Dorkable Posted January 2, 2014 Report Share Posted January 2, 2014 I've been having trouble uploading on pics on Jackd too (Android) for quite some time. No idea what the developers are doing. Sleeping? There is a size limitation to the pics you can upload on Jack'd though....could that be the issue? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PerplexedOne Posted January 7, 2014 Report Share Posted January 7, 2014 Some stuff that I encountered on Grindr. The good: Once, this straight guy made contact, and asked if I liked looking at naked men. I said yes, and he offered to give me a striptease. I was doubtful, thinking that he was just kiddng, but to my surprise, he sent me his address, and told me to message him when I reached his house. I was hesitant, not knowing if he was going to play me out, or if he was just using a fake pic. In the end, I did go, as it was my off day, and I didn't have anything planned. Initially, he kept telling me that he was straight and had a girlfriend, and I was only invited over to look, and no touching was allowed. I acknowledged. However, after he had sufficiently warmed up, he took my hand and slowly ran it over his smooth, tanned body. I then started to jerk him off, and ended up giving him a blowjob. To my surprise, he reciprocated and gave me a blowjob as well. "Just returning the favour", I remember him saying... Obviously, I was very shocked, but nonetheless, happy. We ended up cumming in his bathroom, and he asked me 2 very weird questions. The questions were: 1. Would you give me and my other straight friend blowjobs at the same time?2. Can I fuck you next time? Wow~ Surreal. The bad: i) Above-mentioned guy did not make contact after that session. :yuk: ii) People on Grindr are very difficult to have a proper conversation with - they either ignore, or they politely answer questions without asking any in return... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
namiko_aiko Posted January 8, 2014 Report Share Posted January 8, 2014 Good:Had alot of sex with different bunch of guys. Some just one a quickie but most wanted a second a few weeks later or even that night itself. Self-esteem boost and more experienced in taking care of ones sexual needs. Bad:Too bad they don't do casual meetups for coffee or so... Even if they did, it's just a trick to get you underneath those sheets and make love. Some of them will trick you in doing certain conditions before meetups/sex. Most of them had to lie about something - either their age, picture and name. No strings attached - type of dudes are always there. Sometimes, you guys have to be aware if we're not your type, don't reply... your feelings are gonna get played with. So yeah, moving on with life... Quote Est-ce que tu aimes le sexe? Le sexe. Je veux dire, l’activité physique. Le coït. Tu aimes ça? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hub Posted January 8, 2014 Report Share Posted January 8, 2014 New user for one week, only one good conversation kept alive so far. The rest either slow response or no response. Maybe too polite to say I am ugly, old or not interested at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Android Posted January 8, 2014 Report Share Posted January 8, 2014 side track beside the weird encounter, can i ask if there is any 'go offline' for grindr on android like iphone ome? As i am unable to find this when using with android Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Leotard Posted January 8, 2014 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 8, 2014 Sometimes ppl didn't reply or stopped replying half way, I will get the feeling that I'm too ugly for them. demonkey, RealityCheck, curiosity and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
namiko_aiko Posted January 8, 2014 Report Share Posted January 8, 2014 omg same feeling. Quote Est-ce que tu aimes le sexe? Le sexe. Je veux dire, l’activité physique. Le coït. Tu aimes ça? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mohd_Ben Posted January 11, 2014 Report Share Posted January 11, 2014 Almost some is choosy too I believe. Lol! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bondxXx Posted January 11, 2014 Report Share Posted January 11, 2014 i do agree sometimes it's hard to really make friends through grindr/jack'd or even online during irc days. there were some exceptional cases though where we managed to maintain a friendship. i find it easier to make friends through fb as you might be able to communicate through their posts or certain topics. and one thing about hookups is that sometimes, i dun really mind if it grows into just acquaintances or such. but most people usually just lose contact after that. but seeing one of my hookups lasts into a existing 4-year friendship, there's still hope. lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orange.bottle Posted January 11, 2014 Report Share Posted January 11, 2014 Its just for guys getting under your pants. Don't expect too much! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mohd_Ben Posted January 12, 2014 Report Share Posted January 12, 2014 Its just for guys getting under your pants. Don't expect too much!Some go for bods like yours Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orange.bottle Posted January 12, 2014 Report Share Posted January 12, 2014 Some go for bods like yoursHaha! There are even better ones inside the app. