucher to order food but he need someone to share with him so he can afford the price so for me it is like UHHH? like why will i do that, second time he asked me to have fun and go to my place, this time he stole my one of my expensive underwear, i only noticed when he left, and his reason is he said it get stucked in his shorts lol. I messaged him and told him please return it he said yes he will but later on he blocked me. 

[Firday]

On 6/19/2017 at 10:53 PM, Guest Friendly said:

I think a lot of people have this sense of entitlement and they think the world revolves around them. Met this guy through Grindr and clearly wasn't my type. I guess I wasn't his type as well. Since we are already out, we might as well end the night well with a nice chat and meal. To my horror this person turned out to be a diva. We went to a subway kind of shop for dinner and he expected me to pay and serve him like a queen. Conversation was bad as well & I guess he has low or zero eq. Keep telling me how cheapo he was. Worst of all he asked me if I am buying him the meal since I look like a generous guy. I smiled at him and said no and he paid me back. It was a painful experience. I guess a mistake on my part is that he didn't want to share his face pic when I asked before we met and I should have cancelled the meeting .. Lesson learnt, if people are hiding or secretive about stuff don't waste time, simply drop them ..

i have a similar encounter with a diva, photo show slim but meetup show "fat". i m okay about it, he say to have western meal to be on dutch.

He say on diet but order steak and milkshake with turffle fried hor..

After meal, he say lazy to walk but sit and chat.

He not my type at all but i being polite to him - he say he dun mind to have ltr with me if i can support him for study expense ? i dun think he young anymore - late thirty. So i say i m not sugar daddy type but abit cheapkat. Indirectly hint about him, so he say let cut the meeting short, he very tired.

obviously, he make himself so diva and open his wallet and acclaim that not enough cash.

so i foot the bill, but he say will go nearby atm but pretend to surf his phone.

anyway, he block me immediately and bye.

 

well, i heart pain about the steak money. 

 

anyway, just bad luck in grindr lor.

 

the most suay part is he stay nearby my area and keep encounter him at his work place. i rather dun ask back the money and let him got a reminder of his deed to me.

 

A hunting memoirs for him that he own me.

 

[lovehandle]

1 hour ago, Firday said:

i have a similar encounter with a diva, photo show slim but meetup show "fat". i m okay about it, he say to have western meal to be on dutch.

He say on diet but order steak and milkshake with turffle fried hor..

After meal, he say lazy to walk but sit and chat.

He not my type at all but i being polite to him - he say he dun mind to have ltr with me if i can support him for study expense ? i dun think he young anymore - late thirty. So i say i m not sugar daddy type but abit cheapkat. Indirectly hint about him, so he say let cut the meeting short, he very tired.

obviously, he make himself so diva and open his wallet and acclaim that not enough cash.

so i foot the bill, but he say will go nearby atm but pretend to surf his phone.

anyway, he block me immediately and bye.

 

well, i heart pain about the steak money. 

 

anyway, just bad luck in grindr lor.

 

the most suay part is he stay nearby my area and keep encounter him at his work place. i rather dun ask back the money and let him got a reminder of his deed to me.

 

A hunting memoirs for him that he own me.

 

eeeeeeeeeeeeee he is a cheapo diva, Firday and a greed!

encountering at his workpl is fine, so long he doesn't know your workpl! if I really wish to tap on such social platform ie grindr, I will never, I will never bother to meet first for a coffee/tea or meal

if your gut feel tell u, u need to check it out, then forget it

 

and I trust u agree to meet initially was TOTALLY not because LTR....


I went to a sauna lately, I chanced upon one who is 10-13yrs older than me(he told me) , nvm our age difference, he shamelessly ask to have my phone no. so as to just meet up to be my friend (in the very first place, I didn't even approach him)

we are positioned beside one another on the couch

and then he continue to share that previously he has a Chinese btm who served him well but couldn't stand him

(knowing clearly I m a top)as a btm the china guy (married with two kids) couldn't even tolerate him, and wanna a clean breakup

Why would another Singaporean like me would want him???? I find that there are so many thick-skinned avail in sg!
Yes he is fat (I trust fatter than your diva) and I was closing my eyes in that dark sauna (please don't ask me how does he look like but for sure I can sense his fatty body, when he kept fondling me)
 

[abang]

Actually I really rarely chat on grindr and much less, meet some one.

