Share Your Grindr / Jack'd Experience

[Guest Guest]

1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

"Sorry i dont have a credit card and i do not have any money to pay you back for the wine we agreed to split. Can i offer you a blowjob instead to settle off my part"

 

Men that can't pay for his own bill is an instant turn off. You should have put it upfront that you cannot afford luxury meals/drinks if you cannot pay. Why go to a restaurant and make it awkward for both side? What can i do ? Pay only for my part?

 

Have a little pride and dignity. I would have respected you more if you were upfront about it and we plan to meet at somewhere you can afford and not take the risk of getting a stranger to pay for you.

 

 

May I know who suggested to eat at the (atas) restaurant with red wine and fine dining cuisine? 

[Guest how]

When you go out with someone (student) when he asks if you are going to treat him?

 

It's quite obvious he belongs to those who can't afford and want to enjoy good food. 

[doncoin]

I am going to speak from personal experience. I think Grindr is great generally when you are a tourist or new in town. I had quite a number of fun hookups at hotels and airport lounges etc. However on the home base, usually it can be a drag with the same people since who you see usually is based on geo-location and you may have to scroll quite a bit (depending on density) before someone new shows up. 

 

I think Grindr is great for casual sex and it caters to the itch. However, if you are looking for a serious relationship, Grindr can be a start, and where it goes, comes down to you and the other guy. 

 

Personally, I never see the need for long-winded messaging. 

 

 

[FattChoy]

On 5/22/2013 at 10:32 PM, Guest 50+yo Fit Uncle said:

Agreed but there are more.

overall they are just another meat market like the saunas. IT gets boring after awhile.

I attract a big bunch of admirers, you also attract a big bunch of admirers too. Did you notice that THOSE who write about their experiences are always highly sought after?

We all tend to have an inflated view of ourselves. That is why sometimes I would play along for the fun of it.

Real or fake pics? my pics are all real hence many would wonder if they are too good to be real lol. Let them guess and guess and probe.

real or fake friendship? I am genuinely interested to chat even if they would only be interested in sex. size, top, bottom, I lol the questions away. LOL

real or fake meet up? I let them guess and guess but I am real, only difference I will not go out of my way to meet. I'll merely state where and when I am having dinner and if they don't turn up, I'll finish dinner and leave.

Of course I'll state here that most of those who met me were wowed by me lol. But this is the internet so pick what you want to believe lol

50yo uncle blowing own horn

[BudakFit]

Both or some apps still okay yes few catfish or use the same pic all over again in all apps...

 

encounter catfish he say he is fit lean etc but end up he is not but quite cute slim guy so end up coffee and had a quickie just I guess we both are lucky haha coz there is interest n connection I guess both seem sincere even though he lied haha he got his own reason...

 

and few catfish end up just coffee and a good chat talk. They looking on the go fun sex but they I don’t feel turn on by them at all so just chat n end it well. 

 

Till now I must say there is few or some catfish or use the same pic all over again and again till now...both Grindr Jack’d etc...so just be careful and if you really not keen at all the least you can do is end it well or coffee or chat after all they are humans...

 

[Guest Mira138]

Been using Grindr for some years and I would say...

 

1) Quite a few catfishes as mentioned 

(Worse one was a 60s uncle uses a 30s guy photo) 

2) Endless Hi/Tap and no reply afterward

3) Scammer

4) Rudeness to the max person

(Dk they are over despo or what also was once scolded when I didn't reply for an hour cause I was busy 🤣) 

5) The you first and block once you send/refuse 🙄 

6) Block/MIA when arrive at meet up location

(Happen to me at least 7 time but lucky all the locations was nearby) 

7) This is the worse and the reason why I stop using Grindr. Agreed in safe fun but end up removing the condom halfway...

(This caused me to freak out and when to A&E for PrEP. Lucky was tested negative) 

Agreed in just meeting for JO but end up blowing without asking...

(Come on at least ask...) 

 

Lastly a piece of advice, always play safe with a stranger no matter how they clean they claim and don't be a d*** in breaking the agreement at least ASK. The anxiety afterward will be hell for the other party...

 

 

[Expired Btm Uncle]

On 1/9/2021 at 5:17 PM, leantonedboy said:

Well so far as we all know these kind of apps are used to find quickies, hook ups, ons and mostly the experience usually are towards the negative side with people who are rude, weird or those scammers. 

