Qal Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 😉😎 notd and cycle25 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 On 2/16/2024 at 6:27 PM, samdiggin said: Was it me? LOL I do the same nowadays. There are plenty of people who always approach you with a "Hi" but never post anything else. Then they are silent for 2 days and contact you again with a "hi". Mostly I will reply with a "Looking for?" reply, but in some cases this Hi Hi thing will just go on. I fail to understand the approach (by the other party). Worse, if the profile is empty, no picture and nothing else to take some clues. So, when I encounter this, I will just reply with a "hi" also. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Same same Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 On 2/16/2024 at 6:27 PM, samdiggin said: looks like you deserve each other Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 (edited) On 2/16/2024 at 6:27 PM, samdiggin said: I enjoy giving people what they give too. Similarly if they keep asking things and not answering then I stop answering too. Until they start replying what I ask. Edited February 20 by Leanmeat yhtang and youdoyou 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 11 hours ago, Leanmeat said: I enjoy giving people what they give too. Similarly if they keep asking things and not answering then I stop answering too. Until they start replying what I ask. But some questions are a bit out of reach if they are not connected to any dating. People asked me the weirdest questions for ONS. This only happens here in Singapore. Whether I am an employee or the boss at my work. What my salary is. How many rooms my flat has What the ceiling height of my bedroom is (not sure if he wanted to bring a sling)... Whether I cook myself or eat outside etc etc But I know it can be annoying. Most interesting is how much some guys can ship around to tell the age. There are also plenty of answers I would not give, because it is irrelevant, but I will reply with something like: "Why is this relevant?" Such questions are: When was the last time you had sex. How long can you f... How long didn't you cum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 2 hours ago, singalion said: But some questions are a bit out of reach if they are not connected to any dating. People asked me the weirdest questions for ONS. This only happens here in Singapore. Whether I am an employee or the boss at my work. What my salary is. How many rooms my flat has What the ceiling height of my bedroom is (not sure if he wanted to bring a sling)... Whether I cook myself or eat outside etc etc But I know it can be annoying. Most interesting is how much some guys can ship around to tell the age. There are also plenty of answers I would not give, because it is irrelevant, but I will reply with something like: "Why is this relevant?" Such questions are: When was the last time you had sex. How long can you f... How long didn't you cum Those ques u mention are too out of the blue. I am referring to the standard ques like role, stats, where they stay .. etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 (edited) 2 hours ago, Leanmeat said: Those ques u mention are too out of the blue. I am referring to the standard ques like role, stats, where they stay .. etc Ok. But why wouldn't they answer these basics. In my opinion they should have most of this info already in their profile. Makes any chat faster instead of requiring to ask every detail. For location I would understand but the rest can be already mentioned in the profile bio. But I noted more recently many guys on the app leave their profile bio empty. For what reason? Edited February 20 by singalion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 (edited) 7 hours ago, singalion said: Ok. But why wouldn't they answer these basics. In my opinion they should have most of this info already in their profile. Makes any chat faster instead of requiring to ask every detail. For location I would understand but the rest can be already mentioned in the profile bio. But I noted more recently many guys on the app leave their profile bio empty. For what reason? Exactly. Some people likes to ask and ask but pretend not seeing your ques untill you repeat again. Some things like where they stay also I don't know what they are worrying about. As if just by saying an estate name I can find their block. Then there are too many with no picture but ask for your picture when they are the one initiating the chat. Trying their luck. Not forgetting those who can ask what they want before exchanging tele to chat but didnt. Exchange only to realise not looking for similar things. Time waster. Now I make a point to ask what I think is a deal breaker to me before exchanging. Save the trouble. Some ppl cannot think logically. First thing only ask where you stay can I come? Wonder what makes them think everything will work out when i don't even know what kinda fun he is looking for. Edited February 21 by Leanmeat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 4 hours ago, Leanmeat said: Some things like where they stay also I don't know what they are worrying about. As if just by saying an estate name I can find their block. They are scared that you will wait at any HDB block to look out for them at 3am at night, while the HDB block has 15 floors, 300 units and 3 different lift lobbies. However, I can understand if you mention a different block just nearby. As long as you didn't confirm where to meet it might be just a hint or helpful to show what area you are staying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 4 hours ago, Leanmeat said: Not forgetting those who can ask what they want before exchanging tele to chat but didnt. Exchange only to realise not looking for similar things. Time waster. Now I make a point to ask what I think is a deal breaker to me before exchanging. Save the trouble. But I do that on times also, to ask for the number after some amount of chat. It happens that meeting would be just inconvient, maybe parents visiting the flat or going on a travel in 2 days, out of mood ... just to stay in touch and reconnect again when it is convenient. I don't use telegram but it seems quite confidential, so shouldn't be an issue to give the number. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 (edited) 7 hours ago, singalion said: They are scared that you will wait at any HDB block to look out for them at 3am at night, while the HDB block has 15 floors, 300 units and 3 different lift lobbies. However, I can understand if you mention a different block just nearby. As long as you didn't confirm where to meet it might be just a hint or helpful to show what area you are staying. That is provided I know the block. Obviously when I ask where they stay I meant like Amk, bedok, Clementi. They are likely a moron to think that I am asking for full address or exact block. Edited February 21 by Leanmeat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 49 minutes ago, Leanmeat said: That is provided I know the block. Obviously when I ask where they stay I meant like Amk, bedok, Clementi. They are likely a moron to think that I am asking for full address or exact block. Ok to the clarification. But in my experience it is rare if guys don't even tell the rough location like above... I already had certain admirers, it happened to me that they waited in front of the entrance of my place, when I gave the address. This can be very annoying. As you already realised not all looks match with the profile pics or profile image. I once even had a guy who followed me nearly every evening at the MRT I took after my work up to my own MRT and walked the last part behind me also. That went on for more than a year until I confronted him. I got more careful nowadays also to give the full details early. There just guys who get totally nuts and lack self control. It is even worse when you stay in an HDB because anyone can just access it, walk up to the unit etc etc... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 (edited) 31 minutes ago, singalion said: Ok to the clarification. But in my experience it is rare if guys don't even tell the rough location like above... I already had certain admirers, it happened to me that they waited in front of the entrance of my place, when I gave the address. This can be very annoying. As you already realised not all looks match with the profile pics or profile image. I once even had a guy who followed me nearly every evening at the MRT I took after my work up to my own MRT and walked the last part behind me also. That went on for more than a year until I confronted him. I got more careful nowadays also to give the full details early. There just guys who get totally nuts and lack self control. It is even worse when you stay in an HDB because anyone can just access it, walk up to the unit etc etc... I encounter a couple of times where they say they stay north, northeast. Like as if telling the estate name will give their address away. Such lack of security. Maybe even lack some common sense Edited February 21 by Leanmeat mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 29 Report Share Posted February 29 Why i no longer find the chats in grindr with some money boy in bkk after their service? All their chats disappeared suddenly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Why Posted March 1 Report Share Posted March 1 Why so many people in Grindr are using drugs ? Chat and invited a btm nsf guy to my place . Went to bath and came back to the room and saw him injecting drug . He became so high that he stripped naked and spread his leg . At first was shy shy one . Suddenly turn horny . Did not want to continue , but eventually give in . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted March 2 Report Share Posted March 2 Grindr: no time waster. All is about fun sex or meet up or ONS. Jackd: able to make friendship. Fun sex. Prefer to chat first before meet up. Still both prefer same race or physical wise n cock wise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Do you think younger guys nowadays are more often if not always "demanding" for a cock pic compared to the 30s generation? Do you find these cock pic requests annoying on the apps? What is your point of view on this? How do you react? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GrindrNeedHelp Posted May 18 Report Share Posted May 18 Hi. Wanna ask if anyone encountered Grindr account suddenly got banned before? *First, suddenly it showed error "Age restriction error" then become "account banned" *Login using Apple ID *Tried to email Grindr help, provided them all the information they asked but they replied they cannot do anything about it because IOS Apple ID donot share email address with them so they not able to do anything about it. *Tried to create a new account on 2nd phone using a new email address and can login. But when login with this new email address account on my 1st phone, directly appear "account banned" error. *Tried to login with VPN, still same error. Anyone encountered this before? Any solution? Thankss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted May 19 Report Share Posted May 19 13 hours ago, Guest GrindrNeedHelp said: Hi. Wanna ask if anyone encountered Grindr account suddenly got banned before? *First, suddenly it showed error "Age restriction error" then become "account banned" *Login using Apple ID *Tried to email Grindr help, provided them all the information they asked but they replied they cannot do anything about it because IOS Apple ID donot share email address with them so they not able to do anything about it. *Tried to create a new account on 2nd phone using a new email address and can login. But when login with this new email address account on my 1st phone, directly appear "account banned" error. *Tried to login with VPN, still same error. Anyone encountered this before? Any solution? Thankss Obvious someone reported you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Guest Posted May 22 Report Share Posted May 22 On 3/5/2024 at 1:54 PM, singalion said: Do you think younger guys nowadays are more often if not always "demanding" for a cock pic compared to the 30s generation? Do you find these cock pic requests annoying on the apps? What is your point of view on this? How do you react? i will send this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastSgDad Posted May 23 Report Share Posted May 23 (edited) . Edited May 23 by EastSgDad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 Getting more games ad in Grindr. So irritating Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 On 3/1/2024 at 12:58 PM, Guest Why said: Why so many people in Grindr are using drugs ? Chat and invited a btm nsf guy to my place . Went to bath and came back to the room and saw him injecting drug . He became so high that he stripped naked and spread his leg . At first was shy shy one . Suddenly turn horny . Did not want to continue , but eventually give in . U will be dead if he died on Ur bed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastSgDad Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 Besides Grindr and Jack'd apps, any other "good" app recommendations? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sensnip Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 On 6/23/2024 at 8:26 PM, Balestier said: Getting more games ad in Grindr. So irritating You are right. I find it very irritating too and I’m just waiting to see when I get irritated enough to delete my account totally and exit the app Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 A lot of scammers in these dating apps. Don't these scammers know their photo can already tell they are scammer? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 23 minutes ago, Guest guest said: A lot of scammers in these dating apps. Don't these scammers know their photo can already tell they are scammer? What are the tell tale signs? Starting from photos ... or till they start to talk about investment subjects? 😬 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted July 8 Report Share Posted July 8 On 7/1/2024 at 10:56 AM, Guest guest said: A lot of scammers in these dating apps. Don't these scammers know their photo can already tell they are scammer? On 7/1/2024 at 11:20 AM, Guest Guest said: What are the tell tale signs? Starting from photos ... or till they start to talk about investment subjects? 😬 While fearing that some of those guys are jailed in one of those Myanmar/ Laos crime dens after being lured to some job overseas... On Pictures, the persons are always placed in spectacular environments and look sparkling on the pictures. Fancy Restaurants, beaches, roof top bars... They don't wear normal stuff... Actually, I don't think these scammers directly switch to any investment subjects, but it seems for Grindr they work on these relationship scams. The buzz word for me is if after asking what they search for reply with friendship or relationship. If they briefly in a chat ask for Whatsapp, that is another warning sign. The next step is asking on their location. then they give some general reply like Marina Bay. You continue to ask, they won't answer. Another sign to me is, that often - because probably they start chats with plenty of people - won't respond within minutes but seem gone for a certain time until they respond. Unfortunately, there are more and more conversing in English. Previously, it was very easy to identify them when their English was a clear google translate or they switched to Mandarin. But once, the word "friendship" occurs in the chat, my warning lights are blinking frantically... A good reply is to point out to scammers or fake profiles... When they don't reply any longer, for sure they knew that you suspected them to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cycle25 Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 Does anyone have experiences with guys on there chatting and then asking to share with you their ETH or USDT accounts? Are these likely to be scams? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest can host? Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 During chat he says he can host. When we meet up, he leads me up a stairway, one of those with fireproof doors. The stairway was what he meant by 'can host'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrew240577 Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 (edited) 3 hours ago, Guest can host? said: During chat he says he can host. When we meet up, he leads me up a stairway, one of those with fireproof doors. The stairway was what he meant by 'can host'. Me too. I find a india guy. Look hot when he send a photo to me. But when we meet. He look difference. He ask for a bj at the stairway like what you highlight. I refuse because i worried members of public see us. I requested we do it at bedok reservoir toilet. He refused. So our deal off. Luckily he refuse or else i a man of my own word. He kind of not the type i like to blow and cum swallow. Edited July 20 by Andrew240577 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 Some stated NPNC and they themselves have no pic on profile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Curious Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 Anyone given charity sex to someone using fake or older photo of themself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Hate jack'd. Suspended my account without telling me what's the problem. I didn't even do anything wrong and suddenly kena suspended. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted July 30 Report Share Posted July 30 On 7/24/2024 at 9:30 PM, Guest guest said: Hate jack'd. Suspended my account without telling me what's the problem. I didn't even do anything wrong and suddenly kena suspended. Write to them... Mostly, if you are too rude on the chat, spamming others endlessly who rejected, selling things, proposing drgs fun or offering massage services or impersonation... (also using the pic of a celebrity)... There are thousands of reasons. From Jackd: We encourage all members of our community to flag a profile that is perceived to be in violation of our profile guidelines or terms of service. A support ticket should only be submitted to report serious violations (e.g. underage members, threats or other incidents of abusive/harassing behavior, impersonation). In-app warning alerts are sent for the first offenses, whether they are reported by Jack'd community members or confirmed directly by Jack'd admins. When a profile has accumulated multiple flags, it will be temporarily suspended for a certain period of time indicated in the alert. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ken_VB Posted November 4 Report Share Posted November 4 Grindr is almost un-usable now because of the ads, every other click and you get some ad that lasts 30 sec or more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted November 4 Report Share Posted November 4 2 hours ago, Ken_VB said: Grindr is almost un-usable now because of the ads, every other click and you get some ad that lasts 30 sec or more. Worst is if these ads are hanging and you can't get out of them (need to restart the phone). The strategy is to annoy you until you subscribe to the app and can switch off the ads as s paying user. https://www.platformer.news/grindr-ai-boyfriend-wingman-monetization-paid-taps/ The investors want more revenue! TD Cowen has reaffirmed its Buy rating for Grindr, expressing confidence in the company's potential for further monetization and its ability to convert more users to its paid services. TIP: on the Iphone you can often swipe away the ad by scrolling down (after some seconds). On Android, watch out for the small arrows on top right corner, if you click them, the ad will be directed to the next page and then you can x it away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strategicthrust Posted November 4 Report Share Posted November 4 Grindr is logging in after getting home from a day out to see this lovely greeting youdoyou and blurrfish 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youdoyou Posted November 4 Report Share Posted November 4 On 7/23/2024 at 10:08 PM, Guest Curious said: Anyone given charity sex to someone using fake or older photo of themself? I met someone who sent his straight flat mate’s photos. But he was already at my door and I was very horny, so we went ahead. The sex was great, but I told him to never contact me again cos he lied about his photos. iKneadyou and passinthenight 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ressac Posted November 4 Report Share Posted November 4 On 7/20/2024 at 5:41 PM, cycle25 said: Does anyone have experiences with guys on there chatting and then asking to share with you their ETH or USDT accounts? Are these likely to be scams? yeah, and trying to get you to set up an account on the platform to do crypto trading etc. if you search the authenticity of the website, its freshly set up. So of course, SCAM alert. Just move on with life and block the person~ cycle25 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cycle25 Posted November 4 Report Share Posted November 4 2 hours ago, ressac said: yeah, and trying to get you to set up an account on the platform to do crypto trading etc. if you search the authenticity of the website, its freshly set up. So of course, SCAM alert. Just move on with life and block the person~ Thanks! I flat out told them not interested and then they stopped chatting altogether. 🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naveyafluz Posted November 4 Report Share Posted November 4 These apps nowadays are all paid and you can get their services, plus lots of scammers. But, never use these apps also don't know where to know people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iKneadyou Posted November 5 Report Share Posted November 5 Worst platforms in Singapore to have communications. Many fake profiles. Real profiles are just giving 1 word replies (if they even wanna reply) youdoyou and Thatwasawes 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted November 5 Report Share Posted November 5 1. Many scammers looking for opportunities. 2. Catfishes 3. Ads that make apps unusable 4. Ppl with no communications skills Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youdoyou Posted November 5 Report Share Posted November 5 (edited) 12 minutes ago, Balestier said: 1. Many scammers looking for opportunities. 2. Catfishes 3. Ads that make apps unusable 4. Ppl with no communications skills Tinder is the same. I love the guys who say “I’m not good at making conversation”. Learn, maybe? Then there’s the “please chat if we match”, who give one word replies, if at all. I get that you want an ego boost by collecting matches but please don’t lament your single status if you’re not making an effort. Edited November 5 by youdoyou Thatwasawes and Jace27 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k13v Posted November 5 Report Share Posted November 5 On 2/19/2024 at 1:41 PM, singalion said: Was it me? LOL I do the same nowadays. There are plenty of people who always approach you with a "Hi" but never post anything else. Then they are silent for 2 days and contact you again with a "hi". Mostly I will reply with a "Looking for?" reply, but in some cases this Hi Hi thing will just go on. I fail to understand the approach (by the other party). Worse, if the profile is empty, no picture and nothing else to take some clues. So, when I encounter this, I will just reply with a "hi" also. It common. I just move on Quote Thanks... 167 69 chn 51 LINE: songatsg0 Telegram: songatsg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted November 5 Report Share Posted November 5 1 hour ago, youdoyou said: Tinder is the same. I love the guys who say “I’m not good at making conversation”. Learn, maybe? Then there’s the “please chat if we match”, who give one word replies, if at all. I get that you want an ego boost by collecting matches but please don’t lament your single status if you’re not making an effort. And they disappeared after a HI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted November 5 Report Share Posted November 5 This is a recent personal observation: Grindr is like online shopping. Everyone just browses, adds a few to their cart, and leaves before they even check out. strategicthrust and Coolbriz 2 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coolbriz Posted November 5 Report Share Posted November 5 But Grindr seems a bit glitchy. It seemed like whenever I received a “tap” or chat notification, it didn’t appear and somehow it got delayed until a few days later. Quote Be cool, like a breeze... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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