However I've been on gay romeo and other apps and it is not uncommon to find leachers who want a free meal, free this or that.

 

My resolution is regardless of the handsomeness of that hunk, I prefer to dine at food courts.  This way, no one owes another any money cos it is definitely you-pay-what-you eat.

 

For the latest venture with my AMDK, we agreed to meet in Starbucks.  I tactfully swayed him over to the nearby hawker centre and introduced a rather famous Sarawak-noodle stall.  The damage was only $5 per head.  Although the meal with drinks were inexpensive, we had a good time chatting while waiting for the food to arrive.  It showed him my confident personality through cheap and tasty food.    I was not there to impress him with expensive taste but he was floored...the rest is history.

 

 

[Firday]

4 minutes ago, abang said:

Actually I really rarely chat on grindr and much less, meet some one.

However I've been on gay romeo and other apps and it is not uncommon to find leachers who want a free meal, free this or that.

 

My resolution is regardless of the handsomeness of that hunk, I prefer to dine at food courts.  This way, no one owes another any money cos it is definitely you-pay-what-you eat.

 

For the latest venture with my AMDK, we agreed to meet in Starbucks.  I tactfully swayed him over to the nearby hawker centre and introduced a rather famous Sarawak-noodle stall.  The damage was only $5 per head.  Although the meal with drinks were inexpensive, we had a good time chatting while waiting for the food to arrive.  It showed him my confident personality through cheap and tasty food.    I was not there to impress him with expensive taste but he was floored...the rest is history.

 

 

I alway think that first meeting should be on dutch as per my grindr ask me and that why i go ahead to meet up.

Unfortunately he use tactic by pretend to ask for bill as if to pay with open wallet to show me - not enough cash.

Ask me to pay first and will go atm to withdrawal, i bet he done this many time so gave him benefit of doubt liao.

 

 

 

[lovehandle]

On ‎19‎/‎10‎/‎2017 at 8:28 AM, Firday said:

omg....in fact above 80% uncle using grindr and jack'd without display their age but the word "mature" "daddy" ....

 

alway on mode since they have the free time of their life now.

 

never doubt of 55 yr old - u will be shock to know, most 50+ look like 25above...eg Chuando

 

i meet a 60 plus who look like late 30plus...unbelievable.

he wear a white tshirt and jean only, crop hair, clean facial and charming smile.

 

another one 67yr old cycling at west coast from tampines...i curse god is unfair lor

 

mine was the opposite, though I deleted all Line and apps by now, those I met here or whichever platform that I have used before....promised to be close to be my age of 40s

 

yet they turned out to be grandpas of ageing pigmentation and skin where you start to "crust" but since I agreed to meet him I made myself fulfilled what was promised

[solomon]

Ever encountered a profile on Grindr with the person claiming that he is into playing various sports games and yet he turns out to be a fatso?

[Guest Hunk]

2 hours ago, solomon said:

Ever encountered a profile on Grindr with the person claiming that he is into playing various sports games and yet he turns out to be a fatso?

Yup quite common. Met this idiot who took his pic at an angle to make himself look slim, turns out to be a fatty who even claims he is not fat at all. Deluded lazy pigs who don't go to the gym turns me off big time.

[Guest Guest]

Guy: Hi

 

Guy: How’s day?

 

Guy:

 

- no reply -

 

Guy: ?

 

- no reply - 

 

*he blocked me

 

Just as if I’m entitled to reply him and I’m really pissed off when a person sends a “?” to me. In fact we’ve been blocking each others before. I may have replied if he didn’t “?” me.

[Guest Aguest]

5 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Guy: Hi

 

Guy: How’s day?

 

Guy:

 

- no reply -

 

Guy: ?

 

- no reply - 

 

*he blocked me

 

Just as if I’m entitled to reply him and I’m really pissed off when a person sends a “?” to me. In fact we’ve been blocking each others before. I may have replied if he didn’t “?” me.

How do you know he blocked you? All the Apps don't show it.