On a lighter note, who else managed to find their other half through these apps? Hehe

Not sure if you’re lucky or your stars aligned.. hahaha but i’m sure there will be the positive ones  

 

I think the best advice is don’t have to high expectation from these apps. It is when you least expect it, that’s when maybe the right one for you could be coming towards you. I know I did. I found mine from Grindr hehe 😜 

I can only say apps brings out the worst of gay behaviour 99% of the time. 

[BudakFit]

Not just about catfishes...it is also about empty profiles and same pics for so many years....

 

it is a 2 way street. Videocall to confirm but if you wanna see dick meet up. So both have fair chances. 

 

Pls say more then just hi. Be direct better for me. I hate those who appear then disappear then appear...what kind of games or drama you playing? Even woman don’t play such thing...if you treasure friendship or brotherhood you should know how to appreciate friendship. Inform the person if you wanna take a break or long hiatus etc...if a person respect you..you should do the same. 

[Foureyes]

Jack'D lots of scammers! Beware! Scammers are mostly PRC. As for Grindr, it is more like a hook up app.

[JemC]

I staved off Grindr and jackd….cos I got scammed (unfortunately it was for a massage service)…luckily I didn’t lose much….

[Guest toxic]

Out of so many toxic behavior, the one I can't stand is skipping my questions and expect me to answer his. He then claims that he got cheated before that's why.... blah blah.

 

Another common kind is you immediately get blocked you when you criticize his self-entitled behavior. These people can't accept the slightest criticism. 

[Septentrion]

On 2/2/2021 at 4:21 AM, Guest said:

I have since deleted grindr but it’s like a box of chocolate, you never know what you are gonna get until you open it.

 

I like Grindr for the mystery that it gives. I like especially those empty profiles. Who is hiding behind?

 

Sometimes I allow myself to meet people without exchanging pics. And they turned out good.

 

In any case not using Grindr anymore as it’s still more like a hookup tool. Not that it’s a bad thing. I am just too old for that.

 

I agree with you! The empty profiles attract me the most. Have gotten so many (nice) surprises just by keeping an open mind.

[Guest Hunk]

On 3/10/2022 at 9:48 AM, Septentrion said:

 

I agree with you! The empty profiles attract me the most. Have gotten so many (nice) surprises just by keeping an open mind.

This is a real experience. I'm quite an average guy here. This blank profile chatted with me and sent his handsome pics, and so we decided to mate. Follow his address and entered his place. Super dark, no lights turned on. Follow his voice into the bedroom, and to my horror, from the silhouette, he was this fat uncle. Still couldn't make out his looks coz super dark, only light was from outside the window. I was like what the hell, since I'm here, might as well. So let him suck and play with my hairy sausage until cum into his mouth. Then got dressed and left.

[jurlean87]

On 3/12/2022 at 12:25 AM, Guest Hunk said:

This is a real experience. I'm quite an average guy here. This blank profile chatted with me and sent his handsome pics, and so we decided to mate. Follow his address and entered his place. Super dark, no lights turned on. Follow his voice into the bedroom, and to my horror, from the silhouette, he was this fat uncle. Still couldn't make out his looks coz super dark, only light was from outside the window. I was like what the hell, since I'm here, might as well. So let him suck and play with my hairy sausage until cum into his mouth. Then got dressed and left.

hot!

[TEY2005]

On 1/8/2021 at 11:40 PM, mLy_dxkie said:

 

Someone with a similar modus operandi actually used this method on me few days ago. Claims he is from London and was in Johor when he started texting me. Thank goodness I started my suspicion when he said he didn't need to serve any quarantine when he arrived in Singapore as he was a medical professional. Also, my intention was more to know him as a friend rather than going to bed with him - so when he cooked up the rubbish on getting detained in Singapore, I just didn't buy his BS.

 

Thank goodness his physique/face pic didn't impress me much. 😅

 

Be very careful though.

Did he tell u his enemies are chasing him and he needs $30k from u? 😂

[Guest Growlr]

I love cubs and chubs… more of a Growlr kinda guy. Seem to be a lot less scammers there but more MB who are fairly open about it. Loads of cute and cuddly guys open for no drama fun so that’s awesome 

[Guest who found his man on Grndr]

On 1/9/2021 at 5:17 PM, leantonedboy said:

Well so far as we all know these kind of apps are used to find quickies, hook ups, ons and mostly the experience usually are towards the negative side with people who are rude, weird or those scammers. 