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted January 12, 2014 Report Share Posted January 12, 2014 Agreed. Generally speaking, the more long term friends are made outside the virtual world of Jackd and Grindr. Time to get out there and socialize people! :-) samdiggin 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MenBtySpa Posted January 12, 2014 Report Share Posted January 12, 2014 Not sure if any of you had this experience like mine... way before Grindr or Jack'd apps.. there was gay.com or mIRC... Once I was chatting with this guy and we exchanged pic.. to my surprise , he send me a pic of me topless and in cutoff shorts taken in my NYC apartment years ago... I asked him is that he in that pic, and he claimed that its was him... I told him that he is lairing and told him if he keep using that pic to cheat, I will report him to the police cos I had his ip address.. hahaha... Just imagine that someone who was using you pic and chat with someone else... Another time, I was chatting with someone in mIRC and someone invited me to his home for a orgy.. to my surprised it was my own flat.. hahaha ( at that time I rented out my flat) angel_dust 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest zAcOn Posted January 12, 2014 Report Share Posted January 12, 2014 I've been having trouble uploading on pics on Jackd too (Android) for quite some time. No idea what the developers are doing. Sleeping? Saw lot of complaints in Play Store (including mine), but no one of the developers response on the issues, seems like they are not longer to moderate this app There is a size limitation to the pics you can upload on Jack'd though....could that be the issue? In Jackd FAQ said the pics must larger than 300x300, i tried the larger and smaller still can't Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post angel_dust Posted January 15, 2014 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 15, 2014 A guy wrote this on his profile : People call me a sex object because if you ask for sex, i object. I had no choice but to add him as a favourite shyc, samdiggin, jsingclt and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PerplexedOne Posted January 24, 2014 Report Share Posted January 24, 2014 "It is better to knock and get a no, than to knock and get no answer" - Mitch Albom, Have a Little Faith Pretty much sums up 99% of my experiences on Grindr... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Moxx Posted January 27, 2014 Report Share Posted January 27, 2014 For one, if it's only to "seek" n have fun, it's THE app. Otherwise, may I suggest that there r 2 categories one can enter. A friendship side n a fuck shop side. This ways will clear up misunderstanding n rudeness of behavior. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mdrtaslim84 Posted January 27, 2014 Report Share Posted January 27, 2014 after a few months of using that app. i was kind of bored with that app already as i know how the conversation would usually turn out to be like. until this guy msged me. i thought he was just another sicko uncle trying to hook up on young guys. i ignored this guy for a few weeks, maybe close to 2 months? everyday, i would see him viewing my jackd profile. one day i got curious and replied him with a "hi", because i was wondering why is this guy so persistent. turns out that what i did that day was the right choice. he immediately replied me asking what i seek (as usually). i saw his message but didn't really bother much because i thought it was just another meaningless convo... then after a few days, he msged me telling me that he seek fun, and if not, anything else he would also be interested in. after chatting bla bla bla (long story), i was rather impressed by him. he is knowledgeable and gave very good meaningful convo. i agreed upon his date soon. i find no reason to reject him. he wanted to pick me up so i asked for his picture (i didn't get to see his foto all these time). yup we met up at wcp. it turns out that we had a lot to talk about. i was really really happy that night. it felt like i was instantly struck with love. LOL then he told me he thought i was looking for hook up on that app that's why he said he seek fun. in fact he doesn't seek fun, he just want to know me. today he is my bf. lol. to all the guys saying that young people nowadays are into money and looks and have bad personality bla bla bla, u are wrong. u are just unlucky. i fall under ur "young" category, but i didn't go for his looks, i didn't ask him for money either, he is so much older than me. just blame it on urself not being able to win their hearts.I met a guy on grindr last time and we became close friends for a year. Sadly, i was insecure back then and eventually part ways soon after. But to be honest, that one year was really something meaning for me. I owe it to him because he was my moral support and guardian angel. Wish we had reconcile. gongtang 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluemarlin Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 There are many jackasses in those apps. One classical example: Ass : Hi Me : Hello Ass : Seek ? Me : Please read my profile carefully. Ass : Read Me : Since u have read do you know the meaning of monosyllabic conversation? Ass : Ya Me : Then what are you typing above ? Ass : em... I fell like banging my head against the wall. Another example: One totally empty file texted me Ass2 : Hi Me : Hello Ass2 : Intro Me : Huh? can you read my profile ? its all written there. Ass2 : Pic Me : Huh ? Didn't u see my face in my profile ? Ass2 : Not clear Me : your profile is totally empty , no stats, no intro, no pic, you still dare to ask me so much? Ass2 : sorry I am discrete I bang my head again. upsize, samsara, rawbird and 1 other 4 Quote sleepy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leibniz Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 I asked two persons for a meet-up on Jack'd before. Both agreed but couldn't confirm the time. I didn't receive any reply from them after that. But thanks to them, I deleted my account and that really saved me from mental discomfort. Quote “Do the things at which you are great, not what you were never made for.” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigfishlegit Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 (edited) My public pictures in jackd are consistently being reported (and they are not even nude photos). So annoying.. But i think i finally met the guy for me through jackd. He is the reason why i stopped looking for other guys for fun :-) Edited February 12, 2014 by bigfishlegit muddywill, RealityCheck, samdiggin and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hermit Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 Received a Grindr msg yesterday which said: If you don't mind a lady, I'd like to help you JO.Didn't know there are female Grindr members... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dorkable Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 Received a Grindr msg yesterday which said: If you don't mind a lady, I'd like to help you JO.Didn't know there are female Grindr members... Perhaps he's a Transexual. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