[Guest Sport-coholic]

A 20 year old messaged me on Grindr last night....

 

Boy: sup

Me: What's that? Old man doesn't understand that.

Boy: What's up?

Me: Nothing. Just had dinner.

Boy: Local?

Me: Yes

Boy: Cool

Me: What's so cool about locals?

 

*He blocked me after that. 

[Guest Ah Boy]

a guy asked me to serviced him and give him a good blow. he sent me a pic which only so so not even handsome at all but im too horny that time so i just get the opportunity. when i reached his place he is bloody handsome! good body, handsome face he is a package, which means he send a different pic which he admit. i dont know why he send different pic he didnt tell me the reason but that is like one of my twisted moments in the apps. lol

[justanotherme]

Met up with a guy for the first time after almost a year of using the app. I volunteered to pick him up since I drive, but....

1. He requested for me to send him home

2. I paid for the meal and there was no offer by him to pay for the food/ pay me back

3. He was touchy. To me, a stranger is a stranger and I don't like being touched repeatedly although it wasn't my private areas.

 

And no surprise, that was my last time meeting him.

[lovehandle]

On ‎24‎/‎10‎/‎2017 at 4:16 PM, justanotherme said:

Met up with a guy for the first time after almost a year of using the app. I volunteered to pick him up since I drive, but....

1. He requested for me to send him home

2. I paid for the meal and there was no offer by him to pay for the food/ pay me back

3. He was touchy. To me, a stranger is a stranger and I don't like being touched repeatedly although it wasn't my private areas.

 

And no surprise, that was my last time meeting him.

prolly you are just too good and attractive?

[justanotherme]

32 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

prolly you are just too good and attractive?

 

hmmm.... I don't think so. I am just average looking. 

 

Maybe my car is attractive? 

[lovehandle]

many women and gays told me if given a choice, they will pick a rich guy w a car at least

 

people like me is the lowest in category, no car, only legs extra 3rd leg ie long doesn't count

[Guest Hello]

1 hour ago, -Ignored- said:

many women and gays told me if given a choice, they will pick a rich guy w a car at least

 

people like me is the lowest in category, no car, only legs extra 3rd leg ie long doesn't count

no wonder my colleague is not good looking but he can get all hot girls. even gays are eyeing him. he just get more attention than the good looking one.

[Guest willing]

1 hour ago, -Ignored- said:

many women and gays told me if given a choice, they will pick a rich guy w a car at least

 

people like me is the lowest in category, no car, only legs extra 3rd leg ie long doesn't count

 maybe long to you..but for some yours may not be that long...fell short in fact..

[Guest HUHhh]

On 26/10/2017 at 3:19 PM, justanotherme said:

 

hmmm.... I don't think so. I am just average looking. 

 

Maybe my car is attractive? 

Why didn’t you continue to meet him?

 

is it because he’s touchy or he’s not your type 

[justanotherme]

2 hours ago, Guest HUHhh said:

Why didn’t you continue to meet him?

 

is it because he’s touchy or he’s not your type 

 

Too princess like, waiting to be served 

[Guest Roll eyes]

15 hours ago, justanotherme said:

 

Too princess like, waiting to be served 

Most of the local guys I met are like that, they will not take initative and want to be served. It is the upbringing (spoilt) and mindset (like a prince) as their parents did not teach them to act like a man.

[Guest Mccc]

4 hours ago, Guest Roll eyes said:

Most of the local guys I met are like that, they will not take initative and want to be served. It is the upbringing (spoilt) and mindset (like a prince) as their parents did not teach them to act like a man.

Only princess roll eyes, that says enough about you LOL.

 

The unwritten rule is that the cmi service the better ones. That's why most people wait for the others to take the initiative. That's why it takes thick skin and courage to take the initiative and face possible rejection. Even viewing someone's profile and not reciprocated is subtle rejection.

 

But the most thick skinned are the super chubs. They keep sending hi and hoping to strike lottery, hoping to catch his target when that target is too horny and chincai be served. As long as I don't block him, he thinks that he still have some hope sending the hi. I leave them alone, let them hope all that they want to. I don't despise them for being desperate yet I don't pity them either. I'm more neutral, let them be.