On a lighter note, who else managed to find their other half through these apps? Hehe

Not sure if you’re lucky or your stars aligned.. hahaha but i’m sure there will be the positive ones  

 

I think the best advice is don’t have to high expectation from these apps. It is when you least expect it, that’s when maybe the right one for you could be coming towards you. I know I did. I found mine from Grindr hehe 😜 

Long story short, I met my man on Grindr... 11 years ago... it was a week before my birthday... thus this always like my birthday present. We got married 3 years ago... 

 

It is possible to find LOVE anywhere.

[Guest Curious cat]

On 3/12/2022 at 11:11 PM, Guest Growlr said:

I love cubs and chubs… more of a Growlr kinda guy. Seem to be a lot less scammers there but more MB who are fairly open about it. Loads of cute and cuddly guys open for no drama fun so that’s awesome 

Hmmm there are still MBs now? Are they local or arrived via VTLs lol.

[fitcubsg]

only good experiences if you are straight to the point, dont fake your profile, say it like it is.

lying honestly gets you that far. You can move out of the apps and meet people in every scenario.

Anyways I have an acute sense of street wiseness, you can't lie scam or cheat me.

Honestly, you can pick me out of the crowd with my pics but be warn my RBF is on 24/7.

Nothing bad happened me, pleasantly surprised in the good way wherever i use the app.

 

[Guest Guest]

Met guys using the app and kena fucked non stop.  I always tell them I am virgin and they believed.  

[96miniboy]

It's interesting that there's been a decline in the use of dating apps since the end of COVID. I do believe that people's social behaviors and preferences can change over time.
It's possible that with the easing of pandemic restrictions, more people are returning to in-person social interactions, which could reduce their reliance on dating apps. Social trends can be quite dynamic.

[DrFhill]

An immediate I installed, and I uninstalled. 🤣

[Guest unfortunate]

So i re-activated app on the phone thinking want to seek LTR but after browsing for quite some time, but i soon realized that  most guys are into hook-ups in there and so i changed my status to "hookups" included  and immediately got a chance to meet this cute looking guy, similar age as i am,  at first he sounded excited to meet me after we exchanged pictures , he said he wants to suck me but i said i am only into Side fun , so just hand job will suffice as we both agreed reluctantly and so i initiated to meet him since he is hosting and his place is free. 

 

I went down to his place and once i exited the car park, i texted him via the app that i was under his blk, his profile wasn't online by then and before i knew it his profile was no where to be seen and chats disappeared. Immediately i knew i got blocked... went back to my car and feeling sad because of a wasted trip.

 

at the same time, i felt like an idiot. immediately got home and deleted the app.  Maybe he wasn't interested after seeing me from somewhere (spy mode) or became not interested after i told him that i dont want a bj 

[Guest Guest]

4 hours ago, Guest unfortunate said:

So i re-activated app on the phone thinking want to seek LTR but after browsing for quite some time, but i soon realized that  most guys are into hook-ups in there and so i changed my status to "hookups" included  and immediately got a chance to meet this cute looking guy, similar age as i am,  at first he sounded excited to meet me after we exchanged pictures , he said he wants to suck me but i said i am only into Side fun , so just hand job will suffice as we both agreed reluctantly and so i initiated to meet him since he is hosting and his place is free. 

 

I went down to his place and once i exited the car park, i texted him via the app that i was under his blk, his profile wasn't online by then and before i knew it his profile was no where to be seen and chats disappeared. Immediately i knew i got blocked... went back to my car and feeling sad because of a wasted trip.

 

at the same time, i felt like an idiot. immediately got home and deleted the app.  Maybe he wasn't interested after seeing me from somewhere (spy mode) or became not interested after i told him that i dont want a bj 

 

Seriously, all only wanted to meet Mr Gorgeous, Mr Handsome, Mr Manhunt, Sex God....but all these people forgotten are they the same as the above category. 

And also, a lot of scammers. Especially on HeeSay.

[benedict5856]

i barely use grindr but i played growlr.

3 years ago, my weirdest experience, i was chatting with a cute guy at midnight, it was like 4am. Then we agreed upon having fun the next morning, and he will come over.