undies87 Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 this thread is hilarious. and it is evidently a meat market. famous line from a faceless/discreet profile: Don't worry I am good looking. go fu*k yourself┌∩┐! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hermit Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 Perhaps he's a Transexual. That's what I thought at first. When I checked her profile, the pic showed an average looking lady in long sleeve shirt and pants. The profile info stated "Bi looking for guys". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigfishlegit Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 (edited) this thread is hilarious. and it is evidently a meat market.famous line from a faceless/discreet profile:Don't worry I am good looking.go fu*k yourself┌∩┐! sorry but im guilty of using this line once before lol.. But its not on my profile lah Edited February 12, 2014 by bigfishlegit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RatedG2 Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 I think guys who ask for more pics when they have nothing on their profile are the most annoying rawbird, In_shape, bondxXx and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluemarlin Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 I think guys who ask for more pics when they have nothing on their profile are the most annoying Just kena one who ask me for face pic, then after I send I ask for his, he say he is discrete. I think we should start a thread to expose those grindr profile who always cheat around. Quote sleepy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dorkable Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 I think guys who ask for more pics when they have nothing on their profile are the most annoying I get that sometimes as well....like today. I just blocked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyboi Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 For me, the guys asked for my pic n he already had his on his profile....i will give automatically no matter what the outcome is but if they don't i will ignore or asked them to initiate first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigfishlegit Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 (edited) Most annoying in my opinion are the posers. so far i have'nt met one, thank goodness.. Ill walk out on him for sure lol Edited February 12, 2014 by bigfishlegit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RatedG2 Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 Just kena one who ask me for face pic, then after I send I ask for his, he say he is discrete. I think we should start a thread to expose those grindr profile who always cheat around. Yes, I second that! I get that sometimes as well....like today. I just blocked. Yeah i do that too if the guy is persistent, but grindr has a limit on that unfortunately. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bailey Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 I find it hard to accept people who just initiated with a "hi", and left it at that... weirdest conv i had, cos i really wanted to see how far i can go with hi: A: "hi"Me: "hi"A: "hi"Me: "hi back"A: "hi"Me: "hi there"A: "hi"Me: "hi"A: "hi"Me: "hi"A: "hi"Me: "hi"A: "hi"Me: "hi"-conv end within 15 minutes- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluemarlin Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 I find it hard to accept people who just initiated with a "hi", and left it at that... weirdest conv i had, cos i really wanted to see how far i can go with hi: A: "hi" Me: "hi" A: "hi" Me: "hi back" A: "hi" Me: "hi there" A: "hi" Me: "hi" A: "hi" Me: "hi" A: "hi" Me: "hi" A: "hi" Me: "hi" -conv end within 15 minutes- yours a bit too intense. I always encounter this but spreads over a few days. Means everyday "HI" then silent for one day and then "hi" again .. NielKlient 1 Quote sleepy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted February 12, 2014 Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 yours a bit too intense. I always encounter this but spreads over a few days. Means everyday "HI" then silent for one day and then "hi" again ..I have the same issue I really dont know wtf some ppl wants bluemarlin 1 Quote Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