I was sooooooo excited then. His location was 4km away then.

 

when sun rises, I looked at his location, its still 4km away. Is he going to be late?

I message him but he didn't reply.

After 30 mins, he finally replied he is reaching.... but when i looked at his location, its still 4km away. Weird.

So i decide to rush downstair to get some drinks.

 

When i opened the door ready to step out, i saw a chubby guy is standing at my door. But its not him, instead it was another different looking guy. Confirmed gay, my radar sensed it. The guy didn't say much and left. And i walked to the lift, the chubby guy is there.

I told him, "i think we both kena sabo."

 

The guy didn't even wanna replied me. He behaves like he is so cute and that i am desirable of him. 😫

The lift going down is like soooooooooo long.🤐 And we both parted ways.

i really wonder why there are trolls who really nothing better to do, can do such arrangement.

 

But good heart ppl🤮 like me will have rewards one day. 2 years ago, i finally met someone i like. Also from growlr. But he is not local, from Indonesia. We have been happy since.

Edited January 16 by benedict5856

[fresh7up]

3 hours ago, benedict5856 said:

i barely use grindr but i played growlr.

3 years ago, my weirdest experience, i was chatting with a cute guy at midnight, it was like 4am. Then we agreed upon having fun the next morning, and he will come over.

I was sooooooo excited then. His location was 4km away then.

 

when sun rises, I looked at his location, its still 4km away. Is he going to be late?

I message him but he didn't reply.

After 30 mins, he finally replied he is reaching.... but when i looked at his location, its still 4km away. Weird.

So i decide to rush downstair to get some drinks.

 

When i opened the door ready to step out, i saw a chubby guy is standing at my door. But its not him, instead it was another different looking guy. Confirmed gay, my radar sensed it. The guy didn't say much and left. And i walked to the lift, the chubby guy is there.

I told him, "i think we both kena sabo."

 

The guy didn't even wanna replied me. He behaves like he is so cute and that i am desirable of him. 😫

The lift going down is like soooooooooo long.🤐 And we both parted ways.

i really wonder why there are trolls who really nothing better to do, can do such arrangement.

 

But good heart ppl🤮 like me will have rewards one day. 2 years ago, i finally met someone i like. Also from growlr. But he is not local, from Indonesia. We have been happy since.

As much as you want to think that he and you kena sabo by a third person aka the Mastermind, what if it was him that was chatting with you all these while using a fake profile? What makes you think that it wasn't him?

[Nu_Bee_4u]

On 9/18/2021 at 3:55 PM, Guest Mira138 said:

Been using Grindr for some years and I would say...

 

1) Quite a few catfishes as mentioned 

(Worse one was a 60s uncle uses a 30s guy photo) 

2) Endless Hi/Tap and no reply afterward

3) Scammer

4) Rudeness to the max person

(Dk they are over despo or what also was once scolded when I didn't reply for an hour cause I was busy 🤣) 

5) The you first and block once you send/refuse 🙄 

6) Block/MIA when arrive at meet up location

(Happen to me at least 7 time but lucky all the locations was nearby) 

7) This is the worse and the reason why I stop using Grindr. Agreed in safe fun but end up removing the condom halfway...

(This caused me to freak out and when to A&E for PrEP. Lucky was tested negative) 

Agreed in just meeting for JO but end up blowing without asking...

(Come on at least ask...) 

 

Lastly a piece of advice, always play safe with a stranger no matter how they clean they claim and don't be a d*** in breaking the agreement at least ASK. The anxiety afterward will be hell for the other party...

 

 

Now many guys follow this pattern. I might soon stop hooking up at all.

[Nu_Bee_4u]

Not to mention full of catfishes. Come on, dont people say truth anymore?

[singalion]

11 hours ago, fresh7up said:

As much as you want to think that he and you kena sabo by a third person aka the Mastermind, what if it was him that was chatting with you all these while using a fake profile? What makes you think that it wasn't him?

 

What I don't understand is, what you enjoy later with catfishing?

 

Will someone engage, will they have sex?

 

It is similar to those who send you pictures from their 20s but the age says 40y. I find this very silly.

Some guys approach you again and you remember the pic from 10 years back...

 

Same goes for those serious age cheats. (saying 35 but in real 65).

 

What do you win in the end?

Nothing, just anger, disappointment and frustration from the other party.

When nobody will engage with you due to your insincerity, then what is the purpose for such actions???

 

 

Edited January 17 by singalion

[benedict5856]

22 hours ago, fresh7up said:

As much as you want to think that he and you kena sabo by a third person aka the Mastermind, what if it was him that was chatting with you all these while using a fake profile? What makes you think that it wasn't him?

 

Bcas i look like the picture while he is totally different from the picture.

So who will come all the way to another person home and look different?

Also, the mastermind hp location is still 4km away.

 

guess u are not so smart afterall in analysing things

[paddle_up]

Agree whole heartedly with you boys on this.  Did meet a couple of guys whom seriously dont look like their photos, especially, during conversation, my question was "any recent pic of yourself to share?".  

 

Anyway, i did share with one of the boy whom i met.  Just sharing with him that when one is looking for a top, the top needs to be able to be sexually attracted to the btm in order for him to get hard and give a good pounding.  If meet up and there is no chemistry, there is no way the top can perform.  Just my thoughts.

[mate69]

2 hours ago, paddle_up said:

Agree whole heartedly with you boys on this.  Did meet a couple of guys whom seriously dont look like their photos, especially, during conversation, my question was "any recent pic of yourself to share?".  

 

Anyway, i did share with one of the boy whom i met.  Just sharing with him that when one is looking for a top, the top needs to be able to be sexually attracted to the btm in order for him to get hard and give a good pounding.  If meet up and there is no chemistry, there is no way the top can perform.  Just my thoughts.

 

So true...

[Guest guest]

2 hours ago, paddle_up said:

Agree whole heartedly with you boys on this.  Did meet a couple of guys whom seriously dont look like their photos, especially, during conversation, my question was "any recent pic of yourself to share?".  

 

Anyway, i did share with one of the boy whom i met.  Just sharing with him that when one is looking for a top, the top needs to be able to be sexually attracted to the btm in order for him to get hard and give a good pounding.  If meet up and there is no chemistry, there is no way the top can perform.  Just my thoughts.

 

But why still wan pound him if there's no chemistry when meet up?

[Guest guest]

A noob question.  Do u guys do mouth to mouth kissing when hooking up with strangers in these dating apps?

[extod170]

40 minutes ago, Guest guest said:

A noob question.  Do u guys do mouth to mouth kissing when hooking up with strangers in these dating apps?

 

I do kiss if I hook up with guys on apps. If I am hooking up with them, I'll already be putting my mouth all over their body and privates, so what's so different about kissing mouth to mouth? And also, I think sex without kissing is just plain boring. Kissing is the thing that actually gets me more turned on. That said, I do know of guys who does not kiss during hook ups so I'll always make it a point to ask in advance if they kiss. If they don't (no judgement - to each his own) but I'll skip them. 

[Kenjikenji]

13 minutes ago, extod170 said:

 

I do kiss if I hook up with guys on apps. If I am hooking up with them, I'll already be putting my mouth all over their body and privates, so what's so different about kissing mouth to mouth? And also, I think sex without kissing is just plain boring. Kissing is the thing that actually gets me more turned on. That said, I do know of guys who does not kiss during hook ups so I'll always make it a point to ask in advance if they kiss. If they don't (no judgement - to each his own) but I'll skip them. 

Agreed 👍 

[Guest Guest]

1 hour ago, extod170 said:

 

I do kiss if I hook up with guys on apps. If I am hooking up with them, I'll already be putting my mouth all over their body and privates, so what's so different about kissing mouth to mouth? And also, I think sex without kissing is just plain boring. Kissing is the thing that actually gets me more turned on. That said, I do know of guys who does not kiss during hook ups so I'll always make it a point to ask in advance if they kiss. If they don't (no judgement - to each his own) but I'll skip them. 

But if the guy has slight / mild / serious bad breadth, you will not kiss right (turns you off?)? 😬

[Guest Kisser]

7 hours ago, extod170 said:

 

I do kiss if I hook up with guys on apps. If I am hooking up with them, I'll already be putting my mouth all over their body and privates, so what's so different about kissing mouth to mouth? And also, I think sex without kissing is just plain boring. Kissing is the thing that actually gets me more turned on. That said, I do know of guys who does not kiss during hook ups so I'll always make it a point to ask in advance if they kiss. If they don't (no judgement - to each his own) but I'll skip them. 