studdyboy Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 I find it hard to accept people who just initiated with a "hi", and left it at that... weirdest conv i had, cos i really wanted to see how far i can go with hi: A: "hi"Me: "hi"A: "hi"Me: "hi back"A: "hi"Me: "hi there"A: "hi"Me: "hi"A: "hi"Me: "hi"A: "hi"Me: "hi"A: "hi"Me: "hi"-conv end within 15 minutes- LOL~ this is SO funny and u even bother to reply him back!if it is me, after he said Hi to me twice with nothing more going on... i would either simply block him or delete him away Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThinkTank Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 a 'Hi' is still better than those who didn't bother to say hi or thank you as a reply.... Rude but too many reply in "hi" still unsincere and meaningless Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 Jus curious. How often would you guys exchange contacts for whatsapp only after a few line of chat or when you initiated your facepic and the person reply saying that his facepic is on whatsapp or will send you via whatsapp? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enelym1978 Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 I'm cold and ruthless... lol My profile says no face, no chat. So it doesn't matter whether you got a hot body saying hi, I will just ignore.... or block if insist And no whatsapp for pics... what's the difference between sending your pic on whatsapp or grindr? if someone wants to "steal" your pic, they will, no matter where you show your face. Worse comes to worse, I give my Line ID. I just don't feel like giving my phone number out to total strangers. What annoys me is the ones who initiate (thank you for doing that though haha) and when you reply, they just go silent Weird. TamPenis and shyboi 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dorkable Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 I ain't sure if it could be the same for others. But sometimes, I might go silent after my initial greetings as well. Depending on the first few lines of response, I could sometimes gauge if the other party is even the slightest keen on talking to me. If I sense that he prefers to be left alone, I would just fade out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jameshkh1209 Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 I ain't sure if it could be the same for others. But sometimes, I might go silent after my initial greetings as well. Depending on the first few lines of response, I could sometimes gauge if the other party is even the slightest keen on talking to me. If I sense that he prefers to be left alone, I would just fade out. Agree with Chapster. Some people pass off as cold and aloof with their replies, so naturally we'll be intimidated and shy away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 18, 2014 Report Share Posted May 18, 2014 He: btw, i m 34yo 176cm 68kg chi pure T, so u? T or B?Me: You giving me your ass?He: ver if chilled. do u chill? (he attached his ass and another pic)Me: Obviously you didn't read my profile. Be careful who you talk about drugs. Good luck. Bye.Blocked after giving him some time to read my last reply. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rawbird Posted May 18, 2014 Report Share Posted May 18, 2014 There are many jackasses in those apps. One classical example:Ass : HiMe : HelloAss : Seek ?Me : Please read my profile carefully.Ass : ReadMe : Since u have read do you know the meaning of monosyllabic conversation?Ass : YaMe : Then what are you typing above ?Ass : em...I fell like banging my head against the wall.Another example:One totally empty file texted meAss2 : HiMe : HelloAss2 : IntroMe : Huh? can you read my profile ? its all written there.Ass2 : PicMe : Huh ? Didn't u see my face in my profile ?Ass2 : Not clearMe : your profile is totally empty , no stats, no intro, no pic, you still dare to ask me so much?Ass2 : sorry I am discreteI bang my head again.Can't agreed more. Recently someone from my line group msg me in private. he seen my pics, my stats and lots of stuff about me.But when i ask him for a pic during our private conversation, he say he "wanna be discreet" Instead of banging wall i blocked him Quote line id: ask with a dp at least Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonelyboy90 Posted May 18, 2014 Report Share Posted May 18, 2014 yawns.. tonnes of horny guys in grindr and jack'd.. normal ones, very hard to find. hahahaha. im probably one of the few. Quote Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 20, 2014 Report Share Posted May 20, 2014 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted May 20, 2014 Report Share Posted May 20, 2014 But seriously... how much dyou charge? Kidding Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted May 20, 2014 Report Share Posted May 20, 2014 But seriously... how much dyou charge? Kidding Let me check with my papasan/mamasan Wait. I haven't got one! Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted May 21, 2014 Report Share Posted May 21, 2014 My public pictures in jackd are consistently being reported (and they are not even nude photos). So annoying..Either someone reported you or the moderator is super picky (and cockeye). I get that often too. How ironic that some guys put up their dick photos and can get away with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted May 21, 2014 Report Share Posted May 21, 2014 the worst experiences in all these apps I had are when people completely ignore your stats/profile description and ask stupid questions like "intro?".. dude if you spend a minute to read my profile you wouldn't have to piss me off the latest oddity I had was on Growlr, when this guy who doesn't know me at all cos I'm low profile but I know about him cos we've got too many mutual friends on Facebook.. anyway he hit me up first, wanting to have dinner or something a month ago. I waited for him to let me know when he's free because he said he was busy but nothing happened so I left it at that. last week I saw his profile again so I decided to chat. it seemed okay and we decided to arrange for dinner this week. seeing how he probably wouldn't initiate the dinner itself, I buzzed him last night asking when he's free. so he viewed my profile again & decided to ignore my question.. which is confusing. then again people on all these apps are confusing, including myself, so.. whatever rawbird 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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