 

This is so true. The best hookups are with the guys who really know how to kiss sensuously and tenderly - it's the best kind of turn on. Nerve endings and all that. On the other hand, those who lunge straight for your mouth and start eating your mouth like they haven't had any food in 1 week just turn me off, and i'll just say i'm not into kissing. Lol

 

Check your breath, folks

[zackyfreshy]

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Edited January 25 by zackyfreshy

[singalion]

21 minutes ago, zackyfreshy said:

Woohoo!! i got my first ever experience with a dick!! no one asked for this, first time experience getting dick and first time using grindr for dicks but imma say it anyway, it was meh& okok , i hyped it upp to much, i taught dick was everything i taught it was going to be a magnificent new experience and like a new opening for me ...but um.. it felt like nothing, im conflicted cause i taught i would feel brand new but im here continuing on with my life studying for my A-levels but just few hours ago in the morning i made a guy cum within 5 min of me sucking him. Well it all started last night when i was bored studying n i downloaded grindr for fun, i have done this thousand times n deleted it, but for the first i went with the flow n boom!! Today morning i decided to not backout n not be coward n decided to meet up near his office n i was out n about and we went to Nexus Mall the highest floor is super deserted and empty, the guards n cleaners dont even go there, ngl its a good cruising spot, i was kinda proud i made him cum within 5 min, but aso, i was panicking n stif the guy took charge of wat was happening aso that guy is super friendly and super nice n super understanding, aso the toilet was super clean and big n empty so my first time kinda crusing its quite nice but aso not wat i expected i taught he was gonna be rude n mean but no he was nice he even offered to wipe the toilet floor cause i spat out his cum on the floor( so embarrassing i was a totalll newbie😭) i litetally searxhed up "how t to give a good blowjob 5 mins before he showed up"🥲.. aso his cum taste good it taste sweet, but at the same time the dick idk maybe its because it was my first time experiencing dick, its kinda underwhelming, he aso kissed me, omg i didnt knowww wat to do i just went with the flow and omg he definitely made my nippless super senstive, i didnt even know that was possible😮‍💨. So all in all my first time experince is kinda null tbh

 

Maybe you had been advised to experience your first time with a dick on a bed with some romance involved... and privacy around...

 

 

[Balestier]

Just some observations on Grindr

- seeing more south Asians and blacks from SA

- More MB from Viet, PRC, india

- indicating in 20s when the pics show 30s40s

- doctored pictures

- suddenly all the 40s 50 disappeared online.

(See point 2)

[Balestier]

2 hours ago, zackyfreshy said:

Woohoo!! i got my first ever experience with a dick!! no one asked for this, first time experience getting dick and first time using grindr for dicks but imma say it anyway, it was meh& okok , i hyped it upp to much, i taught dick was everything i taught it was going to be a magnificent new experience and like a new opening for me ...but um.. it felt like nothing, im conflicted cause i taught i would feel brand new but im here continuing on with my life studying for my A-levels but just few hours ago in the morning i made a guy cum within 5 min of me sucking him. Well it all started last night when i was bored studying n i downloaded grindr for fun, i have done this thousand times n deleted it, but for the first i went with the flow n boom!! Today morning i decided to not backout n not be coward n decided to meet up near his office n i was out n about and we went to Nexus Mall the highest floor is super deserted and empty, the guards n cleaners dont even go there, ngl its a good cruising spot, i was kinda proud i made him cum within 5 min, but aso, i was panicking n stif the guy took charge of wat was happening aso that guy is super friendly and super nice n super understanding, aso the toilet was super clean and big n empty so my first time kinda crusing its quite nice but aso not wat i expected i taught he was gonna be rude n mean but no he was nice he even offered to wipe the toilet floor cause i spat out his cum on the floor( so embarrassing i was a totalll newbie😭) i litetally searxhed up "how t to give a good blowjob 5 mins before he showed up"🥲.. aso his cum taste good it taste sweet, but at the same time the dick idk maybe its because it was my first time experiencing dick, its kinda underwhelming, he aso kissed me, omg i didnt knowww wat to do i just went with the flow and omg he definitely made my nippless super senstive, i didnt even know that was possible😮‍💨. So all in all my first time experince is kinda null tbh

Welcome to BW !! 2 hours old baby. Welcum to family.

[Balestier]

On 1/19/2024 at 4:18 PM, extod170 said:

 

I do kiss if I hook up with guys on apps. If I am hooking up with them, I'll already be putting my mouth all over their body and privates, so what's so different about kissing mouth to mouth? And also, I think sex without kissing is just plain boring. Kissing is the thing that actually gets me more turned on. That said, I do know of guys who does not kiss during hook ups so I'll always make it a point to ask in advance if they kiss. If they don't (no judgement - to each his own) but I'll skip them. 

I can't kiss without emotions. So it's kinda dangerous if U get too involved with someone online. So I usually avoid kissing. To make things Worse .. I am a side. Lol

[singalion]

1 hour ago, Balestier said:

I can't kiss without emotions. So it's kinda dangerous if U get too involved with someone online. So I usually avoid kissing. To make things Worse .. I am a side. Lol

 

In that case you must master in giving blow jobs to make the rest up that you can't deliver. 🤣

[singalion]

1 hour ago, Balestier said:

Just some observations on Grindr

- seeing more south Asians and blacks from SA

- More MB from Viet, PRC, india

- indicating in 20s when the pics show 30s40s

- doctored pictures

- suddenly all the 40s 50 disappeared online.

(See point 2)

 

The biggest group of MB should be still from Indonesia.

But nowadays as before Covid , you can get MBs from everywhere, also Latino, South Americans etc.

 

Luckily my area has only a few but if you stay Paya Lebar and around, the chance is big that 50 % of profiles are MBs.

 

Lately, there are also some better looking Indian workers who try their luck in selling their dick as MB.

 

I don't think the 40s to 50 age group requires the MBs. When you talk to them, they will tell you their customers are in the 60 and above age group in majority. While I was at a hotel at Orchard I was curious who actually books these MBs and chatted with some and they told me that.

 

The 40s to 50s should all be in KB, TMC, Shogun... haha

 

 

[anxiousfriedtofu]

So far I've had no issues using the app, haven't met any of those with weird motives. Normally, I can predict how a person would be in real life after chatting with them consistently for 24 hours. Also, you'll feel it if the other person wishes to connect with you more (shows more interest than you do them).

 

The guy who chats aggressively is more likely to just want to have a hook up. Those with more delicate chat styles will let the conversation flow naturally - it doesn't feel forced. Call me weird, but guys with good punctuation usage on the app turns out to be legit people in real life. They're genuine and wants to build better connections.

 

Only complain is people still ask for intro, when I've reasonably filled my profile. Interestingly, using a headless body as profile pic will attract users with similar choice of profile photo. I really can't comprehend completely empty profiles and then them messaging me 'Hi'.

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[singalion]

Recently I noted that there are certain guys who approach you within a week with different accounts that send you more or less exactly the same face pictures (eventually also nudes) but they approach you with different names. I mean they tell you their name is Mike the next time it is Marcus.

 

So far they did not ask for any whatsapp, telegram, wechat, but I m not sure to what it will lead.

(The Mainland Chinese scammers always try to get you hooked onto a different communication mode outside the app (probably to avoid being their account closed by the app).

 

Does anyone have similar experience?

[doncoin]

3 hours ago, singalion said:

Recently I noted that there are certain guys who approach you within a week with different accounts that send you more or less exactly the same face pictures (eventually also nudes) but they approach you with different names. I mean they tell you their name is Mike the next time it is Marcus.

 

So far they did not ask for any whatsapp, telegram, wechat, but I m not sure to what it will lead.

(The Mainland Chinese scammers always try to get you hooked onto a different communication mode outside the app (probably to avoid being their account closed by the app).

 

Does anyone have similar experience?

 

I used Blue a couple of years ago and I gave up after 3 days. It was nothing but scammers which was unfortunate. I was traveling for work in China then and thought it would be a great way to meet local guys. It just became a complete waste of time. Almost all the photos on the profile are doctored, and overly Photoshopped. They all have this pretty boy look that is a cross between a K-pop idol and a manga/yaoi character. Yes, many will try to redirect the conversation offline to WeChat and it was just an overall frustrating experience.

 

 

[samdiggin]

[Leanmeat]

1 minute ago, samdiggin said:

Haa...I had a similar one before. Typical Time waster.